Me and my Virgo

Show him that you love him
Be direct as you normally are if not more so with him
Follow up on what you tell him you are going to do
Keep all promises and commitments
Give him space when he needs it
Avoid pointless bickering

The rest should solve itself 🙂

Posted by Cajunspirit
Show him that you love him
Be direct as you normally are if not more so with him
Follow up on what you tell him you are going to do
Keep all promises and commitments
Give him space when he needs it
Avoid pointless bickering

The rest should solve itself 🙂

Lol oh man! We alwayssss bicker. But at the end of the day we're lovey dovey again.
He's a bit possessive and controlling and a part of me likes that a lot, but sometimes I can't stand it. I never let him talk down to me and I'm pretty blunt- though I'm trying to be careful now because he's so sensitive and takes everything too seriously.

I once posted our chart on an another astrology forum and almost every single person (no exaggerration) told me to "flee" before I get hurt.
I try to take everything with a grain of salt though a lot of the things I've read on here, on other sites and books seem spot on. My Virgo on the other hand, doesn't believe in any of it and sometimes he'll pretend to be somewhat interested to humor me lol.
Something that bothers me about him is the fact his archetype is a young, na??ve, innocent girl, and that because I'm also "troubled" and helpless (ugh! a damsel in distress) just makes it more interesting to him.
He also has these physical standards (all of the girls he's ever been interested in/attracted to all looked completely different compared to me, and they were all cookie-cutter pretty. Though he'll even find some of the plain janes attractive but only if they're his race. I know I may be coming off as just paranoid and all but this is something he and I have talked about before. He's more attracted physically to women who are his race or LOOK like his race

I must confess that even though I'm normally proud(sometimes a lil too much lol),confident and content with myself: ever since I fell for him, I can't help but feel inadequate. I often feel the need to be as perfect as I can be. With him, for once I feel like I actually CAN'T win or succeed (lack of a better word)and it kills me. I want to be his ideal and I want to be the only one. I can't stand how jealous I can get.
Someone on that forum commented I'd lose all my dignity because of him. More and more I start to think about that seriously.

What is it about our chart or his chart? Plenty of ppl have said we were imcompatible romantically.
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Sorry I'm typing this all on my phone- I think I got cut off. First though, *incompatible lol. I'm a dork, bear with me.
Also I was trying to post thank you to Cajinspirit for taking time to go over my post and for the advice :-)

My 3rd girlfriend was an Aries. Great gal, not my race, and her parents would not accept me.
So I know what it is like to be in your shoes.

As long as he is serious about you, it CAN work. At the end of the day it is still between you two.
I don't know how to read that chart, so I am basing this on personal experience.

I know of two Viruy Ramgirl couples, wed for over 30 years. So this matching is more than proven.

Yeah dont say what you dont mean, dont be wishy washy 🙂

Lol so much emphasis on being wishy washy and not straightforward. Are Aries girls known to be like that? Something from your personal experiences, perhaps? Or is there something in my chart that screams that? lol

Cajunspirit:
Yeah, it made me smile reading about real virguy/aries girl couples and experiences, etc. on this forum. It isn't generalizations or fortune cookie bs.
Also, I think that's awesome about your V/A friends being together for 30 years! Good for them :-)