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Been about a year in 2 months now. It's pretty juvenile on both our parts but here is the layout. So me and this chick have known of each other for years and were just neutral as we travel in the same scenes. Given our reputations of being really discriminating, mutual friends tried to set us up or whatever. That's when the ego clash started I think. If we saw each other out the club we would just trade glances back and forth all night for like 2 months. So I guess she bit first and came over one night and talked me up did the hit you in the arm thing when they like you. Then out of nowhere I get like a kung fu grip hug.I hate that but it wasn't too bad from her though, anyway I get her number then I ask her out.All I remember at that time is hearing *maybe*!!?? I stupidly filtered out that she said she had a photo shoot and ask her next week. I called like once and talked to her then my ego kicked in and I said I had to go to practice and immediately ended the call. Yeah so a year rolls by and we see each other at the club once again, I the next few weeks I see her at the club were back to the back and forth looks again I head over and talk to her with her and she's pretty cold. 2 weeks later she sees me at the club and starts dancing like 3 feet away, right in front and she's pretty conservative so I was kinda shocked. Then she left later that night. The last time I saw her was 2 fridays ago hugged up with some dude and she never does pda and I think the kissed em. She glared at me one and then ignored me all night. I just found out she's a virgo (sigh) umm lil help. Thinking about what to do shit this would be my 1st v girl experience.
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Sigh...some of you V men need to be knocked upside the head! lol

She was CLEARLY showing some interest in you...dancing three feet away from you...that was her invitation for you to come and dance with her. Of course you were shocked. In a situation like this, Virgals usually only come out of 'conservative mode' when we are genuinely trying to get someone's attention because, why else would we bother?

Why didn't you dance with her? Do you not like her? If not, that's fine.

So she was hugged up with another guy, ok, maybe the ship has sailed...maybe not. Next time when you see her, DO SOMETHING and see where it leads you...k?
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I'm sure you don't mind walking behind to get a better look...what guy wouldn't? 😉

This is what lobo should have done to the Virgal at the clizub. Walked up behind her, checked her out, then grabbed her by the waist and gyrated on top of her all night...but nah, Virgo guys have more class than that.

Isn't that what a Scorp boy would have done? Oh no wait...you would sit in the dark corner and watch her all night and think up creative ways to eventually drag her down to the underworld...bad boys of the zodiac you are. 😉
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Possible fear of rejection? Or is it just not your style to chase?

I was just talking to this guy about how men 'create attraction' and then suddenly have the women chasing them (reverse psychology I guess). Especially guys who are shy & insecure/have had bad luck with women in the past.

I don't go to bars and never really did the club thing and the few times I did, I 'played the wall' and whenever a guy offered to buy me a drink I always said no. Just not my thing. I really don't like the taste of liquor. Period. Can't stand it when women hang around the bar waiting for a guy to buy them a drink. So ridiculous and desperate seeming. Sorry, just my thought.
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This is the 21st Century and women have come a-courting a whole lot more but some men seem to get turned off when they do. Seen it with my own two eyes.

"Raised and embraced equality in that sense"

I understand that but I'm pretty traditional so you won't catch my ass a-courting no one. Don't get me wrong, I will show my interest but, I still believe that men should do most of the pursuing.

"Don't be sorry, you are correct, they are a joke, and I mean friends and I say the cruelest shit to scrubbers like that, not to their faces but from where we'd be sat, they probably think the glances mean we want them, haahaha."

So they're at the bar thinking you guys want them and are so interested yet you're sitting their making fun of them...lol. Don't be a duesche EEE, drinks are expensive nowadays! HAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!! Now I'm playing for the other side!

Now that I think of it, Samantha was pretty clumsy wasn't she? Hot but clumsy...so transparent. She could of had more meaningful relationships but men could see what she was all about. What a waste of a beautiful, talented and gorgeous woman.

Sometimes people have to be taught...no? If there is a girl you are interested in and she's not 'doing it right', why not get to know her and take the time out to teach her a few things? Too much work or she should already have it down?




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So just got in from the club. And she was there, so we talked and danced some. So the good thing is my fear that she was gonna kick my heart in the ass was cleared. As I was informed that she's was kinda talking someone. So it was more like a kick in the nuts buy a 8 year old girl scout. And that she waited but me mr. non action f'd that up. So I guess until the flamethrower that's burning for her dies out I'll escape into an ass load of school work and kewl activities like yarn collecting. That sounds pain staking and tedious, so as to numb my brain. Dammit I wish I had *tiger blood* then I would be dating her for a year already.