one good thing about virgo men?

Hi all,
I'm interested in a virgo man and was just on the internet, reading up what they say about virgo men just for fun.However, what i saw got me really worried.No one seems to have anything good to say about them.

They all say virgo men are un-romantic, who'll put on the charm to win you and couldn't care less after that, they are obsessed with healthy eating and orderliness to the point of OCD.They love arguments just for the sake of it and would make sure they win every argument.They're looking for the perfect woman and would criticise you constantly or try and mould you to be as close to perfect as possible or just leave.Not very interested in sex as they're not really passionate. Honestly, i'm really worried.What kind of woman would date a man like that?The reason i'm asking is because i don't believe anyone can be that bad.

However, they're not saying a lot of good things about virgo men so help me out here guys.There should be a few of you who can tell me something good or may have virgo friends who aren't that bad!!!

Thanks

Take a look deeper in this forum. We eat pizza, drink alcohol, care deeply about our women, very romantic, quite humorous, and most well traveled and educated.

We just take seriousn relationships as that, serious. And we make sure that when we commit, a lot of thought goes into it. When reading on these forums, many of the relationships are based on a young crowd, so I don't care what sign a guy is, if he's young, the chances of sticking around after a roll or two in the hay are slim to none.

Go for it if you like the guy.

I'm not a Virgo but have dealt with one. I've also been on an emotional roller coaster regarding this Virgo. So you wonder if there is one good thing about Virgo men? They are very honest and will tell it to you straight. For the time being, the Virgo guy and I aren't speaking to one other and I have no idea what happened. We spoke back in July and he told me some things. However, I thought he was joking with saying I'd hear from him maybe some other time. He and I are friends so I didn't take what he said seriously with a comment like that. Remember, when a Virgo does say something, they mean it. I've attempted to get in contact with him but he ignores me. Now, I've given up on the whole thing to keep my sanity. The Virgo guy in my case is a nice guy, but confused. Anyway, I wish you good luck with your Virgo guy. Even though I've had difficulty with the one I know, I'm still very fond of Virgos. Don't give up. Time will tell what will happen in the future. This is a lesson I've learnt very well this year alone. All the best.

My Virgo is hiding from me, too, Mystical.
I can understand your giving up for sanity sake. I did that with mine before, though, and lost him, but gained his friendship. Now with a 2nd chance, I don't want to give up this time, even tho right now, I'm hanging on by a thread mentally.

Jaq,

My Virgo is a very wonderful lover. And was my friend, also for many years, following a marriage-bound relationship that soured. I think everyone will have their particular traits that are different and others the same within the zodiac. Best of luck to you.

Lovehatvirgoman,
Thanks for your response. I don't want to give up on the Virgo guy in my case at all. Logically, I should just ignore him like he's doing to me. His birthday was on the 8th, and I really didn't know what to do since he and I aren't speaking and I don't know what the problem is. If I only understood why he's hiding out, it might make more sense to me. I'll always be his friend but I can't keep running after him. The Virgo guy in my case is going to have to wake up and realize what he's letting go as I won't wait for him ever. Hopefully, he'll realize what a mistake he's made but I'm not holding my breath either. It's okay with the whole thing because I had to get off the merry-go-round to not lose my mind. I almost did which has never happened to me before. I'm much happier now than I've been in months. Now if Virgo guy comes back to me, remains to be seen. Time will tell. Hopefully, when he's better, he'll be thinking more clearly than he's doing now. Only a fool will let a good thing get away. Anyway, I'm being saved from a lot of heartache now as I've had too much of it with this Virgo for too long. I'm still fond of Virgos, because the one I know has to a one off with his behavior. Life is looking much brighter which is great.

I understand. I have a crisis I'm in right now with mine. It's really stressful. Would love your feedback from my other thread. No one has offered anything yet. Maybe it's a hopeless case. Hope not.

Jaq, Virgo men (and women) are exactly what you describe. They are cowards and very cold blooded individuals. Of course here on dxp all the Virgos will tell you how grat they are and blah blah blah. Forget this guy and run like hell. Thyre all weird, just read all the posts on pages one thru 20. Do your self a favor, find a real man who wont bitch up and run when you tell him you like him, or wont sit there and analyze why you care for him thinking you have some other motive, or whatever other rediculouse shananagans Virgos do. Read all the posts and save yourself.

