DeliberateInContext
@DeliberateInContext
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I need a Virgo girl's help
Your chart and hers could help.
I read you said she goes out with you on dates so she's either a user or just being hard on herself wondering why you won't make a move on her already.
It's not to a man's advantage to let us overthink. It will invariably go in the direction of "well he never tried to kiss me so he probably only wants to be friends."
Grab her and kiss her.
It's not to a man's advantage to let us overthink. It will invariably go in the direction of "well he never tried to kiss me so he probably only wants to be friends."
Grab her and kiss her.
@yupvirgoo I'm an Aries, but Virgos make total sense to me (except for when there's mixed signals 🙂. Strangely enough they keep popping up in my life. I've been in long term relationships with them. I've dated my "match" the Leo's as well. I felt way more comfortable with the Virgo.
@Damnata I feel that is the only way. Are you a Virgo?
@Damnata I feel that is the only way. Are you a Virgo?
Posted by DeliberateInContextYeah, I am.
@yupvirgoo I'm an Aries, but Virgos make total sense to me. Strangely enough they keep popping up in my life. I've been in long term relationships with them. I've dated my "match" the Leo's as well. I felt way more comfortable with the Virgo.
@Damnata I feel that is the only way. Are you a Virgo?
I have Aries Moon and Mars, dated Aries men. That upfront Arian approach leaves no room for doubt with us which will work in your favor.
Posted by DamnataI'd start off gradually if I were him. At least with the physical touches.
I read you said she goes out with you on dates so she's either a user or just being hard on herself wondering why you won't make a move on her already.
It's not to a man's advantage to let us overthink. It will invariably go in the direction of "well he never tried to kiss me so he probably only wants to be friends."
Grab her and kiss her.
@OP you haven't even hugged yet. Get to this stage first before jumping the gun. That could be my cap moon speaking, though. I usually don't kiss a guy until the third+ date. I'd advise against pouring out your feelings; comes off as emotionally clingy. Start out with a simple 'I like you' and see how she reacts. I appreciate a more straight forward approach.
@Virgorean thank you for response and insight!
Virgo's are pretty reserved so everything we keep mostly to ourself until we trust that person enough to open up to them. Once we actually open up, for some of us, we can act like a Leo. But yeah, you will have to wait.
@Aleta thank you for the response. I have no problem at all with that 🙂
Can you show us her chart?
Because if she has a fire moon, slow is not the good way to go.
Go on cafeastrology.com and run a birth chart and tell us her sun,moon,venus, mars etc
Because if she has a fire moon, slow is not the good way to go.
Go on cafeastrology.com and run a birth chart and tell us her sun,moon,venus, mars etc
Posted by Damnata@Damnata okay, so do with this what you will.
Can you show us her chart?
Because if she has a fire moon, slow is not the good way to go.
Go on cafeastrology.com and run a birth chart and tell us her sun,moon,venus, mars etc
her:
sun: Virgo
moon: Aries
Mercury: Virgo
Venus: Leo
Mars: Leo
Jupiter: Sagittarius
Saturn: Scorpio
Uranus: Sagittarius
Neptune: Sagittarius
Pluto: Libra
Me:
Sun: Aries
Moon: Aries (or Pisces?)
Mercury: Taurus
Venus: Taurus
Mars: Taurus
Jupiter: Sagittarius
Saturn: Scorpio
Uranus: Sagittarius
Neptune: Sagittarius
Pluto: Libra
Posted by DeliberateInContextHa!Posted by Damnata@Damnata okay, so do with this what you will.
Can you show us her chart?
Because if she has a fire moon, slow is not the good way to go.
Go on cafeastrology.com and run a birth chart and tell us her sun,moon,venus, mars etc
her:
sun: Virgo
moon: Aries
Mercury: Virgo
Venus: Leo
Mars: Leo
Jupiter: Sagittarius
Saturn: Scorpio
Uranus: Sagittarius
Neptune: Sagittarius
Pluto: Libra
Me:
Sun: Aries
Moon: Aries (or Pisces?)
Mercury: Taurus
Venus: Taurus
Mars: Taurus
Jupiter: Sagittarius
Saturn: Scorpio
Uranus: Sagittarius
Neptune: Sagittarius
Pluto: Libra
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Well yeah, I have Virgo sun, Aries Moon and Aries Mars.
Aries placements know they dig someone pretty quick and if dates go by and nothing happens...that overthinking Virgo sun will kick in and it's a wrap from there cuz we suck at picking up hints. Let's just say my Taurus Mars/Aries Sun ex...I thought for a fact he was either gay or not into me like that despite going on dates every day for a full week. Meanwhile in his mind he was talking the slow approach with me to not spook me out. I finally lost it on the 7th day and just asked him straight up what the fuck he is doing because that's all sorts of mixed signals to me.
"I'm trying to date you, what do you think I'm doing?"
"Oh. Kiss me"
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