butterfly1107
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It is so possible!!!
A year for what? I hope this is not a negative comment.
"A year for what? I hope this is not a negative comment."
You've got to be kidding .. this is the Virgo board. If that caused this kind of reaction from you .. then I say once you two start living with each other, I'd give it a month, tops. If you are living together and that's what you meant by "official", then I give it another 30 days.
lol, you're in for a rough ride if you are so easily knocked around over that kind of a comment.
You've got to be kidding .. this is the Virgo board. If that caused this kind of reaction from you .. then I say once you two start living with each other, I'd give it a month, tops. If you are living together and that's what you meant by "official", then I give it another 30 days.
lol, you're in for a rough ride if you are so easily knocked around over that kind of a comment.
Unfortunately .. most people think of endings as a failure.
To have an experience with a person, for however long it lasts, and then it ends .. doesn't mean it wasn't a success, nor does it mean it's an ending so long as people carry with them what was learned. The purpose is to experience .. for better or for worse, to evolve.
Bad experiences are actually good experiences, in reality, because it molds our outlook .. provides growth. That is to say IF we look at it objectively and allow ourselves to learn from the experience.
Sadly .. that usually doesn't happen. Most people measure by ..
Right or wrong
Truth or lies
Good or bad
Pretty or ugly
Nice or nasty
etc.
When in reality .. we all have our own, that changes with each new thought (quantum mechanics) and is there to provide for our own standard of living within the normalacy of our own perceptions of sanity. And if we only allow ourselves a limited category in which to view (conditioning), then the outcome will be either .. a success or failure.
Heaven or Hell .. we are programmed for this, and the only way around it is to comprehend that life is a paradox of hypocracies.
To have an experience with a person, for however long it lasts, and then it ends .. doesn't mean it wasn't a success, nor does it mean it's an ending so long as people carry with them what was learned. The purpose is to experience .. for better or for worse, to evolve.
Bad experiences are actually good experiences, in reality, because it molds our outlook .. provides growth. That is to say IF we look at it objectively and allow ourselves to learn from the experience.
Sadly .. that usually doesn't happen. Most people measure by ..
Right or wrong
Truth or lies
Good or bad
Pretty or ugly
Nice or nasty
etc.
When in reality .. we all have our own, that changes with each new thought (quantum mechanics) and is there to provide for our own standard of living within the normalacy of our own perceptions of sanity. And if we only allow ourselves a limited category in which to view (conditioning), then the outcome will be either .. a success or failure.
Heaven or Hell .. we are programmed for this, and the only way around it is to comprehend that life is a paradox of hypocracies.
"they are very well capable of falling in love and giving their entire heart to you."
Of course they are capable .. we all are. Was that in dispute?
What is unique, though, is the manner in which it is recieved.
Of course they are capable .. we all are. Was that in dispute?
What is unique, though, is the manner in which it is recieved.
prringLeo .. I'm just babbling about life itself and not really directed towards any person, except who wants to read it. lol
How are you doing today?
How are you doing today?
"He tells me that he loves me all the time...acutally he tells me more than I tell him! He treats me with so much respect and he makes me feel like the queen that I am and I am loving every moment of it."
I do have a question, for not just the person who wrote this, but, all of us: Do you ever find changes you need to make for yourself once you've written it down to read, even if you hadn't thought of it for what it means beforehand, eventhough you are the one who wrote it?
What made me think of this was the above copied quote .. for him to make me feel respected and like a queen, he tells me that he loves me a lot .. this makes me love every moment.
Why does he tell me more than I do him? If it makes me feel so good, wouldn't it him, also? Am I making him feel like a King, eventhough, I've so acknowledged that he is giving me more in one area of our life than I am giving back?
That would make me wonder .. such as it is, about the giving and recieving of sentiments in my own relationship.
I do have a question, for not just the person who wrote this, but, all of us: Do you ever find changes you need to make for yourself once you've written it down to read, even if you hadn't thought of it for what it means beforehand, eventhough you are the one who wrote it?
What made me think of this was the above copied quote .. for him to make me feel respected and like a queen, he tells me that he loves me a lot .. this makes me love every moment.
Why does he tell me more than I do him? If it makes me feel so good, wouldn't it him, also? Am I making him feel like a King, eventhough, I've so acknowledged that he is giving me more in one area of our life than I am giving back?
That would make me wonder .. such as it is, about the giving and recieving of sentiments in my own relationship.
Lucky you .. ice cream !!!!!! That makes the studying and hard work so worth it 🙂 Though, that sounds dreadful .. statistical programming.
Are you in college, or is this work related?
Are you in college, or is this work related?
I truly only posted this message for those that have went through what I did. The reason what relationship don't last is for the main fact that people do not know what it means and takes to truly LOVE someone else and to give yourself totally to that person and that goes for spiritually, emotional, intellectually, physically,and mentally. I think we are all forgetting that LOVE conquers all whether you believe or not. Our relationship is going to be just fine because we include GOD and we both have very meek and humble spirits.
"Why does he tell me more than I do him? If it makes me feel so good, wouldn't it him, also? Am I making him feel like a King, eventhough, I've so acknowledged that he is giving me more in one area of our life than I am giving back?
