Virgos: Have you ever dated another virgo?

What was it like?

I find myself attracted to Virgo men, but have never actually dated one. I often wonder if we would click.

Nah, never dated one.

I always joke that one of us would be dead (criticism, nagging, fussiness, etc) before the ink on the marriage license is dry, lol, but I have actually seen it work on more than one occassion. Typical Virgo man/Virgo woman pairing is a pretty nice sight to behold. Classy, good looking, intelligent, clean house, well raised chilluns, seek out the creme de la creme in everything, really sort of 'high society'.

Posted by 25thDecan
Nope. *shrugs
Some attractions, yes...often leaves me being misjudged by them...same as so many libra women.

I admit, I am guilty of misjudging guys myself, but only because I call it like I see it lol. In what way do they tend to misjudge you?

Posted by VirgoVixxxen
Nah, never dated one.

I always joke that one of us would be dead (criticism, nagging, fussiness, etc) before the ink on the marriage license is dry, lol, but I have actually seen it work on more than one occassion. Typical Virgo man/Virgo woman pairing is a pretty nice sight to behold. Classy, good looking, intelligent, clean house, well raised chilluns, seek out the creme de la creme in everything, really sort of 'high society'.

lol yes a virgo/virgo relationship sounds great on paper doesn't it? Virgo men tend to have this serious/sexy/down to business thing going on though, and I find that attractive. Yet they never approach me, I keep attracting capricorn men (ugh, bad memories lol)

Nope me either....never even met a virgo guy (as far as I know in RL). That would be very interesting though.

All the time.

I really want a Virgette!!!
Yossarian is a lucky man....

The one who I did show interest in, her parents were racist. Seems to be a recurring problem in my life.

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Posted by VirgoVixxxen
Nah, never dated one.

I always joke that one of us would be dead (criticism, nagging, fussiness, etc) before the ink on the marriage license is dry, lol, but I have actually seen it work on more than one occassion. Typical Virgo man/Virgo woman pairing is a pretty nice sight to behold. Classy, good looking, intelligent, clean house, well raised chilluns, seek out the creme de la creme in everything, really sort of 'high society'.

lol yes a virgo/virgo relationship sounds great on paper doesn't it? Virgo men tend to have this serious/sexy/down to business thing going on though, and I find that attractive. Yet they never approach me, I keep attracting capricorn men (ugh, bad memories lol)

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Yeah, don't think I've ever really met any in a regular social setting. Only at work and they are usually the computer techs, bookkeepers, editors, financial analysts (or something of that sort) quietly and diligently working away at thier desks, and just as reserved as me so who's gonna make the first move...if there is any interest to be had in the first place? Sometimes we're too damn hermit-like for our own good.

I've never met a cappy I didn't like. So debonair those boys, but, I'm boring, they're boring. Shit! I need some passion. Those water boys are the ones who make my head turn. They're enigmas...and you know us Virgos, always like a good puzzle...to put together. lol.

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"Those water boys are the ones who make my head turn. They're enigmas...and you know us Virgos, always like a good puzzle...to put together. lol."

^^^Agreed!! LOL

I've only met two virgo men in my life. One was a friend of a co-worker and he just wasn't my type. He would try to flirt with me while I was working and it was just always awkward. The other was a short lived friend who moved away. We always flirted with each other, but it never went past that. I did enjoy his company though. I always felt like we had an unspoken understanding with each other, if that makes any sense.

Most (typical?) Virgo men don't even turn my head but there have been a few that have shaken me in my shoes! There was much of a turn-on as I could sense a strong mental connection/similar wave length at work between us that disarmed us both (in an unsettling yet delicious way, lol). That turn-on has worked both ways, and it's always been my preferred sign to be with. Might change my mind about that, though, if I ever wind up with one. 😄

Caje, you would totally rock my world (if I were a tad bit younger), lol. 😉

I did. Overall it was a good relationship. He was straightforward no guessing games and good manners and conversation. I really liked his sense of humour too. Like Yossarian there were no big blowups. You should try it 🙂
If there were any downsides, I'd say he would give advice on how to fix things in my life (which I didn't ask for) but it wasn't a big deal since he wasn't a controlling type trying to make me do what he thought was best. He wasn't a mushy romantic type but I didn't mind I'm more of a reserved person anyway. Our quirks kind of blended well.

