Nobody Get Offended Please..

I've noticed that a lot of Virgoes seem ready to POUNCE on people they dislike or are irritated with if that person makes the tiniest little mistake (and big ones too)...but, I mean, even things like mis-speaking, accidentally bumping into anything in the Virgo's "space", misplacing something...it's like your fuse shrinks by inches. Why is this? If you don't have those tendencies, can you speculate as to why a Virgo would?

seems stereotypical, or atleast nitpicky....Wheelz, you know I'm not like that; virgoangoat wants consideration and respect in short as all virgos/people; I must admit I like a livley debate (yup, guilty!! *motions hands in the air as if in hand-cuffs*) but that is just the spice of life I like! I won't speak for all virgos (as I am ONE in comparison to the MILLIONS or at least thousands? lol) but I am volatile, and changeable....but blowing up because someone bumped into me? That's kinda dumb....and so is mis-speaking and the need for proper grammar....hell, maybe that person purposely spoke that way, and who am I to judge? why waste the time on something so impractical, and unworthy?

I was talking about when you're already irritated with someone or you just plain dislike them.

btw, I'm gonna say this now so that there's NO MISUNDERSTANDING...I'm not accusing or criticizing with this topic. I have observed it, and, therefore, seek to understand 😛.

right; when I just 'plain dislike someone' I stay away from them; they aren't important, or worth investing stock/feeling in; what's the point in badgering them, If I don't REALLY like them?....iritation, first, I will approach you in a casual manner, and speak my mind with intent to diffuse the misunderstanding; I am only 'irritated' as you say with people I like, or love.

so, since you like or love them, are you saying you would avoid snapping at them although you were irritated?

btw, good point about it not being worth your time to badger them. I definitely agree with you...I wish all Virgoes (and people, I suppose) saw it that way 😛.

lol...I'm a virgo wheelz....I would always snapp!! lol 😉....yet I am full of love and feeling so I'd find a way to mediate my feelings and your error, and try to make us both happy; I don't like just bitting heads off, or grinding my ax, unless it serves as a 'wake up call' for my loved one....I just care so much, that I have to stay distant enough from the mushy-gushy, and convey the feeling; basically when I scream 'I hate the way you wear you clothes!' I'm saying also, 'I love you, and I want to to look your best, becasue anyone I love should look that way!' we, or at least I don't want my loved ones/friends looking less than what they absolutely deserve; THE BEST.

"'I hate the way you wear you clothes!' I'm saying also, 'I love you, and I want to to look your best, becasue anyone I love should look that way!'"

hehehe...ooooh riiiight 😛

I don't care about anyone that dosen't care about me; mind you, I'll take that first step in expressing my feelings, but may hide the explosion (which ALOT OF VIRGOS DO) and show you a bonfire....I've got a lot of feelings inside, and am waiting untill you show me what you got, so I can one up you!! 😉

I mean, in terms of love of course...

You're confusing me. Before you said you wouldn't blow up. 😢

o'kie doke...What I'm saying is in loving/relationships and expression (i say blow up, because I mean love the passion, the 'fire of love') not in terms of arguments, and disagreements; sorry I didn't clear that up dude 🙂 hey, smilez!! 🙂

Dude? Who are you talking to? *looks around* Me?

*points to breasts* Yes, these are supposed to be here.

Another thing about Virgoes is that sometimes they can be quite condescending...😉

lol...don't worry Ap, it's THEIR WAY OR THE HIGHWAY!!; or so they think....oh, well they've got their vices, and we ours as well....we are all stinky babies!! 🙂

weelz, now I'M CONFUSED 🙂 YESSSSS!!! LOL!! Sorry, I tried to stay away from gender-based comments as I didn't know that!!...sorry girrly...😢 If it makes you feel better, I made the same mistake with Eliza0012.....I suck in the best way lol 😉

Nope. Sorry, you called me a man and now I'll unfortunately have to hate you for eternity. 😉

*mutters* another one of those non-profile-lookers..

A lot of people think I'm a guy even though there is MORE THAN SUFFICIENT REASON FOR THEM NOT TO THINK THAT...so, yeah, seriously, not a big deal, don't worry about it.

hahah um I mean on dxp.

lol PLEEEEZE WHEELZ DON'T HATE ME...I KNOW!! I'LL THREATEN SUICIDE MUWHAHAHAHA LUV ME AGAIN WHEELZ!! UH......lol....I didn't want to judge you hehehehe did that explanation work wheelz? are you conviced of my faith now?!?!?!....sorry 🙂 hey, smilez 😉

hey, wheelz, I don't think that 'I' understand Virgos!!!! lol 😉.....I am a sidreal Leo, with Sag rising, and I don't really get them.....in the way I behave it seems more fiery, and enthusiastic, rather than withdrawn, prissy, and critical...I dunno wheelz, people have called me a 'fake' before.....perhaps that's why? I dunno, I don't get along well with other virgos either....hermmm, they can be a strange lot....I question whether they/I am/are virgos....perhaps I am what they call a 'Vulcanian Virgo'.....hermmmmm all very interesting...

exalctly notso, that's the way 😉

I can't spell worth two shit-bricks 😉 How the hell can I be critical?! lol 🙂

"accidentally bumping into anything in the Virgo's 'space'"

If I don't like someone, they won't have the opportunity to accidentally bump into anything in my "space". And if it's someone I do like and they are irritating the piss out of me... then it's forgivable, but I will probably snap at them.

