I told him how I feel and was rejected kind of

Posted by pr_princess
How do you Virgo react to emotions? What turns you off? When you show someone you care about them and say "you just want to be friends". I don't get it. I thought Virgos show their care but don't speak it. I noticed he cares. I noticed his possessiveness. Why when told or questioned, they suddenly get all bothered?

i would say the exact opposite.. we feel emotions but dont usually share them unless we can trust you or you are a good friend. I cant speak for why he gets bothered without more information. we "care" about a lot of people.. but deeper than that is different. what turns me off is forwardness, disrespect, and lewdness. respect is a big thing. treat me like a lady and i'll show you how much you can be treated like a man, and i would expect vice versa.

btw, emotions scare the shit out of me if too early or i dont know you well enough... unless i am totally digging you. might try backing off a bit and letting him pursue.. we do like a little challenge!

okay, i just went through basically the situation recently... cherish the friendship that you are building. however, beware.. because if he is ready he will let you know. you have to understand how much emotional damage among other things divorce does to a person. if he's telling you friends, i would expect that's what he means.

People in here need to go back and read your posting history before commenting on this thread. I did read it, and I know that you have described a man who is married, and cheats on his wife to be with you.


You say you care, but, you don't .. any woman who would be "the other" woman and knowingly hurting the wife ... is a lower life form

1. She left him before i was in the picture.
2. They're not together.
3. Don't judge other peoples relationships
4. To be honest, everyone is capable of cheating.
5. You have the freedom to love anyone.

Posted by 25thDecan
You are not describing "emotions". You are describing certain displays of certain emotive feelings and the myriad of ways different people "express" their emotions through behavior and sometimes "displays of emotion". A reaction...any reaction would be "display" of emotion. Communicating it verbally or physically is how it is "expressed".

Most MEN clam up at emotion displays that border on or are outbursts. This is what it is. If a woman noticed I cared and stated that she did..i'd acknowledge. If she immediately friend-zoned me as a result..i'd still care but i'd begin to cut off contact with her and move on. I have enough friends who are women, dig? But that's me. How can we possibly know this guy?

Another point: I've experienced this with scorps and pisces and libra women. Asking a question from something they've seen me do in a way that is gaslighting. Ie...asking a question to point out something about ME that they are alluding to not being in their opinion of what the "norm" should be(because "normal" is actually bull and never acknowledges or accepts someone's legitimacy to be THEM and not some vision created by the other person).
And of course not all those women do that but plenty I've run into. It's either a reason to ignore the person(strong defense mechanism) or a reason to try and explain yourself. When you do the latter you've opened for abuse.

That said(yeah it was a lot) what is it really that you're trying to "know" about this guy? What actually happened to lead to this? We are virgos but we are also after all..just as human as you. Sometimes people demand we act one way and don't realize that we ALL have priority to act...just as ourselves. We are not "legion"....that would be capricorns.

lol we are legion pls create a thread and expound


from knowlege of virgo male friends once they say something they actually mean it. but they do tend to keep there emotions inside

Posted by pr_princess

1. She left him before i was in the picture.

False statement ^^^^^ ... I would suggest you delete your prior postings, otherwise, people can read for themselves that not only were you in the picture, you made an excuse in saying that it's ok for you if a man cheats .. in fact someone even questioned you on that comment and made it perfectly clear that you didn't mind that he's cheater.


Seriously ..... know people are able to put two and two together and don't everything at face value. If you plan on people viewing this thread ONLY for what you say, then you should probably go and delete everything else, because clearly you don't own what you say.