I THINK I LOST A VIRGO, MADE BAD IMPRESSION ! =(

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Lovelydove
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Hi , Im a 21 year old leo female. I met my virgo on twitter a few months back. I was away in school and he was either going through a break up or having problems in his relationship. So we didnt meet up right away. I finally met him two weeks ago on a Thursday night after he got off work , we talked and got to know each other. I left and when i got home he texted me saying "You know you could of stayed longer right" , I texted back saying "i didnt know you wanted me to" . So we seen each other the next night (friday) and we hit it off so well that we kissed and became intimate . It was amazing. He expressed that he loved it and that he really liked the fact that i was really clean . the whole weekend was us just meeting up listening to music and being intimate and talking a lot . He started to open up about his family and said how much he liked me . he even started to call me baby . cuddling afterwards. We met up the next weekend and did the samething . Monday i seen his ex girlfriend post on his facebook wall that she still loved him . he responded saying "i love you too" . i texted him a long text saying how if he goes back to his ex it would be a mistake because he knows the outcome of the relationship and that he should get to know me more . i even told him that i know he's afraid of something new but if he gives me a try he won't regret it . i also told him we could take it slow . he responded with "i understand" . one day i got upset about him not texting me . i flooded him with texts . and i apologized for that but he acted like he didnt notice all those texts . like he didnt know what i was talking about . so i told him goodnight and he told me goodnight . and i thought everything was fine . yesterday i texted him 5 times (not all at once lol) and he didnt respond. i texted him today and he hasnt responded. i think i blew it . input ? i really like him and with some guidance i think we would make a great couple . my father is a virgo and we get along great . help me out please 😢
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Lovelydove
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13 Years

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Hey You Guys ! lol
To Prove the lady right ... i am a nut for texting him that much . and i did let my jealousy of the ex lead me to think he still have feelings for her . i don't think he does . i think he liked me a lot and needed space to get hisself together . soooo with that being said ... IM RETARDED , because i texted him again tonite and no answer . so i am gonna throw my phone away lol and not text him . i like this guy , the chase is something i can deal with . if he didnt like me he would of text me and said stop bothering me . i had no right in bringing his ex up . i dont her or even why they broke up . sooo how long you guys think i should give him ?

oh yea , and you're also right about me just being a girl a he's having sex with . i got a little ahead of myself .
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Lovelydove
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Im a Leo
I Understand the odds . But i Really Like Him . Virgo or Not Though . From All the Texts today .. if he didnt like me he would of said something by now . Im willing to wait along time . im not in love but , i never met anyone like him and he interests me a great deal. the last text i sent was honesty and i told him i apologize for bringing up his ex and rushing him and i told him i only did that because i liked him a lot . i told him to contact me when he's ready to give me another chance . my ex was a gemini so all of this is new to me . im kind of a straight forward person and kinda impulsive . he slows me down a bit and i get a sense of calmness from him . thats what i like most about him . lol and yes what i did seem very stalkish and very pushy .
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Lovelydove
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Hey hey hey
She is right though , he's attracted to how strong and honest i am . me bringing up his ex only made me look weak and jealous . i should of kept quiet and not act like a crazy person with all the texting . ASSUMING he was scared to pursue me . she made me see this whole thing in another light . and for that i am thankful . he has only said nice things to me and about me . i should have known that he liked me and left what i seen on facebook alone . this is a set back , but im ok with that 🙂

