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as being a virgo i like make sure everything is right for me meaning caring about my health my mentality staying sharp up 2 date on everything.

why dont people vaule themselves we are all humans and we shouldnt feel inferior when it comes 2 other humans.

noe ur worth

noe were u stand in life

love ur self and love others.

Have peace of mind.

Be calm thru in anything you do.
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False bravado hiding self-esteem issues doesnt equal valuing onself.



This is too true. Not as an insult to legendary virgo or virgos in general.

People coast through life on false bravado. They get away with it because others who don't value themselves see this false bravado and mistake it for confidence.

It doesn't help that most take things at face value or that true confidence is indescribable.

So us souls who wander through the world with scars we are learning from won't be seen as confident in ourselves. Everyone has moments of insecurity though...

Never thought I'd say this but the virgo board is a really cool place. Lots of little gems of knowledge scattered in the words of random strangers.

Kudos
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Posted by &2gedanow: Never thought I'd say this but the virgo board is a really cool place. Lots of little gems of knowledge scattered in the words of random strangers.



i like the virgo board b/c most of the virgos here seem to write in terms of what they wish they were rather than what IN MY EXPERIENCE virgos typically are.

a virgo with a *real* inflated sense of self? sure, it's what they want you to believe but get to know them on a personal level and IN MY EXPERIENCE they're anything but. they so want to be like leo and libra. it's the brady bunch all over again. not quite youthful and cute like cindy or beautiful and popular like marcia...marcia, marcia, marcia!!!

so yes, i like the virgo board. it's like walking into the "special" ward in a hospital. sad but entertaining 😄
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Posted by &2gedanow: Never thought I'd say this but the virgo board is a really cool place. Lots of little gems of knowledge scattered in the words of random strangers.



it's like walking into the "special" ward in a hospital. sad but entertaining 😄
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Mmmm, see that's how I'd describe listening to the virgos I know in real life talk... yyyexcept it isn't entertaining.

Not a fan of the virgos on here, I take it, tubby? lol
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lol@n.node - you're right. my lack of a virgo presence has resulted in a wardrobe malfunction. i should know better. at least now i have a backup. next time i'll have a virgo in waiting.

@2gedanow - virgos are cool cats. one of my bffs is a VM. one of the chicks i talk to daily is a virgo. they're good people.

now these online cats, there are just far too many posts about how virgos are special/unique/different...whatever. just seems a lil over done and desperate. and seriously, am i the only one having brady bunch flashbacks?

Jan Brady: I'd like to buy a wig please.

Saleswoman: Not for yourself. Why would you want to cover such beautiful blonde hair?

Jan Brady: You'd understand if you had two blonde sisters at home.

Saleswoman: Oh, so we want a complete change do we?

Jan Brady: Yes ma'me.

Saleswoman: Ok. What kind of style are you looking for?

Jan Brady: I don't know. Something wild. Cookey. Kinda like something you're wearing.

Saleswoman: This is my own hair.

Jan Brady: Oh! I'm so sorry!

Saleswoman: Not half as sorry as I am.
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as being a virgo i like make sure everything is right for me meaning caring about my health my mentality staying sharp up 2 date on everything.

why dont people vaule themselves we are all humans and we shouldnt feel inferior when it comes 2 other humans.

noe ur worth

noe were u stand in life

love ur self and love others.

Have peace of mind.

Be calm thru in anything you do.


LV i think everyone knows this in some way or some part. People are usually so busy with everything else, they lose track of time or even their selves -- either that they just don't care. It's just how it is. Some places people can't even afford to have the care they would wish to have because of the problems around them. Want to change it? They can do that for their selves if they choose to.. I think there are many people who are thinking to do something in some way to reach out to people, but I do entirely agree with what you said. But I don't entirely think it's because of being a virgo, everyone can think much alike in this matter.

