men: what bothers you about aries women?

what exactly bothers you about aries women, i understand virgo's arent as verbal as aries women about what bothers them. They'd just rather not deal with it then come back like nothing happend.

so what is it exactly if anyone has personal experiance with one of us, im trying to become better person
analzying my charactor i guess.

impatience

Posted by P-Angel
impatience

Damn, can you let a Virgo answer for once...shit!

Being quick to anger is another thing that bothers Virgo males about Aries females.

I'm not a male, but with aries guys, impatience was kind of a big deal, which P mentioned. Being incredibly hasty and not seeming considerate of the fact that I didn't move as quickly as they did. They'd get frustrated with me and I would get frustrated right back. I mean, there were things that didn't work with me either that probably upset the aries too. But yeah, the impatience. I know I can be impatient, but I don't like to be pushed/rushed/ect when it comes to my feelings, my choices, what not.

I've been dating Aries girl for 5 months.
Mind you, some things work in our favor, we have super compatible moon and venus Libra-Aries for both. She is 1 day from being a Taurus, and I have a ton of placements in Sagittarius.

Anyways.
My biggest problem has been her poverty of perception.
Virgo are pissed when Aries when they think Aries is selfish.
Virgo is also pissed when they think Aries is egotistical.
And even worse when Aries is selfishly egotistical.

This being said, these two things can be overcome.
I've confronted my girlfriend about both, and she's come to open up and reconsider her position.
As I've gotten to know Aries, I've started to realize they are less selfish as much as they are naive.
The Aries has raw unrefined emotions, and for as much as they seem 'me' 'me' 'me' selfish, they also have very abrupt and powerful emotions for the people they care for.
So what irks a Virgo about an Aries girlfriend who seems demanding in wanting to be wine'd and dine'd everynight and never offer to pay, can easily be solved, by him overcoming his coyness, and saying 'NO B# $ @TCH MAKE ME A PIE." lol.

Seriously, I know that sounds bad, but having dated an Aries girl, it took me about 2 months to realize she respects arguments, puts herself out there totally understanding that being shutdown could be an outcome and because she likes me will respect my point of view.

Aside from this, you just learn to tolerate Aries, one-sided know it all shit, as Virgo are highly tolerant of others idiosyncracies. If it's important, I tell her she's wrong and why she is wrong and bring out the Cap in me and don't move my ground. But if she is telling me how to surf even tho she has never even been to the ocean in idle conversation, I generally just blow it off.

It's this same Aries overconfidence and boisterousness that secures our relationship in her steadfast defense of 'us', and her original pursuit to make it happen. You gotta respect it.

As for impatience, I am one of those nervous impatient Virgos, so I never have had a problem with it.
As for bossiness, I find it funny cuz I don't talk it seriously.
Otherwise, I think Aries is a great match for an 'EVOLVED' Virgo only however.

The other nice thing about Aries, is they are not really that stubborn. They are also quick to act.
So any changes you want them to make can be impressed and it will occur quickly.
My own girl has changed so much while we've been together, she's gone from being what I felt was a 'user'.
To worrying alot about my needs and catering to me, as much as I do her.

I would not really say I had a problem with Aries women.

I just disliked how they spoke to certain other people. Very aggressive, more so than necessary.

I beleive alot of aries are misunderstood. we really are sensitive and things do get to us. we just put on the ram exterior when we really are vulnerable sheep. its our self defense mechanism.

"I've started to realize they are less selfish as much as they are naive."

I agree, I think ive been thought of as spitefull or selfish when in reality its the farthest from it, I really dont do anything to spite anyone. I think we really are naaive people and are sometimes so involved with ourselves and our peeception of things and people and trying to figure out everything that we dont realize what were are really doing, because we always think we know best.