Jag, I just have to comment. I'm seeing a Virgo man and though he can be VERY critical, he also has a heart of gold. I think the keys to Virgos at least the men are patience and honesty. They analyze everything so relationships are no different. As for sex, again comes the analysis so they will analyze what point, you two are in, in the relationship, then what changes may occur if you're intimate, what will happen if you're not intimate, it's all about thinking and predicting the outcome with them. Kind of like chess or checkers..LOL..But once they see you're sincere and trustworthy, they relax.. Once they're at this point you're home free, they're caretakers as well so they'll always be concerned about you...Just my experience with them, hope this helps...

Hi again, thanks very much for your replies. I have to say they've confused me even more.
Virguy62 says they are just like the average man out there but Johhny thinks all virgos on here will tell me how great they are so i should be warned.

Mystical and lovethatvirgoman have crisis with theirs so the only positive i'm getting is from allluv72. Thanks for your comments allluv although now i'm starting to worry because if he's analysing me that much, then i've got to pass some kind of a test to be able to start a relationship with him.

Is it really worth the hassle?I really like this guy but i don't want anymore heartache if i can avoid it.Anymore positive/great things about virgo men?

Jag,
No test is required. Just be yourself and don't change for anyone. My crisis with the Virgo guy is so surreal but it's been a worthwhile experience. You know in life there are things you would or wouldn't do again. Well, if I had to go through all the pain I've gone through with Virgo guy, I'd do again. Now you might ask yourself why in the world would I say that. Well, because I've learned how strong I really can be. Out of every experience in life there is always something to be learned. Go for it with your Virgo guy. If you don't, you might always wonder what might have been.

Jag, I agree with Mystical. Relax, be yourself and if it's meant it will happen whether it's automatic or it's like a slow burning flame. Dont get me wrong if you read some of my posts, my interaction with my Virgo is up and down based on the week or whatever he's going thru, but hard downs dont last forever, either you'll see the advantages of going thru the changes and take it day by day, or you'll say it's not worth the aggravation, either way it's up to you. But definitely be yourself because if you're not eventually it wont work anyway..Let him come to you and do whatever you'd be doing if he wasnt on your mind or in your heart..One thing I've learned is you cant rush a Virgo....

I totally agree with Allluv72 with "You can't rush a Virgo". That is one of the biggest lessons I've ever learnt regarding the Virgo I know. Virgos go at their own pace like it or not. Right now, I'm tired of going at the Virgo I know pace, so I've given up. If he ever comes around again I don't know. One thing is for sure if he comes around, I'll be completely confused once again. It's happened before. Just when I've put distance between him and I, he suddenly reappears again. It's very frustrating and like he gets a sense with he'd better contact me. The Virgo guy I know even told me once he always comes back. Well, I'm not a play thing to come and go as he pleases. You have to be a strong type of gal to handle a Virgo. I've failed miserably because after a LONG time, I wore my heart on my sleeve which sent him running which wasn't even my intention. I've never failed regarding guys before in my entire life so it's been a bit of hard pill to swallow with this Virgo guy. I've swallowed the pill and learnt a great deal.

Thats just because Johnny has always picked the wrong Virgo men in hi slife. Obviosuly he has no clue, because Virgo men respond to women, not to other guys.

He needs to find himself a nice Gemini man.

nice one V62...really pointing out the positive side of virgos there. keep up the good work.

and on a less sarcastic note...i also am not a virgo, but alas, have loved a couple of them in my time. in my experience, they're a breed that requires immense compassion in order to really shine, but when they shine...it's blinding (as well as addictive!). if you can keep in mind that the only thing harder than loving a virgo (including concrete), is being a virgo in love...most likely you'll get a glimpse of what's wonderful about virgos. a glimpse is worth it.

Hi Jag,

Read through the posts and I can completely understand why reading some things might freak you out,but remember, everyone is putting in their own experiences and more often then not people love to type out the bad rather then the good because writing is a great way to vent. I still find it difficult to understand certain charateristics about virgo men people have written because I can't empathize. I've been married to my virgo man for over a year now and it's still like the day we met!!:-) He's sweet, compassionate, veeery romantic (in his own way), a great lover, loyal, intelligent and yes a neat freak!!! But I'm head over heels for him! Yes, he's blunt and straight forward but if you ask me, that's not a bad thing! And of course in any relationship is just depends on how you guys gel regardless of the zodic signs! So don't read too much about the 'virgo man' and just focus on 'him'. Reading too much about your sign in the early stages might distort your thinking! Take it slow, see how it goes and then for fun see what seems to match up or not....it makes a difference. Hope this makes:-)

Mystical wrote: The Virgo guy I know even told me once he always comes back.

