How to stimulate Virgo

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Burberryplaid on Monday, August 29, 2011 and has 17 replies.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Stimulating a Virgo isn't the problem ... it's the other way around.

Virgo's don't know how to stimulate other people. It is common for people to make the assessment that Virgo's are boring .. that is a clear indication that the Virgo doesn't know what to do to stimulate the other person, or situation.

People stimulate Virgo's quite easily ... just look at them for longer than a couple seconds, and their minds start swirling.

Perhaps a thread should be made about how to stoke the other person .. you all could learn something and then have better relationships.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

PB: "P Angel, I'm with you. I was thinking about this the other day and why we get pegged w/ the boring label so much and its that we just don't want to do anything wrong so we do nothing at all."

Indeed ... so then what happens when you do nothing at all, stimulating the relationshp becomes a burden to the other person because the other person is the one who has to do work for two people.

People need to "think" about how they are percieved. Most times people only measure life according to their own self-image and never look beyond that .... when beyond how you see yourself is who you really are.

If people percieve you as boring, then that is where you to start to try and gauge yourself.

Just like with my people, others see Pisces as ditzy people who live in a fantasy world, and Pisces people would deny that ... rather than understand that this is how they are being percieved, so therefore, this is how they really are. I suppose the human ego would rather people have blind eyes to themselves because the truth is too much to handle.

You know, you say you do nothing because you don't want to do anything wrong ... have you ever stopped to think that doing nothing is actual the wrong thing?

Just last week, I was talking to a female Virgo in Cancerland, and telling her that the issue she was having with Cancer man is that instead of doing anything to stoke him up so he realizes she has passion .... she did nothing, and left him feeling like she didn't care.

Doing nothing is why you are boring .... don't you think a thread addressing this might help you guys to understand this inherent problem? Covering it up with sexual sarcasm is ignorance .. anybody can have an orgasm, and we don't even need a Virgo to do that. So, to use that as a comeback only proves that that is all you got .... that's it.

Is there nothing more?

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@Burberryplaid
15 Years

Posted by VIRGIE
Clean the kitchen!!!! LOL 😉

Well I wiped down VirGuy's desk with a Lysol wipe...it's a start! 😉

I just wanted to say that I didn't mean to make this a serious thread. I know Virgo is known as being enticed by intellect and I love that the VirGuy in my life seems to like my mind. I don't have to dumb myself down for him. One of the nicest things about our relationship is the witty banter and teasing we share....like mental foreplay! Knowing I can't be with him romantically makes it that much more intense.

At any rate, I think it's been pretty well documented here that I love Virgos and I don't think they are boring at all..they may be a bit shyer or more subtle than other signs but to me that makes them more tantalizing...I am always wanting to dig deeper and know more...

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@CLCNY30
16 Years1,000+ Posts

No worries--NO thread in the Virgo section is allowed to be fun, without the usual suspect(s) coming to chide us on smiling without permission. How dare we be happy without signing the proper forms? Who are we to not report to the correct department for our scowl chips to be implanted?

Those who don't understand the sign, and never will, shall always fight (in vain at that, silly souls) to change it.

And they never will.

We bow to no one.

I'd tell them to get over it, but it seems to be all they have in life--that glimmer of idiotic hope.

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@24capgal18
15 Years500+ PostsCapricorn

this is a pretty funny thread yall know....since me and my virgo always are talkin intellect with eachother and gettin into deep discussions....I am always tryin to get playful to lighten the mood up ....but serios just works for the both of us....It is always us plannin to do somethin ...or tryin to find ways to get money....playin li dirty games that us two know we understand is just all in fun....others take it as me the cap is even more serious...although we are different signs we mesh together as to alike....so similiar that we understand how and what one another thinks almost imediately when conversations start ....he can look in my eyes and knows there is somethin bein thought...i can look at him and know what hes thinkin....great damn signs alll......one thing that i do to stroke him up is rub and kiss on his stomache....that is always when he starts to rub on me and then wanna kiss and we are in our own world from there

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@LostinmyMind11
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@24capgal18....I had to log in because your posts are driving me crazy!! I feel like a 5 year old is writing them...I can't even get past the first sentence. Please read them before posting or something....ahhhh!!!!

I'm not trying to be mean or hurtful but come on now....and in know way shape or form am I projecting myself as perfect (I make mistakes) but COME ON!!

Ok I'm done 🙂

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@LostinmyMind11
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Posted by LostinmyMind11
@24capgal18....I had to log in because your posts are driving me crazy!! I feel like a 5 year old is writing them...I can't even get past the first sentence. Please read them before posting or something....ahhhh!!!!

I'm not trying to be mean or hurtful but come on now....and in NO (not know) way shape or form am I projecting myself as perfect (I make mistakes) but COME ON!!

Ok I'm done 🙂

Had to fix it lol