Leo/Virgo...

Still trying to understand the actions of this guy at work, lol.

I did as you suggested, CG! But he's on my Facebook, commenting and joking at me.

He's also been IMing me from class, to ask what was going on at work.

Then, this morning, I woke up hellalate. My boss is out-of-town (thank God) so I stumbled in here crazy late, and my friend at work came rushing up to me to tell me that he had been asking her REPEATEDLY where I was, and if I was coming in. On TOP of that, I look down at my desk, and everything has been turned upside down! My desk calender, my keyboard, my mouse, my tape dispenser, my phone, and my screen is facing in the opposite direction! 🙂)

I look up at my friend, ask her who did it! After guessing at EVERY other guy in the place, I'm like "(insert Leo's name here)—" and she nods slowly.

I'm like (O_O)

I grabbed my Nerf gun, and went back there to POP him in the ass.

DUDE! LMFAO! STOP RUINING MY IGNORING YOU!

I really pulled back, I swear I did. I have been acting busy anytime he passes by my desk, so that he won't talk to me, and it's not working!

But after attacking him with the gun, he seems subdued now. I'm like "wow, for someone who was eager to find out if I was coming in, way for HIM to ignore ME now!" 😛

This is fun, yet not...

I want a clear yes or no 😢 I hate being in limbo.

Mmm-hmm. ??_??

*pops gum*

Posted by Nekamarie83
Mmm-hmm. ??_??

*pops gum*

LMFAO!

Get out of here.

^^^ Hahahah!! :p

Posted by everevolvingepithet
You get paid to play with Nerf guns ?
damn.

LMFAO. When the boss is out of town (which is rare), yes. We shoot it up!

😄 He wants to make sure you're hooked, without jerking the line.

Sounds like tickle-tummy fun.

Posted by CappyyLuv30
Oooo someone has a crush. Nani nani boo boo!

(if you mentioned that previously, I missed it and I apologize and I still heart ya 😄)

LMFAO!

You probably see him jumping in on my FB statuses, he is so f'n cute!
I do have to remind him to delete it from his wall though, cuz that's all I need is the gf going nutso seeing that he comments on my statuses and none of hers.

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Posted by CLCNY30
On TOP of that, I look down at my desk, and everything has been turned upside down! My desk calender, my keyboard, my mouse, my tape dispenser, my phone, and my screen is facing in the opposite direction! 🙂)

Oh, that's an great idea! I got to remember to do that!

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LMFAO! Be careful who you do that on.

If he wasn't so cute, I'd have grabbed the letter opener and went back there...

Posted by sandyclaws
😄 He wants to make sure you're hooked, without jerking the line.

Sounds like tickle-tummy fun.

Yeah, this worries me...

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Posted by CappyyLuv30
Oooo someone has a crush. Nani nani boo boo!

(if you mentioned that previously, I missed it and I apologize and I still heart ya 😄)

LMFAO!

You probably see him jumping in on my FB statuses, he is so f'n cute!
I do have to remind him to delete it from his wall though, cuz that's all I need is the gf going nutso seeing that he comments on my statuses and none of hers.

Oooo he's gotta a girl? Oo girl you dirtay! LOL

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Now you know I ain't after no man with a woman, lol.
I have been doing as I was advised and pushing back and away.
He seems to be advancing, but not in a rude/threatening way.

The rocky relationship with his gf doesn't matter either--he's with her, they're together, and I'm not touching that.
I wouldn't respect him if he made a move in these conditions anyway. That would mean he's the type that can play a woman like that, who might be uberfaithful to him, and that could just as easily be the next woman.

Now, if what my psychic told me (which is that he's about to let her go) is true, then that's a diff. story.

As far as the guy I'm seeing, the story is long and arduous (not to mention confusing), but we are not a serious couple. We have spoken of this. In a perfect world, we'd be married already, but we have a past--with people we love dearly involved, and us being together would really mess things up bad. Things might change, but for now we both accept that we do not belong together seriously. I have already let him know that I am preparing myself to move on, and he understands; I do not do cheating.