After appologising for not replying to my messages and that he didnt ignore me on purpose, my virguy friend said exactly the same thing in an email. quote: '...But i always come back'. They know we are annoyed but dont want to loose us.... at least not yet haha

"...find a real man who wont bitch up and run when you tell him you like him..." Hehehehehehe LMAO.

Hi Rainbow,

I won't go into my Virgo saga but addiction aren't good things. They can have hearts of gold, shine on like a crazy diamond, but their sense of moral platitude cuts deep.

Hey Jackass (Virguy62) you just prooved exactly what were talking about here and how people feel about you loosers. You voiced an opinion about a topic you have no clue about and showed your Virgo stupidity. Maybe your a secret fag or you havnt been held enough when you were a kid, I dont know, but if you have no idea what your talking about be quiet and move on. Its moronic Virgos like you that give you retards a bad name. Just for the record, I am indeed a Gemini and I dont run away, or move out of state to "analyze" things or do whatever the hell it is you guys do. Only Vorgos think people have some other motive for liking them other than liking them becuase they are sweet, nice looking or whatever. I never run away from people and leave them hanging when they show me affection or tell me they love me. Be a man. Also, take some lessons from Dy. Now theres a human being and A Virgo to be proud of. Your nothingbut an internet tough guy, talking smack and trying to win the argument YOU started so you can feel like a superior Virgo because thats all you self centered egotistic people have going for you. If your wondering if Im bitter over my Virgo, let me save you the trouble of trying to figure it out. Yes I am, she crazier than all the Virgos put together on this board. Not to mention selfish, a liar, a user and a manipulator.

Catfish,
i never said addiction was good and as for hurt...read the post again. i never said it wouldn't hurt either.

Johhny,
stfu, cause you're givin' us Gems a bad name too. go take some Xanax and chill out.

Hey Johhny,

Sounds like a few bad experiences with a few bad Virgos made you resent the whole lot, no? I think it's foolish to lump everyone into a position where you won't bother to give them a chance. Keep an open mind or you'll miss out on some good experiences. I prefer to give people the benefit of the doubt, though it does backfire on occasion, at least I give them a chance to leave their past behind them. Is that a bad way to live life? Or am I just another stupid Virgo?

No, its not a bad way to live at all. Read the posts theres over 400 of them. Tell me its a coincidence

Strings, you know very well by now how I feel about you and dy and I have the utmost respect for you two, theres no dispute there. In the best interest of moving on as I have, (and I admit I do vent from time to time)Ill take your advice along with Virgomoon and attempt to see things differently. Its not going to be easy. It takes a lot to change my mind.

Pdragon,
Yeah, I was astonished when the Virgo guy told me he always comes back. It's rude behavior, in my opinion. What's the purpose of disappearing to begin with? Anyhow, I don't have time for games like that anymore. It would be when I was so annoyed with him, he'd suddenly call me just out of the blue. It never made sense to me how he knew which it still doesn't. Right now the Virgo guy in my case is doing the disappearing act again. Although I'm positive it was him who calling me over a week ago (at that time I hadn't heard from him in over 5 weeks) in the middle of the night. None of my other friends would be so rude to call at such an hour. Haven't heard from him since but that's okay. I've moved on even though it's been tough. Man, Virgo men can really get under your skin. I don't know how they do it. Thankfully, the darkness has finally become brighter.

never said I was positive, but some ignoramous comes in making blanket statements like that, deserves to get slammed.

You get what you seek.

If you come on here, jag, looking for people to comment on the bad sides of Virgo's, that is what you will find.

What amazes me, is why people do this in the first place. This man in your life, is just that . . in your life. We have no clue as to his honor and principals in life. We can only speak about Virgo's that we know, or, are. Why does anybody do this?

Experience the person for who he/she is and if they turn out not to be your type, then walk away, gaining from the encounter in some positive manner, find something to learn from the union, even if it only lasts a small moment in time.

If you look for good in a person, you will find goodness.
If you look for bad in a person, you will find that also.
If your wanting to date a Virgo because there is some kind of connection, then to hell with what anybody in here can say about him because . . we don't know him.

Thanks everyone for your contributions.Thanks for your reply Miriam.It's very positive indeed.I hope i can get many more responses like that.

P-Angel, i came on here looking for positives not negatives and i seem to have got a mixture of both which i'm still thankful for.I know that the final decision comes down to us but i was just looking for the opinions of others as notso07 rightly stated.

Anyway, my virgo in question has gone awol for over a week now and we're not even in a proper relationship yet!!! A lot of people here have warned me about that and i don't know if i should find comfort in knowing that it's a normal thing for him being a virgo man and that he'll come back or take that as my hint to exit now before i'm well and truly hooked. Saying that though, he might well have his reasons for disappearing so i'm not jumping to conclusions yet!!