I think it just comes to a point, where you just have to accept people and their imperfections. No ones perfect and there are always going to be flaws, whether you like it or not. It's a big world and it's definitely all over the place.
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or should i say, make believe but entertaining? eh, you get the idea.

on a side note, i burnt the dress i was gonna wear tonight with the iron 😢


and I overcooked my Chowder in the microwave.

tubbyscubby you don't know all of the virgos on this board and we aren't all entirely alike. Everyone here are from different places and we are definitely not one of your group of friends that you know in your life. Just because we are "Virgo" doesn't mean we are going to be like those "Virgos" you know. Just saying, you don't need to come on a board and start talking smack about everyone on here like you know all of the users at a personal Level, that is just kind of odd to me. I respect everyone on here, don't want any meddling bull crap, but thought I would just put a point across. It's not like you came to face with all of us.
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or should i say, make believe but entertaining? eh, you get the idea.

on a side note, i burnt the dress i was gonna wear tonight with the iron 😢


and I overcooked my Chowder in the microwave.

tubbyscubby you don't know all of the virgos on this board and we aren't all entirely alike. Everyone here are from different places and we are definitely not one of your group of friends that you know in your life. Just because we are "Virgo" doesn't mean we are going to be like those "Virgos" you know. Just saying, you don't need to come on a board and start talking smack about everyone on here like you know all of the users at a personal Level, that is just kind of odd to me. I respect everyone on here, don't want any meddling bull crap, but thought I would just put a point across. It's not like you came to face with all of us.
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u are right i dont noe why she bash virgos on here or in general like we are fake we are virgos but different at tha same time no one is bashing taurus people saying they are slow and cant think lmao.

oops i think i just did bash taurus lmao.
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Posted by &2gedanow: Never thought I'd say this but the virgo board is a really cool place. Lots of little gems of knowledge scattered in the words of random strangers.



i like the virgo board b/c most of the virgos here seem to write in terms of what they wish they were rather than what IN MY EXPERIENCE virgos typically are.

a virgo with a *real* inflated sense of self? sure, it's what they want you to believe but get to know them on a personal level and IN MY EXPERIENCE they're anything but. they so want to be like leo and libra. it's the brady bunch all over again. not quite youthful and cute like cindy or beautiful and popular like marcia...marcia, marcia, marcia!!!

so yes, i like the virgo board. it's like walking into the "special" ward in a hospital. sad but entertaining 😄
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yea yet you are still here nobody wants to be like leos or libras we are virgos and we rock if u dont like us thats 2 bad for you.

ps we are not wannabes either lady i think ur jealous because your not one of us hehehe.
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yea yet you are still here nobody wants to be like leos or libras we are virgos and we rock if u dont like us thats 2 bad for you.

ps we are not wannabes either lady i think ur jealous because your not one of us hehehe.



unlike the scorpio board where there's always an impending train wreck, here it's like watching a bunch of little boys walking around in daddy's shoes.

if you believed half of what you claim to believe about yourself i'd be surprised. i mean this in the internet Jan.
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and I overcooked my Chowder in the microwave.

tubbyscubby you don't know all of the virgos on this board and we aren't all entirely alike. Everyone here are from different places and we are definitely not one of your group of friends that you know in your life. Just because we are "Virgo" doesn't mean we are going to be like those "Virgos" you know. Just saying, you don't need to come on a board and start talking smack about everyone on here like you know all of the users at a personal Level, that is just kind of odd to me. I respect everyone on here, don't want any meddling bull crap, but thought I would just put a point across. It's not like you came to face with all of us.



who...are...you?

you know what i find odd? that you would read a post entitled "people don't value themselves" in which some guy talks about how virgos do value themselves but others don't and you want to tell me i'm the one judging folk. yeaaaaaaaaaa, ok.

i calls 'em as i sees 'em and right now i see a bunch a Jan Brady's and to Jan's credit, "Marcia, Marcia, Marcia" was one of the most memorable lines from the Brady Bunch. sometimes being a loser is a claim to fame 😉



now back to General Hospital - The Virgo Ward.
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Well the topic is there for everyone to see & I'm sure he didn't mean to put it in that way. Unless he did, it shouldn't be taken seriously.. we don't all exactly think in that way. I did quote to LV.

Um, anyway.. I was a huge fan of Saved By The Bell growing up as a child 🙂

But yeah, TB it's just the same.. I don't know you either. Like everyone else on here don't know each other, lol. It's just a board where people can discuss whatever it is they're going through. Everyone has their differences going on in their lives. They should share whatever it is they wish to.
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Anyway TC I never had a problem with you and don't intend to, so end it here. It just got me, where you at the end of the 1st page you mentioned about all the virgos, but I don't even care about it anymore.