^^^^^ 😉

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Caje, you would totally rock my world (if I were a tad bit younger), lol. 😉

I am still very capable, regardless of age mind you 😉

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Thanks Cajun! I feel blessed indeed. We do have problems sometimes with little things; it's our collective personalities, but the trade off is we never have big blowups.

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Can't emphasise how good that sounds 🙂

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Caje, you would totally rock my world (if I were a tad bit younger), lol. 😉

I am still very capable, regardless of age mind you 😉

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LOL, you're a doll.

Really depends on the pairing. Maybe the decan. I'm 3 months into a relationship with a wonderful V-Girl (1st Decan I believe) and I'm a 3rd Decan. Alot also has to do with evolvement, love for one another and love for yourself. FIrst time I've learned not to turn a critical eye towards my significant other and it has been a wonderful experience. . . Up until she broke my heart.

Posted by 25thDecan
Wouldn't mind "pulling some hair" with one though......

Lol,ah yes gotta love the "hair pulling" haha

Those water boys are the ones who make my head turn. They're enigmas...and you know us Virgos, always like a good puzzle...to put together. lol.

Totally agree!

Posted by 69virgo
That's all i dated before i got married and i love virgo women..love love love..😉the relationships were always so smooth,and the sex was always like a heavy weight boxing match..😛 Damn virgo women know how too put it down..* thinking back* and they so fucking sweet *omg* some were a lil mean sometimes but once you get under that body proof shield they wear..😉 its all good from there...lol

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No. And I don't believe I have the patience to do so, so that's a past/present/future no.

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Posted by CLCNY30
No. And I don't believe I have the patience to do so, so that's a past/present/future no.

And good morning too you {virgo hater}..lol

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Lmfao, not a Virgo hater--just that Virgo men remind me of Pisces men, with just a smidge less commitmophobe issues. Just too many mindgames, selfishness, and retreat tactics. Not saying all Virgo men, mind you--that wouldn't be fair, but the ones I've come into contact with for sure.

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No. And I don't believe I have the patience to do so, so that's a past/present/future no.

And good morning too you {virgo hater}..lol

Lmfao, not a Virgo hater--just that Virgo men remind me of Pisces men, with just a smidge less commitmophobe issues. Just too many mindgames, selfishness, and retreat tactics. Not saying all Virgo men, mind you--that wouldn't be fair, but the ones I've come into contact with for sure.

Well you'll never know if you prejudge before you ever give them a shot...throw the astrology stuff out the window in the beginning too give them a shot,then bring it in slowly..because astrology is just another wall people that know about it put up too prejudge alot of people that they might like if not for astrology..it's fun stuff but im glad i got into it later on in life..

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If the day comes where I meet that Virgo man who doesn't make me want to kick puppies and push old people down the stairs out of frustration, then perhaps.

Posted by 25thDecan
CC just doesn't know she's gonna have all my wide-cheeked mongrel "what race are YOU" children one day. LOL

LMFAO!

Go sit in the corner for that one 😛

Posted by 25thDecan
CC just doesn't know she's gonna have all my wide-cheeked mongrel "what race are YOU" children one day. LOL

LOL @ your sense of humor, 25th!

Yes, funny, no mindgames, straightforward, very polite. Didn't workout because he was only a year older than me and perhaps that's why he's a bit immature.

Posted by Virgobeauty
Those water boys are the ones who make my head turn. They're enigmas...and you know us Virgos, always like a good puzzle...to put together. lol.

Totally agree!

Yep, I love pisces to death even though they can sometimes be bad for my health. My relationship with them is always so esoteric. Let's not talk about the nooky!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I won't go there but DAMN!!

Virgo men are a little too stiff and insipid for me. We would probably get into a lot of arguements about who is right all of the time. Being with someone that knows my way of thinking kind of makes me feel like I will never be able to have a secret part of myself to myself. I'm not sure that I'd want someone that knows me that well. I've never dated one though. Just friended a few. Maybe I should never say never.