I understand and I know people come here to look for opinions, or confirmation. What I find so disturbing, though, is that it changes the outlook on the person in question. Trust, respect and every admirable quality a person might find in another can, and often times, is influenced either positively, or negatively, by the views and outlooks of people in here, who know nothing about the person in question.

If your opinion about him/her changes, if respect is gained, or lost in any way . . because of us and the words we type . . then that's f'ed up.

Only you know this person, only you know whether s/he's worth giving your time to, to see if a relationship can be worked out.

It really bothers me that people will value their personal relationships based off of views of people who are typed words on a computer screen, and nothing more.

"A lot of people here have warned me about that"
"i don't know if i should find comfort in knowing that it's a normal thing"
"him being a virgo man and that he'll come back"
"or take that as my hint to exit now"

We mean nothing, don't take our word for anything. YOU know him, we don't. This world isn't real . . above, quotes to suggest that your actions may depend on people who don't know anything about your man and what kind of a person he is.

P-Angel,

You're awesome, that's exactly how things should be. I came here to discuss the coincidence of me bumping into an ex I hadn't seen in 3 years whom I kind of hit it off again with a bang (pun intendid). Yeah, I had my crazy questions, I liked seeing other points of view, but in the end, the decisions were all mine, and trust me, the situation was MUCH more complicated than I made it out to be, but I've handled everything thus far, quite well.

Some people come here looking for others to make their decisions for them, that just isn't the right way to go about doing anything.

Right, i was only on here asking for people's opinions, not asking them to make decisions for me.I've had quite a few responses and i'm grateful to those who took time out to share their experiences with me. I don't see anything wrong in wanting to know other people's experiences.My decision at the end of the day will be based on how i feel like i said before.I only asked a simple question, can we please not try and over-analyse it?

Let me tell you i think that most men and women who have failed to find the Virgos to be un-romantic and not so passionate are maybe possibly themselves inadequate in these particular departments to have their virgos truly love them. When the Virgo is matched with an equally passionate partner they can be one of the most passionate and romantic lover ever. Virgo has the white flame which seems to put the passions of other signs to shame. They, Virgos, have the need to be understood and compatible. They want a compatible partner. If you know you are compatible for your Virgo then you will probably find the best love ever.
As for health conscious that they are.
By the way everyone is capable of passion and love and romance however people have different style s.

Plus this is astrology we dont know if its true but we do it for fun.

Hey Johhny girl...you proved ME corect you blathering Buffoon. Tell me Nancy Boy, with 6 years in direct combat, I lived in jungles and deserts while you sat in front of a TV palying video games and laughing with Barney. Hell I hang out in places you would wince at just reading the sign. Hell, my motorcycle would scare you away just idling.

So anytime you like Prancer, I will be quite happy to show you which one of us is the coward, because I will simply have you crying before you ever get within a foot of me, and god help you if you get that close at all.

So take a hike and shut your mouth when it has no wisdom to offer. you have proved only that you have a big mouth behind a computer screen and nothing else. Seems to me you lost your last women tyo V Men and this is why you whine so much about us. Too bad. Anytime you would like to come to Chicago and spout off, PLEASE let me know, OK?

What an idiot.

As a matter of fact Dickhead, Im from Chicago, Ill meet you anytime any place.

Good Nancy Boy. And it will be a pleasure to swat you around like the idiot you are.

Big man behind a keyboard, bet you live in Newtown too. Or a Wrigleyville yuppie wannabe.

I like wannabees of any type. Makes it more fun to stomp the stupid out of them.

Hey fag boy, Ill meet you at charlies pub 51st and wentworth. 8:00 P.M. Dont ride your bike down there.

lol STrings! I only do it to brainless idiots, especially this ghetto trash wannabe.

I'd slap the stupid out of him but I fear it would deprive me of at least 10 years of my life.

A buffoon like that is never a threat to a real man, he wants to meet in the ghetto so him and his homies can jump out and pop a cap! OOOH I am so afraid! lol

Not a prob STrings, I'll let the little floozie go and rant!

yeah but your still a pussy, i wasnt the no show you Virgo faggot.

As usual...

Virgo chauvinists... pops in... Trying to defend the damn Virgos cause someone had problem with the production line..

You Virgos.. GIVE IT UP RIGHT NOW?. Why are you guys trying to explain what is or went wrong in somebody else?s life..??

May I ask you why you do it..??

They are all; of course can kiss my ASS..

