Need virgo to help me on my apology letter

When was the last time you tried to call? Virgo's need to be ignored sometimes.

I think the letter might be too much but if you really want to then sleep on it and send it tomorrow. Sometimes virgos just ignore you and the best thing to do is to ignore them back because thats the language they understand. Even if you don't talk for a year, he will come around if he realizes your not so invested. Emotions are not there thing . But of course do what you want and good luck.

yes and its long. if your going to send the letter at least make it short like 10 sentences, say your sorry, say you understand that he is hurt and you wish him all the best. End it with HIM having to come back in your life if HE wants. Virgo's are controling so your long letter could be looked as emotional blackmail. crazy I know lol I wouldn't reach out but I i really wanted to it would be like this

Letter (email) Subject line: Hey are you still mad at me ? or Ok ok your mad

Email would read

Hey I really would like to go back to being and awesoume friend to you, lets for get the past and go grab lunch.

See vary simple and to the point and if he doesnt' respond then he is not ready to talk. Sending him the long letter forces him to respond but thats not what you want you want him to respond because he wants to right? Act like nothing happened, you made a mistake, if he wants to make you beg then just walk away, he will respect that. Just my oppinion. i have a virgo that wont let me go and its because I have shown him I can and will go. Good luck and stay strong.

and keep an active social life, not clubbing or parting but smart things, like an art class, yoga or start something interesting. The more you seem strong and no bothered the better I think your chances.

Dont listen to the bitter cancer.

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Yesssssss black mamba, you speaking the truth

The only way to get back to him is through seduction and sex. If I ignore you, im done with you, im no longer attracted to you, or you longer intrigue me. If you are not physically attractive, you need to try to get in shape, do a make over, send him your pic and say something sexually seductive. I know you prob feel like its a stretch or putting yourself out too far, but we crave Earthly things touch,sight,taste, and sound, if you are not appealing to his senses, im sure he has found another girl to fill that void. You'll hear from him if he is alone or bored, but we are rarely alone (except by choice) or bored. You need to sexually intrigue him if you want him back, because im pretty sure he doesn't want to deal with your feelings or drama that comes with feelings.

We never dated, we were close friends and that's what I want

Posted by pip_spud
I have written an apology letter to a Virgo guy who was a great friend of mine but he would not talk to me, I tried 3 attempts with no response, can you let me know if i should send my apology letter, below is the letter:

Posted by pip_spud
We never dated, we were close friends and that's what I want

Ill try to say this in the nicest way possible. IF YOU NEVER DATED, or yall never had sex, and you sending apology letters already, I cant half way imagine what you would do in a relationship or after sex has been involved. TBH, i would not answer you, and would only send short replies to be nice and not hurt your feelings. You should move on, he doesn't want the emotional baggage you are bringing this early to the table. Yall havent had sex you already tripping, you need to get out of your feelings and approach him to strictly hang out or have sex or LEAVE HIM ALONE. I can promise he's not interested in the feelings you are bringing to the table this early, you are pushing him further away.

This is true times a million....

Since you guys are just friends...you already apologized...mwith virgos once they know your sorry that's fine...no need to continually apologize....in order for them to want you back in their life they have to see you living an amazing life!!!

They will ice you and ignore you like no other....mirror their behavior...simple....he will eventually contact you when he is ready to be back in your life by that time you have to decide if it's worth it

Good luck...because if I apologize to someone and their still being a moron I move on...

Posted by virgotruth
The only way to get back to him is through seduction and sex. If I ignore you, im done with you, im no longer attracted to you, or you longer intrigue me. If you are not physically attractive, you need to try to get in shape, do a make over, send him your pic and say something sexually seductive. I know you prob feel like its a stretch or putting yourself out too far, but we crave Earthly things touch,sight,taste, and sound, if you are not appealing to his senses, im sure he has found another girl to fill that void. You'll hear from him if he is alone or bored, but we are rarely alone (except by choice) or bored. You need to sexually intrigue him if you want him back, because im pretty sure he doesn't want to deal with your feelings or drama that comes with feelings.

Posted by pip_spud
We did sleep together before but decided to be friends. He later confessed he was in love with me but we still believed being friends would be better for us.