it will get better , we had too much in common for him to just let me go
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Hi , Im a 21 year old leo female. I met my virgo on twitter a few months back. I was away in school and he was either going through a break up or having problems in his relationship. So we didnt meet up right away. I finally met him two weeks ago on a Thursday night after he got off work , we talked and got to know each other. I left and when i got home he texted me saying "You know you could of stayed longer right" , I texted back saying "i didnt know you wanted me to" . So we seen each other the next night (friday) and we hit it off so well that we kissed and became intimate . It was amazing. He expressed that he loved it and that he really liked the fact that i was really clean . the whole weekend was us just meeting up listening to music and being intimate and talking a lot . He started to open up about his family and said how much he liked me . he even started to call me baby . cuddling afterwards. We met up the next weekend and did the samething . Monday i seen his ex girlfriend post on his facebook wall that she still loved him . he responded saying "i love you too" . i texted him a long text saying how if he goes back to his ex it would be a mistake because he knows the outcome of the relationship and that he should get to know me more . i even told him that i know he's afraid of something new but if he gives me a try he won't regret it . i also told him we could take it slow . he responded with "i understand" . one day i got upset about him not texting me . i flooded him with texts . and i apologized for that but he acted like he didnt notice all those texts . like he didnt know what i was talking about . so i told him goodnight and he told me goodnight . and i thought everything was fine . yesterday i texted him 5 times (not all at once lol) and he didnt respond. i texted him today and he hasnt responded. i think i blew it . input ? i really like him and with some guidance i think we would make a great couple . my father is a virgo and we get along great . help me out please 😢



Lol @ he liked the fact that I was really clean. Really? Any man would appreciate that. You sound pretty desperado. 5 times? Flooding him with texts? Were you on fire? Were you dying? Were you having a brain hemorrhage?

There is no way in hell you should contact someone like that unless you are in dire need of assistance. I'm sure that annoyed him very much
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RealTalk
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Cut off :/

You're trying to convince him to choose you over her. If he wants to be with her, there is nothing on earth you can do about it. You will never be able to convince/manipulate a man into a relationship with you if he doesn't want it. I promise you that. Just go with the flow & see what happens, but don't ever contact him like that again. You look like a needy, crazed, desperate chick. I'd be surprised if he wants to hang out again.

If not, please don't come back with the infamous thread "My Virgo pulled a disappearing act". 😛
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celticlioness
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Posted by Lovelydove
So He Just Text Me 😄
It Was Short But Im Happy He Texted lol
He Just Said "Alright "
But Atleast i Know He's still interested and understands how I feel
Im Still Going To Wait For Him To Text Again . Im Going To Give It a Month and it sees how it goes . Thank You Two So Much . You BOTH Were A Great Help . Mwah Mwah Mwah ! 😄 I Will Keep You Guys Posted



Young Lion - you're on fire with emotion, so happy with the attention lost and (in your eyes) regained, this does not mean he is still interested, this simply means he has responded to your text saying you'll back off and he's thinking "thank god safe to send her an quick short text and get this one over and done with". He's polite - now, as virgo's can be. He didn't respond to your barrage of texts because you chased him away and he thought he had a bunny boiler on his hands, he now thinks you have calmed down. I don't think you have, and I think you will give it at most a week before you can't control your impulses and you text him again. Write this one off - he's not over his ex and you were just sex.
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Lovelydove
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13 Years

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Hi You Guys !!!
I Just Wanted To Give You Folks An Update .
I Didnt Contact Him and Kept Myself Busy and On Sunday He Called .
Of course I did the "girly scream thing" before i answered . He apologized and told that the reason he vanished was because his ex told him that she was pregnant and he needed time to think . Make a long story short , she was lying in hopes that he'll come back to her . We made plans to go running yesterday morning and had a GREAT time . We have a "date" this friday , and I cant wait . I am preparing for the worst though , just in case he chickens out . I really like this guy, like i said im naturally restless and very impulsive . Him in my life kinda calms me and slows everything down . I do need to ask a question . Are Virgos Bossy !?! Because when we went for that run yesterday he got kinda , mean lol . We were jogging together and he just stops and says "You Usually Run By Yourself Huh?" and I stopped and turn around and said "yea i do" he shook his head and said "well keep a steady pace because your running and you'll burn out that way" ....me personally i feel he just couldnt keep up lol BUT i didnt say that , i smiled and said "yes sir" . I am certainly smitten though.
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Yes, we can be pretty bossy. LOL, while reading your story there my mind quickly flashed to that scene in the movie "Entrapment" with Virgo Sean Connery when he's making Catherine Zeta's character run (he puts her through a rigorous workout routine so they can steal an ancient artifact) and steady bossing her all about. As a matter of fact, he's bossing her up and down the place the entire movie...So funneeeee

Nice to hear that everything is working out for you!