As a matter of fact, that's all my pisces friend does... constantly irritating the piss out of me... but she buys a drink for me and all is forgiven. But this goes back and forth, we're constantly "breaking each other's balls".

VE, I get along fine with Virgoes. The ones I'm close to, I love 'em to pieces.

I've never actually been in the situation where they have ripped my head off for something small...but that's because I generally know when to avoid them. I've observed less perceptive people get chewed out, though, over what seem to me to be the pettiest things.

"He's always ready to rip someone's head off for the slightest thing. And then I (or someone else) has to remind him that we're all human."

I know Virgoes are critical..and that's something I just don't understand. They're supposed to be their own biggest critics but they don't hesitate to tear people down. I suppose, though, that your way is really the only way of dealing with the criticism..to just be patient.

"And if it's someone I do like and they are irritating the piss out of me... then it's forgivable, but I will probably snap at them."

See? Sometimes I am not lying about these observations of mine 😛.
Why do you snap, though? When you are agitated, do you have difficulty saying to yourself, "It was an accident and I'm in a bad mood so I should just let it go," or do you just not care at the moment about the possible repercussions?

"basically when I scream 'I hate the way you wear you clothes!' I'm saying also, 'I love you, and I want to to look your best, becasue anyone I love should look that way!' "

hmmmm....WHY NOT just say, "I love you, and I want youto look your best, so how about you wear this shirt instead of that one and wear it like this". Is such an exchange rocket science for a lot of virgos? If they can interpret what they "mean" then why not just say what you mean and safe the other person the unecessary attitude?

lol i'm a virgo and i am quick to pounce on people when they mis-speak, especially my mom. I do it because i'm an anal bastard. And i like to make fun of my mom...lol..but i think the main reason i do it is because i hate it when i mis-speak, so i finally get the chance to criticize somebody else for doing it =)

Wheels,

I can tell the difference between someone who's intentionally trying to irratate me and someone who unintentionally irritates me.

If they have been purposely trying to get under my skin, and then accidentally make a violation against me, taking into consideration the fact they've been bugging me all day, I will snap at them.

If they're unintentionally irritating me throughout the day or if I'm just having a bad day then I will probably be less nasty. I'll still voice my displeasure, but in a much nicer way.

For clarification, a nice way is usually something like "Please don't do that right now" type fashion. A snap is much more direct, less of a request and more of a demand and is usually followed up by an apology the next day regardless of whether or not I was in the right or wrong.

Oh, and all you people that say Virgos always think they're right and won't apologize... well, I've learned over time, that even though I am always right 😉, it's ok to concede 99% of the time so long as it's not a critical issue or a life or death situation 🙂

there 2 reasons why i seem to fuzz over small details with someone at times:

1) i'm unsure about how i feel towards the relationship i have with that person (because of something i don't like about the person at the time or because i'm afraid of where the relationship may be going)

2) i care about that person so much that i want them to be perfect (at least to the best i can picture them in my mind)

i know now that i need to be better at critizicing people i care for...so i'm getting muvch better at that.

vll

lol

"POUNCE on people they dislike"

"irritated with if that person makes the tiniest little mistake"

"mis-speaking"

"accidentally bumping into"

"misplacing something"



Damn humans !!!

What are we going to do with such creatures who would err when ticked off, or, in a bad mood?

😉

"What are we going to do with such creatures who would err when ticked off, or, in a bad mood?"

Its less about just being ticked off, which is natural, and more about not being able to help oneself but being an asshole about it. Of 12 signs, 10 of them seem to be able to do this to a pretty acceptable level. Surely, no one is picking no virgos to point out how much more over the top they are....and so unecessarily so...

2 of the 12 are assholes when it comes to being ticked off? Huh? I'm guessing you mean Virgo and Scorpio... but don't get me started on Leos... 😉

Ap, you must consider the possibility that their is a deep-seeded inferiority complex in them; the 'overcompensation' and the 'I'm the best' mentality says it all mostly; anyone who dosen't feel comfortable with people walking, talking freely is deeply and truly fearful of themselves, and others; perhaps that is why they are mostly introverts, and keep to themselves; I, like you, tell it to people straight, WITHOUT the intention of hurting someone first; tact, before hack is what I've learned....they are humans too, Ap, love 'em, or hate 'em....why waste your energy worrying why they think they're in charge? Hell, let 'em THINK IT, but when they feel they can show it, it's showdown time in the scorp coral!! 😉 lol....I like generally everyone, as I can overlook flaws, but when you feel the need to 'control me' I will give it to you swift and hard. Live your life as free as you want, and let them feel they have some unspeakable burden to bare; it's their downfall in the end. You throw an insult, you are in a moment of weakness; you cannot grow, and stay stuck, becauase you can't get past your own megalomanicalness, only to find out that you yourself, are a hypocrite for saying you can't stand it in another; that's painful to realize Ap, as I've told alot of scorpios that; it is why I don't get on well INITIALLY with them; I am in the light/open, and they like the dark/closed; it's that they aren't equip. to take the punishment, and grow as QUICKLY; give 'em time, they may or may not come around, ultimately, up to them. 😉

"I don't think there was ever one time, with the exception of one Scorpio on here who could fully admit to their faults without trying to excuse them, ignore the points made, or get a big attitude and start throwing insults."

