lildol
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I don't know what to do...
As long as the tone in the disagreements remains somewhat civil, it shouldnt be much of a problem. Happens to me all the time, whats important is to remain respectful towards one another and accept each others' style . Taking things personally is the only thing that would bring along real damage, so try not to even if the Virgo sounds like he wants you to 😛
:::: shakes head ::::
How pathetic .... you sound like you're proud to not know you're suppose to pick your fights
How pathetic .... you sound like you're proud to not know you're suppose to pick your fights
Allowing yourself to be reduced to fighting over those things shows your weakness .... how exactly do you equate that to always being right?
Aww, no Bingo for P today? 😛
Why put labels on it? the relationship obviously means a lot to lildoll and it most probably means a lot to the virgo too.
I think it has a lot to do with stress and I become an easy target. If we didn't live together there would be less opportunity. I just need to find a way to balance it better on my end and try to change my communication style so that it doesn't turn into a battle of wills around every corner... and that is what I was looking for with my original post, suggestions on that front.
You two aren't a partnership .... this was established by him in October last year, just before he left for his Florida home, when he told you that he isn't the man you have visioned in your head, and for you to wake up and go find someone.
How long is this delusion going to last?
I knew it was only a business arrangement last June when you told dxp that he handed over his finances and books to you, to take care of just after your very first meeting with him, when he told you he wanted you. ~ he hired you, and you took wanting to mean intimately.
A Virgo is NOT going to hand over his finances to a woman he just met. And because you work for him explains why he has to tell you that you two aren't in a relationship just before he leaves for 5 months.
Additionally, you now have a thread going on the Pisces board, where you are entertaining how it feels to have a fish hot after you, and you want to talk about it, so you can feel it. If you were indeed partnered AND a good woman - you wouldn't be entertaining the affections of other men.
It's all in the history .... one only has to read to get to the truth.
You're playing people here with this story ..... it's not real and there are several people in here who realize it no matter how much you deny that this is a fabrication.
How long is this delusion going to last?
I knew it was only a business arrangement last June when you told dxp that he handed over his finances and books to you, to take care of just after your very first meeting with him, when he told you he wanted you. ~ he hired you, and you took wanting to mean intimately.
A Virgo is NOT going to hand over his finances to a woman he just met. And because you work for him explains why he has to tell you that you two aren't in a relationship just before he leaves for 5 months.
Additionally, you now have a thread going on the Pisces board, where you are entertaining how it feels to have a fish hot after you, and you want to talk about it, so you can feel it. If you were indeed partnered AND a good woman - you wouldn't be entertaining the affections of other men.
It's all in the history .... one only has to read to get to the truth.
You're playing people here with this story ..... it's not real and there are several people in here who realize it no matter how much you deny that this is a fabrication.
Posted by P-Angel
How long is this delusion going to last?
I suppose as long as he's hugging me, kissing me, telling me how much he cares for me and introducing me as his woman... last I checked that actually inferred something. But you have probably forgotten by now what that is like.
The rest of what you said is not worthy of even commenting on as you are twisting things, misquoting what has been shared and misrepresenting events and their timeline. But, that's a Pisces for ya, living in their own fantasy land!!!
I just gotta bend I suppose if I want to continue on with this... God knows he's not going to. On and on this morning how I have to do things my own way (duh!), I don't listen, how he's trying to teach me and how I should just listen to him because he is right 😛. Fine, be right, what difference does it make if I take the stupid route you want as opposed to the one I know that is tried and true (of course, my position and why we're butting heads, what difference does it make if we do it my way? Good God Almighty!!!) But, in the end, he said that he accepts that of me - that I'm difficult LOL - and it doesn't change the way he feels about me. He started to walk away from the car and turned back motioning me to wait, my thought was "what now?", but no, he walked over to the driver's side and gave me a kiss (then told me I was a stubborn woman as he went on his way *rolls eyes*).
LOL that last part just summons perfectly the cappy-virgo dynamics 😛
But its necessary to alternate between the "this time Im getting my way vs this time you'll have it your way" in a fair manner, BOTH OF YOU!
But its necessary to alternate between the "this time Im getting my way vs this time you'll have it your way" in a fair manner, BOTH OF YOU!