That would make me wonder .. such as it is, about the giving and recieving of sentiments in my own relationship."
P-angel
I most definitely treat my man like the king that he is everyday. All I do is give to him and he gives to me so we have a very balanced and healthy relationship...and we both are satisfied. Thanks for your input...we all need to keep that very same thing in mind because we all can slip a little when it comes to making your man/woman feel like a king/queen.
"Why does he tell me more than I do him? If it makes me feel so good, wouldn't it him, also? Am I making him feel like a King, eventhough, I've so acknowledged that he is giving me more in one area of our life than I am giving back?
That would make me wonder .. such as it is, about the giving and recieving of sentiments in my own relationship."
P-angel
I most definitely treat my man like the king that he is everyday. All I do is give to him and he gives to me so we have a very balanced and healthy relationship...and we both are satisfied. Thanks for your input...we all need to keep that very same thing in mind because we all can slip a little when it comes to making your man/woman feel like a king/queen.
"don't listen to him. enjoy the experience. virgos are the perfectionists of the zodiac; me having mars in virgo (and not liking it too much, btw) completely understands this. i say i don't like it because, while it can make me wanting to push myself to the next level (which is nice),it also makes me feel like nothing is ever good enough (not nice).
*shudders at the struggle*
anyway, scorps and virgs, i read, is a pretty good combo, but moreso, if you two are sharing something special, just enjoy it. everybody dies. not everyone lives"
prring leo,
thank you very much! I sincerely appreciate that! 🙂
*shudders at the struggle*
anyway, scorps and virgs, i read, is a pretty good combo, but moreso, if you two are sharing something special, just enjoy it. everybody dies. not everyone lives"
prring leo,
thank you very much! I sincerely appreciate that! 🙂
"Thanks for your input...we all need to keep that very same thing in mind because we all can slip a little when it comes to making your man/woman feel like a king/queen."
No problem, butterfly .. and you're right, we all slip sometimes. You're comment made me think of it.
However, I do have to disagree with something you said ..
"The reason what relationship don't last is for the main fact that people do not know what it means and takes to truly LOVE someone else and to give yourself totally to that person and that goes for spiritually, emotional, intellectually, physically,and mentally."
I've come across many people in this world, who do indeed, know how to love down to their very core .. however, love doesn't necessarily conquer all. It appears to me that most relationships end because of not being compatible, eventhough both parties truly loved each other. From my perspective, that's love blindness .. it takes happiness.
A person can love and still be unhappy .. when a person is happy, they want to love. If you listen to people talk .. they aren't saying that they are parted from their partner for a lack of love .. it's happening because there is a lack of happiness.
Love doesn't make happiness .. but, happiness creates love.
No problem, butterfly .. and you're right, we all slip sometimes. You're comment made me think of it.
However, I do have to disagree with something you said ..
"The reason what relationship don't last is for the main fact that people do not know what it means and takes to truly LOVE someone else and to give yourself totally to that person and that goes for spiritually, emotional, intellectually, physically,and mentally."
I've come across many people in this world, who do indeed, know how to love down to their very core .. however, love doesn't necessarily conquer all. It appears to me that most relationships end because of not being compatible, eventhough both parties truly loved each other. From my perspective, that's love blindness .. it takes happiness.
A person can love and still be unhappy .. when a person is happy, they want to love. If you listen to people talk .. they aren't saying that they are parted from their partner for a lack of love .. it's happening because there is a lack of happiness.
Love doesn't make happiness .. but, happiness creates love.
good luck .. 🙂 🙂 🙂
tonssssss and tonssss of luck .. 🙂 🙂 🙂
tonssssss and tonssss of luck .. 🙂 🙂 🙂
"However, I do have to disagree with something you said ..
"The reason what relationship don't last is for the main fact that people do not know what it means and takes to truly LOVE someone else and to give yourself totally to that person and that goes for spiritually, emotional, intellectually, physically,and mentally."
I've come across many people in this world, who do indeed, know how to love down to their very core .. however, love doesn't necessarily conquer all. It appears to me that most relationships end because of not being compatible, eventhough both parties truly loved each other. From my perspective, that's love blindness .. it takes happiness."
A person can love and still be unhappy .. when a person is happy, they want to love. If you listen to people talk .. they aren't saying that they are parted from their partner for a lack of love .. it's happening because there is a lack of happiness.
Love doesn't make happiness .. but, happiness creates love.
P-Angel
I never looked at it that way and you may be right about that. I too believe that a person has to be happy and love themselves before they can be happy with someone esle and love someone else. And that could be why a lot of people look for love just to make them happy but they are just fooling themselves because they still find themselves unhappy while in being in love. Do you think that some people know the true meaning of a true companionship is?
Thanks P-Angel...you have given me something to meditate on today! 🙂
"The reason what relationship don't last is for the main fact that people do not know what it means and takes to truly LOVE someone else and to give yourself totally to that person and that goes for spiritually, emotional, intellectually, physically,and mentally."