The only way you are going top get him back is through sex. He could care less about the apology letter, that will do ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. If you build his ego up through sex, not sure what experience you had, good or bad, but if you can convince him to have sex with you again. And you do it good, he will fall in love with you. They say the way to a mans heart is his stomach, but with Virgos its his dick. The only females I would ever go back to in life are the ones with passionate sex. I forget and dismiss all the rest. Thats the facts, if you are not capable of intriguing him sexually give it up, unless you are 8-10 in the looks department. Virgos will pass on looks for a good sex partner, but it has to be one or the other, and preferably BOTH.

I don't think sex makes them fall in love, but some Virgo guys are addicted to sex, which I can testify for that.



Sex is the starting point, a Virgo is not gonna fully Love you if the sex is lacking. If he does, you will definitely get cheated on. Its must have, and without he wont have much interest in you.

If you dress nice smell good loose some weight or tone up thats what will get him to take notice. Opening your legs for a man is never the answer and virgo men don't like anything easy because they over thing everything. I think if you work on you and live your life his controlling nature will kick in and he will be back. Sex is not enough to keep him around sex makes you a booty call. Virgo want perfection, a woman that is confident, sucessful, has friends and a life. A woman that looks good at all times and takes care of her self.Dont let him see you drinking or smoking (even if he does) don't let him see you eating bad or having soda, let he see how above it all you are. From the virgo I know they really want someone they think has it all figured out, even if you dont because they pretend to have it all figured out lol and they dont. Move on with your life go out with other men that look like they have a great life and he will notice. If he wont come back then he got what he wanted and cant see any reason to come back. Sex is not the answer but suduction by being a sexy smart confident woman is so much better and its hard to be 100% about you, men know this. He is expecting you to beg, cry and need him because virgo men thing they are so much better then everyone, he found one flaw in you and wrote you off. So don't feed into just say "ok" and improve yourself.

Posted by moonchild84
See vary simple and to the point and if he doesnt' respond then he is not ready to talk. Sending him the long letter forces him to respond but thats not what you want you want him to respond because he wants to right? Act like nothing happened, you made a mistake, if he wants to make you beg then just walk away, he will respect that. Just my oppinion. i have a virgo that wont let me go and its because I have shown him I can and will go. Good luck and stay strong.

I was in a similar situation but was not the one who needed to apologize. Hes the one who screwed up bigtime and undermined a lifelong friendship.

One thing i learned with him is always come from a position of strength not sappy as he will see that as weak.

Stand up for yourself and for what you will not tolerate. You have to take control or he will try to dictate the conversation with his passive aggressive crap.

I finally realized that some friendships arent worh saving . You are worthy of being treated with respect. Let him pull away and ignore. In the end its his loss. Dont ever change for someone thinking you can save any relationship. Live your life and love those who truly care about you, not a man who will never value you.

No problem PS. I wanted you to know that someone else had been where you are. My friendship had lasted for 34 years. For whatever reason I had no clue about, he pulled a stunt which was the final straw that undermined our friendship.

I do know for a fact that he admired me because of my personal inner strength, core values and work ethic. So when he challenged my integrity by shutting me off without any reason to do so, I didn't back down. I didn't cower to his "need to control". I didn't ask for his forgiveness for something I didn't do. Heck, I didn't even know what the hell was his issue. He invited me only to ignore me. Given our long standing rapport, his actions were unacceptable. Then he followed up with an email saying how much he still thought of me.

THIS is precisely why it's so important to not falter on who you are and what you won't tolerate. Men don't respect easy women. Men don't respect emotionally weak women. Men respect women who have inner strength and know who they are and what they stand for. He knows exactly those aspects of me because I was consistent in my expression of them. While my standing up to his behavior certainly touched a nerve with him (he is a virgo after all), I guarantee you he still respects me.

Bottom line: if you don't have respect you have nothing. THAT is the foundation of a strong friendship or any relationship. NEVER trade respect for a facade. You will live to regret it.

As a Vrigo male I'd just say that moonchild84 has it pretty much spot on, however I also need to feel close to my partner (this might though be becuase I have venus in leo), yes she has to be attractive and she has to take care of herself, but in a long term relationship I was in, I was with a lady who was Libra Scorpio cusp, I'm Virgo Libra cusp, the physical side was very good but she was highly critical of me and this effectively killed my feelings towards her, I ended up withdarwing into myself which frustrated her even more and making her even more critical and angry with me.

I think if she had managed to discuss things with me rather than shout and make unreasonable demands then the relationship would have still been good, (I was doing all I could to improve the situation but she did not listen to my reasoning or logic and had no argument against it either.... 😉 )

Hopefully the above is a useful insight.