He turns everything negative. It's crazy making. I make a comment and he immediately thinks I'm against him or saying something to criticize. It was a god damn analysis for Christ's sake about him taking the truck to the barn when it would have saved money if I just drove him given the fact he wanted me to follow anyway and then he left the truck there and I drove home. Nothing to do with him really, just commenting on that we really didn't need to take 2 vehicles. But, no, he thinks I'm somehow condemning him when I was just saying it would have been more efficient to take 1 vehicle. Food for thought dumb ass!! (no, I didn't say that - maybe I should have)
Even his reaction to some other statement I made last night while we were at the barn made my head spin. He starts going off on something unrelated about how his family was when he was growing up and being confrontational (my parents apparently raised my siblings and I wrong because they wouldn't let us physically fight each other, that's not how you treat family - his parents, on the other hand, didn't stop such behavior, encouraged it to toughen 'em up and even described them as abusive, e.g., pouring hot coffee on his head; so, he's a better person than me? That's what he said, that he's a better person because of his upbringing *smh*). He was literally trying to push my buttons and get me going by making a personal attack, I refused to engage him and his stupid shit, which I think set him off more. I'm looking at him like he has 2 heads, WTF? I finally asked, "What does that have to do with ________?". He brushed off my question and continued his ranting. I walked away.
Then he tells me this morning, again, that I'M difficult and no one can understand me.
Even his reaction to some other statement I made last night while we were at the barn made my head spin. He starts going off on something unrelated about how his family was when he was growing up and being confrontational (my parents apparently raised my siblings and I wrong because they wouldn't let us physically fight each other, that's not how you treat family - his parents, on the other hand, didn't stop such behavior, encouraged it to toughen 'em up and even described them as abusive, e.g., pouring hot coffee on his head; so, he's a better person than me? That's what he said, that he's a better person because of his upbringing *smh*). He was literally trying to push my buttons and get me going by making a personal attack, I refused to engage him and his stupid shit, which I think set him off more. I'm looking at him like he has 2 heads, WTF? I finally asked, "What does that have to do with ________?". He brushed off my question and continued his ranting. I walked away.
Then he tells me this morning, again, that I'M difficult and no one can understand me.
Posted by lildol
... as you are twisting things, misquoting what has been shared and misrepresenting events and their timeline. But, that's a Pisces for ya, living in their own fantasy land!!!
That's what people use as an excuse when they're wrong ...
meanwhile, here's a reality check ....
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/and-so-why-2585398/
re: initial post
is there some confusion between correcting for the sake of optimising or is it really arguing with you instead of the problem?
i notice this capricorn i know might be a little sensitive that when i correct, i'm correcting the content and not the person. so i have to make that really clear to him - objective focused so there's no misunderstanding
i actually been seeking another earth element to have a relationship with for a change and its good that you report such an issue so the rest of us can be aware. but then again there are other features of someone's astrology that give a spectrum of virgo like there is a spectrum of capricorn
is there some confusion between correcting for the sake of optimising or is it really arguing with you instead of the problem?
i notice this capricorn i know might be a little sensitive that when i correct, i'm correcting the content and not the person. so i have to make that really clear to him - objective focused so there's no misunderstanding
i actually been seeking another earth element to have a relationship with for a change and its good that you report such an issue so the rest of us can be aware. but then again there are other features of someone's astrology that give a spectrum of virgo like there is a spectrum of capricorn
Posted by caribbeangoldPosted by P-Angel
That's what people use as an excuse when they're wrong ...
meanwhile, here's a reality check ....
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/and-so-why-2585398/
she didnt start complaining so much about her virgo friend until the pisces...
now that she is indirectly entertaining/wondering about the pisces...she doesnt see the luster on her virgo friend no more...
i mean, didnt he come the other day to see her and supposedly, they had a good time?
i was expecting this turnaround after seeing the pisces thread...and it happened indeed
drama drama drama dramachick...
cant fool a water sign...dear
the virgo will be fine though, he probably sensed her drama ways and took heed...
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Drama indeed.
First we hear all about how his 5 month hiatus in his Florida home has come to an end for the summer and how awesome it is that she finally gets to be with him again. She is so estatic with joy, fondness and love for him.
They celebrate this by going out to buy a race horse.
Then on May 21st, she makes that thread on the Pisces board, which she says she told her Virgo about the Pisces wanting her attention, after I called her out for wanting to enjoy the attention of the Pisces Man, while claiming to have the Virgo in a relationship.
then 2 days later, this thread appears ..... saying her and Virgo are arguing over stupid shit, like who is right.
Coincidence?
Or just fueling drama ?
Posted by caribbeangold
she didnt start complaining so much about her virgo friend until the pisces...
The two are unrelated and in fact it was weird that only 2 days prior to the Pisces calling My Virgo asked me when the last time he had called.
Posted by caribbeangold
now that she is indirectly entertaining/wondering about the pisces...she doesnt see the luster on her virgo friend no more...
Actually, I was questioning the odd behavior. You would be hard pressed to find a Cap calling someone who told them to go to hell and never call again. Besides, I have plenty of suitors, I don't need to entertain any ideas about a whacked out Pisces who publicly humiliated and lied about me.
Posted by caribbeangold
i mean, didnt he come the other day to see her and supposedly, they had a good time?
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Who? My Virgo? We live together.
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