I've come across many people in this world, who do indeed, know how to love down to their very core .. however, love doesn't necessarily conquer all. It appears to me that most relationships end because of not being compatible, eventhough both parties truly loved each other. From my perspective, that's love blindness .. it takes happiness."
A person can love and still be unhappy .. when a person is happy, they want to love. If you listen to people talk .. they aren't saying that they are parted from their partner for a lack of love .. it's happening because there is a lack of happiness.
Love doesn't make happiness .. but, happiness creates love.
P-Angel
I never looked at it that way and you may be right about that. I too believe that a person has to be happy and love themselves before they can be happy with someone esle and love someone else. And that could be why a lot of people look for love just to make them happy but they are just fooling themselves because they still find themselves unhappy while in being in love. Do you think that some people know the true meaning of a true companionship is?
Thanks P-Angel...you have given me something to meditate on today! 🙂
"Hey butterfly1107!
Ignore these naysayers, Virgo haters, and/or self-confessed manipulative lying sacks of sh1t...
REAL Virgo Male here, who's very happily married to a REAL Scorpio Female, and we're expecting Twins in early November...
My Scorp lived with me most of last summer, and we got hitched in the fall - she was certain (as only a Scorp can be) that we were "right" for each other long before that, but Mr. Virgo had to be for sure for sure (even though his intuition agreed with hers)...
This can be a great combination. If you two have already gotten past the initial hurdles, there's no reason to think your relationship won't go the distance - and certainly no reason to consider the snide, worthless, cheap shots from the non-Virgos on this thread...
Good Luck!"
Hi dyrstr8z...thank you very much. It took a well over a year for us to get to where we are now and I am thankful for that because it made me realize how I truly feel about him and the same on his part. I too believe that virgo and scorp make a good match especially if you have gotten over that little hump. Congrats on your twins and I hope that you and your wife share a wonderful life together!
Ignore these naysayers, Virgo haters, and/or self-confessed manipulative lying sacks of sh1t...
REAL Virgo Male here, who's very happily married to a REAL Scorpio Female, and we're expecting Twins in early November...
My Scorp lived with me most of last summer, and we got hitched in the fall - she was certain (as only a Scorp can be) that we were "right" for each other long before that, but Mr. Virgo had to be for sure for sure (even though his intuition agreed with hers)...
This can be a great combination. If you two have already gotten past the initial hurdles, there's no reason to think your relationship won't go the distance - and certainly no reason to consider the snide, worthless, cheap shots from the non-Virgos on this thread...
Good Luck!"
Hi dyrstr8z...thank you very much. It took a well over a year for us to get to where we are now and I am thankful for that because it made me realize how I truly feel about him and the same on his part. I too believe that virgo and scorp make a good match especially if you have gotten over that little hump. Congrats on your twins and I hope that you and your wife share a wonderful life together!
"Good for you young scorp. Both of you should remain patient. It won't be your SIGNS that could break you up, only mistakes that the two of you may not learn from fast enough. But that is preventable with patience and pure thought about each other."
Thanks 25th Decan! I also think that people just need to learn to accept people for who they are and allow them to be themselves...
Thanks 25th Decan! I also think that people just need to learn to accept people for who they are and allow them to be themselves...
I am a scorp girl, and 5 years ago I met a young, impressive, smart, handsome virgo. At first I did not notice him, but then he did something that made me notice him. We became friends very quickly. There were circumstances and did not allowed us to continued our friendship, so we ended it.
Ending my friendship with this virgo, was one of the saddest and hardest things that I have ever dealt in my life. We ended our friendship because at the time, I was a married woman and he was (still is) 5 years younger than me. I was then 23, and he 18.
We both ended our friendship out of principle, because we both knew that we were playing a dangerous game. Even though, I am not married anymore, I still think about this virgo kid. And it sometimes hurts me to see our friendship disappear as time goes by.
It's been more that 4 years since we last spoke. I am still very close to his parents, they treat me like their daugther. But i have not gotten the nerve to ask about him or if he is in a relationship or single. I keep hoping that one day, we will bump into each other, and we will pick up the pieces of our broken friendship. I know that once we do, I will love him and he will love me. We just couldn't at the time we met. We never did anything wrong, we were just friends.
I would give everything I own to have chance to start a friendship with him again. But i dont know how.
Ending my friendship with this virgo, was one of the saddest and hardest things that I have ever dealt in my life. We ended our friendship because at the time, I was a married woman and he was (still is) 5 years younger than me. I was then 23, and he 18.
We both ended our friendship out of principle, because we both knew that we were playing a dangerous game. Even though, I am not married anymore, I still think about this virgo kid. And it sometimes hurts me to see our friendship disappear as time goes by.
It's been more that 4 years since we last spoke. I am still very close to his parents, they treat me like their daugther. But i have not gotten the nerve to ask about him or if he is in a relationship or single. I keep hoping that one day, we will bump into each other, and we will pick up the pieces of our broken friendship. I know that once we do, I will love him and he will love me. We just couldn't at the time we met. We never did anything wrong, we were just friends.
I would give everything I own to have chance to start a friendship with him again. But i dont know how.
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Thanks for listening
Peace