Posted by CappyyLuv30
I hear ya girlie. And please know I was kidding...I wouldn't think you would cheat at all.

Nothing but love hun. 😄

Oh no, you--I'm not worried about.
It's others that might get the wrong idea, just wanted to clear that up before they struck, lmfao.

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Posted by sandyclaws
😄 He wants to make sure you're hooked, without jerking the line.

Sounds like tickle-tummy fun.

Yeah, this worries me...

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Just enjoy making a good friendship. It's hella fun to be friends with someone whom your attracted to, and mutual is better. Then whatever happens, you have fun and you have a friend, and maybe something more but with a great foundation.

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😄 He wants to make sure you're hooked, without jerking the line.

Sounds like tickle-tummy fun.

Yeah, this worries me...

Just enjoy making a good friendship. It's hella fun to be friends with someone whom your attracted to, and mutual is better. Then whatever happens, you have fun and you have a friend, and maybe something more but with a great foundation.

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That's my problem, I'm an all or nothing type of gal.
I don't trust myself to be happy w/a friends with him...

??_ (cont.) OOOOH!! NOW I KNOW!! :O

Posted by Nekamarie83
??_ (cont.) OOOOH!! NOW I KNOW!! :O

*sigh* (-_-) secrat fail...

Well, you don't know details...

I'm going back to her tonight, and when she tells me more, I will go into details, because trust me...you will die laughing.

having relationships with co workers bad idea stuff like that can get real ugly lol.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
real talk ooowwwwwwwww
Needy people much ?

lol wats up dude everything cool.

for me it is i dont gotta work on monday so glad about i been working hard this whole work and waking up early.

also for me work is work

personal is personal and thats how i like it and intend to keep it that way lol.

Posted by LeGendary ViRGo


also for me work is work

personal is personal and thats how i like it and intend to keep it that way lol.

Kinda funny, cuz I met my partner at work maybe 20 yrs ago. She was even my boss for a little bit. We lost track of each other in between then & now though.

I think you have to be a mature and honorable person to crossover from a work relationship. I know if something happened with my virguy friend to make us not be friends, I'd be honor-bound to be polite and professional. And him likewise. Which is why it's working out so far.

There are a few people who socialize or date at my job, and they all seem to do well. before my time though there was a guy who was cheating on his gf with a married co-worker and people say it was hilarious drama when he missent an email to the wrong gal.

We have a small office, so--if things were to end on their own between he and his girlfriend, and we decided to give things a try, it would be nothing.

People already make comments about the looks we give each other, and they think it's adorable (even though I'm mortified that my poker face apparently fails to convince).

It wouldn't be a problem, and we both value our paychecks enough not to lose our everlovin' minds if things went bad. We are really dedicated to our jobs, and get very serious about our work, so it would not interfere.

Yeah. I see what you are saying, and agree.

This whole chit is really driving me nuts.

Btw, the 3 co-workers who know of anything going on underneath the surface between us have admitted to knowing it through something I've hinted, or said. They mentioned the looks we BOTH give each other, but he's quiet about it, I'm the one making jokes about it when I think no one's paying attention, and apparently, they ARE paying attention so I need to stfu.

I'm actually hoping he was just asking if/when I was coming in over and over again because he didn't want his good joke to go to waste. Him ignoring me after made me figure that.

@ClCNY30
Where would you like this flirt to go with the Leo?6 months from now ?Assuming this picks up speed-- How would you handle home issues at work? What if interest wains on one persons part,what would happen then? What if one got another job and you both found other light flirts at work?How would that fly?Do you have enough in common to be involved with each other,that you could have a relationship outside of work?Try having a conversation without it being work/flirt related ?How'd that go?How does he treat his other female friends -on fb and in real life ?

I worked with a married couple,both heads of their departments and when home would spill over to work,production would practically grind to a halt.(Cap/Gem)In fact I was seeing someone from the husbands department,it didn't end well for us.(Virgo/Scorp)But it turned out to be a great thing after I made me a new life.No sarcasm intended.