But? what are you guys trying to poof..??

prove* i meant...

lol, the idiot will never learn! Just a dumb kid who has no clue and feels like a real man by going on the internet and acting tough is all. He is not even from Chicago, just a suburban kid who thinks he's a city boy. Would have been fun to mop a floor with the dolt, but he's just not worth my time. Him and the 4 buddies he tried to recruit to "back him"....lol! What a joke.

Yep, I know who you are buffoon, I am after all an Internet genious. I think I will help his social life move along and post his parents....er... his home address and phone number on all the Gay sites where I am sure he will end up happy!

Virguy your a pussy and a coward like all virgos !

There you go... ... the wisdom of J something.. aint that cool? idiots pops in? and voila?. All Virgos are the same. Tell me J sometning.. are you a politician..??.

If not.. shut the fuck up you faggot?.. good enough..?

As a matter of fact I am how did you know ?

Oww wow.. you mean that::?

Call it.. Virgo?s.. intuitions?

Next time.-? shut the hell up J something? it is a good practice

Ok good your very intuative. The last postings were pretty much about how cowardly, insane or whatever you want to call it you Virgos are. However, those postings were based on my personal experience (and theres been a few) with Virgos. Every single one has been more amusing than the other. My best friend is a Virgo and I tell him all the time that hes a mess with the way he handles things. He laughs and tells me "Dude thats how we are" now he of course thinks its funny but Im the one paying the piper trying to fix his messes with his women hes pushing to commit suicide. Now you can say "well, your genaralizing, were not all like that" and that might be fine, and yes I do generalize, always have always will, and I am doing that BASED ON PERSONAL EXPERIENCES AND BASED ON HOW FRIENDS ACT. The only person on this topic who had anything logical to say is Virgomoon. Other Virgos here that cant handle the smack talking are getting huffy and puffy over this telling me that they have scary motorcycles, challenging me to fight with them, and how they lived in the jungle and ate roaches for a living. So again whos the kid here? Im not getting angry and I didnt personally attack anyones charachter I (Unlike Virguy) who right away assumed Im a kid, Im ghetto trash, and blah blah blah which non of those are correct or true. If you so called Virgos are different then prove it with facts. Thats what this forum is all about. Its about exchanging ideas, experiences, and views. So far not one person other than Virgomoon and strings had anything ideal and positive to say which again only goes to show what he have covered over tha last few days. Share your thoughts and experiences with people on this board, show them that WE are wrong and that we are missing out and maybe WE should change our minds about how we look at certain issues concerning these postings. Had I continued to bash Virgos I assure you every single Virgo would rant and rave but not one would prove me wrong with facts. If any Virgo can proove me wrong and show me that my preconcieved notions about Virgos are wrong you will have a case of beer delivered to the P.O. Box of your choice. Bring it on ! This I have to see !.

Ok Buffoon. I stand 6'3", weigh 258, served 6 years in an Intel unit in jungles and deserts, probably been in more bar brawls than you can count up to, probably killed more people than you are old, and at 44 can still take 4-5 idiots out in a bar without getting more than a bruise. I am skilled in 3 martial arts as well as hand to hand combat. You feel you can call me names from a keyboard in your moms dining room, so be it. I guarantee it would never happen face to face.

I back down from no one, and definitely have better people to brow beat than some kid who has to speak ebonics in order to make himself out to be something he is not.

The fact that you call people cowards without even knowing who they are shows the entire world you cannot think in a normal capacity. You cannot even be yourself with your "talk smack" BS, and most likely will have no clue to who you really are. The fact is, idiots like you who open their mouth and try to act oh so bad, are usually the first ones to run from battle, or cry when they get beat down.

You sound like the McJob type idiot you truly are, and have no sense of self. You are a homosexual not because you were born this way, but because no woman will have your petty whiny little @ss. So take your teenage little rantings, and go somehwere else where people may actually fall for your Faux He Man facade, and allow you to think you are something you will never be, when all the while you accuse others of the same character traits you posses in yourself but are terrified to face.

It is a known fact to anyone who has lived at all, that the loudest mouth is usually connected to the fastest set of feet. I saw it in battle, I see it in bars, I see it in business where spinless little fractions of men as yourself try to push what little weight they have around.

So take your quasi-Rambo BS somewhere else because people are tired of your twisted little weasel @ss coming in here and trying to use an astrological sign of all things to boost your pathetic little ego above the low elevated state it is in. Ask your mom to bake you another cookie, warm up some milk, and talk trash on a site where people are too young and stupid to buy into your little act here Nancy.

P.S. - I drink Heinekin or Warsteiner by the way.