You've ignored many of my points when we were arguing, so, that's kinda hypocritical.

"Ap, you must consider the possibility that their is a deep-seeded inferiority complex in them; the 'overcompensation' and the 'I'm the best' mentality says it all mostly;"

Pop-psychology at it's worst.

Anyway, I've noticed that the only people who have a problem with "High and Mighty" attitude are people with low self-esteem, people with high self-esteem just shrug and don't give a shit.

Aprilbaby, shame on you for making this into a Scorpio bashing thread!

But, I have to admit, I am rather enjoying it *grins*

"but don't get me started on Leos..."

I'm just gonna ignore the context of that sentence, and thank you for appreciating us so much. 🙂

Sorry, but I agree with Aprilbaby in her assessment of Scorps (generally, of course). Then again, I could be a bit biased, because one had me sobbing until 4 am last night/morning.

it's like you said yama:


Anyway, I've noticed that the only people who have a problem with "High and Mighty" attitude are people with low self-esteem, people with high self-esteem just shrug and don't give a butter.

*VE just shrugs, and laughs* lol

I was offering an opinion; do I need the permission of his majesty to do so? lol 🙂 Being that it might be pop-psychology at it's worst really isn't the main idea here; it is only what you've just said yama; you've only further proven my point, as you agree to it as well.

"Aprilbaby, shame on you for making this into a Scorpio bashing thread!"

It's like she has a fixation or something.

"I was offering an opinion; do I need the permission of his majesty to do so?"

Huh? And I wasn't?

"you've only further proven my point, as you agree to it as well."

No, I didn't.

Yama, do you feel you are possessive/dictorial of people? What is your take on this; we are arguing, but no 'truth' is comming out of it; now, let the scorpio speak, and us listen for a while.

*motions to Yama to speak his peace by giving up the mic*

"Yama, do you feel you are possessive/dictorial of people?"

Nope, I believe in equality.

"What is your take on this; we are arguing, but no 'truth' is comming out of it; now, let the scorpio speak, and us listen for a while."

My take on this is that Scorpios have a high-self esteem because a)We are Mars ruled, which means we are designed for conflict/battle, and in battle, you are either the best, or you're dead, so Scorpios won't accept being anything but the best. b)The Scorpio dichotomy-We take things to the extremes, so we'll either really love ourselves, or hate ourselves-guess which is better. c)If you had the ability to control/manipulate/understand/defeat most people, you'd be somewhat cocky too.

I'm not here to split hairs!!! Aw, forget it, I'm on to the next subject....

*turns back only to anticipate scorpio screams*

I've talked to enough scorps to know that 'letting go' isn't a strong point.....😢

...k?

"Anyway, I've noticed that the only people who have a problem with "High and Mighty" attitude are people with low self-esteem, people with high self-esteem just shrug and don't give a shit."

"My take on this is that Scorpios have a high-self esteem...If you had the ability to control/manipulate/understand/defeat most people, you'd be somewhat cocky too."

hmmmmmmm 😉

is this out of character for Virgo?; being a perfectionist, and literaly obsessed with perfection; I don't care to control/manipulate/defeat people; that's not the WHOLE of life....just a bit. Also, I don't think anyone can understand anyone in the WHOLE....there that 'free will' comes up again.... I'm not one for going off conventions, so hearing "I am mars, and I will/am designed kick your butt!!" dosen't really phase me....lot's of people have tried, and failed....Because I used my HEAD in the fight to deliver the final blow, in a chain, not my brute arian/plutonian power; although I am pretty strong.... Anyone whom uses their head, and understands the situation at hand is equally designed for battle; to conceal/control emotions, and do your job with out so little as a flinch is my specialty; perhaps that's why we're called the machines of the zodiac...; thanx for the info though Yama!

Um, why would a Scorp want to control/manipulate another?....I just don't think that's something to be 'cocky' about....Why not invest that energy, in controling yourself, and mastering yourself, so you'd better control those savage impulses?

"I'm not one for going off conventions, so hearing "I am mars, and I will/am designed kick your butt!!" dosen't really phase me...."

You are missing my point.

"Anyone whom uses their head, and understands the situation at hand is equally designed for battle;"

I can't say I really agree with that, different people are good at different things.

oooooh VE I totally forgive you for calling me a man yesterday.

"Um, why would a Scorp want to control/manipulate another?"

To make things better.