Also I know couples who own businesses together and for years they make it work well.

Have also done the Leo thing.He was great at first,we used to talk for hours etc.Then when I needed him for the daily give and take of life,it was like, really?....He was extremely good at playing the poor me card when life wasn't going the way he thought it should.My girl doesn't.... understand/feel/care.....

Yes,I totally get that these are my specific experiences,and this may or may not be relevant to you.My Leo isn't your Leo.Although by you hinting around to co-workers about this,you have given your office play an idenity/he has not(you knew I had a girl).If he declared his relationship over in public and claimed you publically,that's a whole other thing......Just later on down the line,you shouldn't be forced to make choices concerning man vs. money.I'm sincerely not trying to piss on your parade.....'cause yes, it is nice to have a fun reason to go to work.Reload and aim true.LOL

Posted by 25thDecan
I'm sorry. Office romance does that to the imagination...

You need a swift kick in your behind =))

@ Vulcan:

I've taken a gander at his FB wall, and I can see who he's close to and who he could care less about (Facebook-wise, at least). The gf leaves messages for him sometimes, and he does not reply...doesn't even "like" the status. Meanwhile, I can post something on my OWN wall, and he's all up around it and through, "liking" it to boot.

As far as separating work/home, I do that now, lol. If I let my frustration over my Pisces landlord affect me at work, I'd be useless, and constantly behind. That is not the case. I have learned how to put my anger/sadness/what-have-you aside to do what I'm being paid to do. Never had an issue with that. I've worked through colds, flus, horrible menstral cramps, even deaths in the family. If there is a job I am supposed to be doing, it gets done, to hell with outside or personal matters. I sense he is like that too, because what I'm hearing about his rocky relationship w/the girlfriend doesn't stop him from wowing the higher-ups (he's fairly new, and they expected him to f up all over the place, and he's seriously kicking ass and taking names later, work-wise. He's impressive).

It does take a certain type of maturity/sense of responsibility to be able to handle that, but I'd see it as fun.

I don't know much about Leos, I've admitted that. I'm willing to learn though.

As I said before, he's quiet about it (except on Facebook, and through IMs with me), I'm the one making remarks that I don't realize others are hearing, or making "I want him so bad" faces without realizing it.

@CLCNY30,Glad you could look at his fb.That's bad that his gf doesn't count on there.That must be painful to watch.

God no,I wasn't questioning your work ethic at all or your ability to shut out non work factors,just are you both on the same page about how you both are going to keep it under wraps if things turn steamy.

I'm not quesioning your maturity level what so ever, not in the least,I just don't want to see you hurt if things aren't
"fun" anymore.That's too bad about all those things you had to work through.

You are right,every Leo is his own man.Enjoy.Don't mind me I'm just a natural questioner.LOL

Posted by 25thDecan
You're a trooper. I TRIED to work through menstrual cramps....but awwwllll gurl, I just couldn't do it. I just didn't have that will power. They were really bad too. And one time I had to play hookey. My split ends were just NOT working.....

Lmao

Yeah, I need a arse kicking. *grabs beer

Posted by VulcanLass
@CLCNY30,Glad you could look at his fb.That's bad that his gf doesn't count on there.That must be painful to watch.

God no,I wasn't questioning your work ethic at all or your ability to shut out non work factors,just are you both on the same page about how you both are going to keep it under wraps if things turn steamy.

I'm not quesioning your maturity level what so ever, not in the least,I just don't want to see you hurt if things aren't
"fun" anymore.That's too bad about all those things you had to work through.

You are right,every Leo is his own man.Enjoy.Don't mind me I'm just a natural questioner.LOL

No offense taken whatsoever 🙂
I understood/understand where you're coming from

TSK, TSK, TSK...is someone losing their edge—

So all that e-therapy just went to waste?

Aaaahhh....Repeat after me: "Ice Ice Baby", "Ice Ice Baby", "Ice Ice Baby", "Ice Ice Baby", "Ice Ice Baby", "Ice Ice Baby"