Is this a good thing?

I gave a Virgo man my number and he texted me a few hours later. Anyway we have a lot in common and we talk about a lot of stuff there's always something to talk about. However I kind of get a little uneasy cause he'll read it then reply an hour or so later so I was feeling like maybe he just doesn't want to talk to me? I told him if I ever irritate him he can tell me and I'll lay off but he insists that I'm not he always says it's alright... but.. I still feel uneven. I'm a Leo btw. I'm on a good track right?

Posted by lavaliquid

Posted by leo16
I gave a Virgo man my number and he texted me a few hours later. Anyway we have a lot in common and we talk about a lot of stuff there's always something to talk about. However I kind of get a little uneasy cause he'll read it then reply an hour or so later so I was feeling like maybe he just doesn't want to talk to me? I told him if I ever irritate him he can tell me and I'll lay off but he insists that I'm not he always says it's alright... but.. I still feel uneven. I'm a Leo btw. I'm on a good track right?

You showed him need a lot of attention by stating that you feel like your irritating him.

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Yeah, but he said I wasn't.

Posted by lavaliquid

Posted by leo16
I gave a Virgo man my number and he texted me a few hours later. Anyway we have a lot in common and we talk about a lot of stuff there's always something to talk about. However I kind of get a little uneasy cause he'll read it then reply an hour or so later so I was feeling like maybe he just doesn't want to talk to me? I told him if I ever irritate him he can tell me and I'll lay off but he insists that I'm not he always says it's alright... but.. I still feel uneven. I'm a Leo btw. I'm on a good track right?

You showed him need a lot of attention by stating that you feel like your irritating him.

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I def don't need a lot of attention. I didn't tell him I feel like I irritate him.

Having a Virgo moon makes me Virgo-like. One thing we enjoy is time to ourselves. It's how we recharge our batteries and process thoughts & emotions. Don't take it personally if we don't get back to you straight away. "It's not you, it's us".

The worst thing you can do is force the issue and keep bringing it up, it'll send us running for the hills. Respect our need for alone time and we'll really appreciate it in the longrun. We'll get back to you when we're ready.

Don't rush us. You definitely don't want him to mentally associate you with the feeling of annoyance. Because that's all you'll manage to do if you keep pestering him when he's being quiet - annoy. There's a Cancer like that in my life who pesters me for conversation at the worst times, to the point where whenever I see his messages coming through I automatically groan or roll my eyes.

I'm honestly really bad at replying to texts. Sometimes I will see the message and forget to respond back because something came up or I was preoccupied at the time. I kind of screen my texts...I'll read it to see if it's important and if I believe it can wait then I will take a mental note to respond back, but I do respond back. Don't take it personally. If we like you we will reply back.

Posted by DivaCanLeo
you sound like a stage 1 clinger.

Okay. That's nice. You sound like a cunt.(:

Posted by Virgorean
I'm honestly really bad at replying to texts. Sometimes I will see the message and forget to respond back because something came up or I was preoccupied at the time. I kind of screen my texts...I'll read it to see if it's important and if I believe it can wait then I will take a mental note to respond back, but I do respond back. Don't take it personally. If we like you we will reply back.

I asked him he said , he doesn't mean too and he doesn't mind if i double text. So.

Posted by leo16
I gave a Virgo man my number and he texted me a few hours later. Anyway we have a lot in common and we talk about a lot of stuff there's always something to talk about. However I kind of get a little uneasy cause he'll read it then reply an hour or so later so I was feeling like maybe he just doesn't want to talk to me? I told him if I ever irritate him he can tell me and I'll lay off but he insists that I'm not he always says it's alright... but.. I still feel uneven. I'm a Leo btw. I'm on a good track right?

I think he likes u which is why he's reassuring u. But from my experience Virgo men really like confident women so I'd shake that Leo mane and not question how he feels 🙂