I agree a lot with what Shaka_laka_boomboom said though and his responses. But like I mentioned before, everyone basically has a value towards some aspect of their life, it's not mainly just a particular sign. I'm not sure if LV has been misunderstood, but that's for him to say whatever it is on his mind.
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@VirLeo - here's the thing. are we talking about virgos in terms of astrology or are we talking about individuals? when i speak of the virgos i know, i'm talking about these people in terms of their signs. i personally don't have the time or energy to know the subtle differences between every virgo on the planet. what does your sign say about you? is what it says true? is it true of most people born under the same sign? if so, don't complain about being lumped under your sign. i mean, hell, why identify yourself as a virgo if you don't want the virgo label and all that it entails?

if you were to ask a room full of tau, leo, scorp, aqua if they're stubborn, aside from the aqua who would fidget because they hate being defined, we'd all GENERALLY stand up and say "I." good or bad, ain't no shame in admitting you are what you are.

i just did a quick search on "virgo traits." you know what the positive ones are?

Modest and shy
Meticulous and reliable
Practical and diligent
Intelligent and analytical

what's so modest about the first post? nothing. but you know what i forgot? this has less to do with false bravado and more to do with the other virgo traits. among them of course being critical and judgmental 😉
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Hey, I never said that I had a problem with being a virgo, but anyway I must have gotten carried away.. and didn't actually read through all of it thoroughly (which I just did) LOL

It's just mainly the point about you having this whole idea of us wanting to be another sign or whatever (I really don't care, it's whatever..). I'm myself through and through, I don't let astrology ever get in the way of how I am. It's whether i agree with it or not.. relate with it or not.. like in natal charts for instance, they have placements of all of the other signs. If I can agree with it, then I would understand. If not, then I wouldn't. But I wouldn't try and want to be that particular sign. But I think that it just comes naturally to people when they behave in public and the different vibe and scenery of the situation they're in. It's more psychological than astrology. But I am in no way a expert in this, so from what I've learned so far it is quite interesting..lol I have my ups and downs .. quirks etc like everyone else, I'm only human.

Anyway I changed my SN. I was going to do this awhiiile back, but I guess i thought i go ahead and get it done.
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Hey, I never said that I had a problem with being a virgo, but anyway I must have gotten carried away.. and didn't actually read through all of it thoroughly (which I just did) LOL

It's just mainly the point about you having this whole idea of us wanting to be another sign or whatever (I really don't care, it's whatever..). I'm myself through and through, I don't let astrology ever get in the way of how I am. It's whether i agree with it or not.. relate with it or not.. like in natal charts for instance, they have placements of all of the other signs. If I can agree with it, then I would understand. If not, then I wouldn't. But I wouldn't try and want to be that particular sign. But I think that it just comes naturally to people when they behave in public and the different vibe and scenery of the situation they're in. It's more psychological than astrology. But I am in no way a expert in this, so from what I've learned so far it is quite interesting..lol I have my ups and downs .. quirks etc like everyone else, I'm only human.

Anyway I changed my SN. I was going to do this awhiiile back, but I guess i thought i go ahead and get it done.



taking it way too seriously chicky. and unless you have an inflated sense of self or "look at me syndrome," you are not Jan.

you know, scorpios are in the same ward in the hospital as virgos except scorps are more likely to throw bed pans and poo at you. virgos are too clean for that 😉
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Well the topic is there for everyone to see & I'm sure he didn't mean to put it in that way. Unless he did, it shouldn't be taken seriously.. we don't all exactly think in that way. I did quote to LV.

Um, anyway.. I was a huge fan of Saved By The Bell growing up as a child 🙂

But yeah, TB it's just the same.. I don't know you either. Like everyone else on here don't know each other, lol. It's just a board where people can discuss whatever it is they're going through. Everyone has their differences going on in their lives. They should share whatever it is they wish to.



it was a joke love pushing people buttons and she fell for it i said as a virgo because virgos pride themselves for being the most health conscious and mentally sharp lol.

but she's a Taurus and they cant read between the lines so you must explain it 2 dem like children lmao.


and yea maybe i'am misunderstood for making people wanna think for themselves to figure things out.
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Interesting thread.... and I'm really surprise and provoked by some of the responses. I think that it's not self-value, but more of a self-image thing. Too many people are too concerned about how they are portraying themselves to the outside world, and if their inners don't match up with their outers, then they develop a self-consciousness.

I don't experience any de-valuing of myself in any circumstances.... I have gone through too much in my life to allow others to dictate to me how I should feel. But every now-and-then when I am too strong for my own good, and I start to feel that people are against me, then I start cracking inside. But I will rarely show my insecurities to the wrong people. Sometimes I will expose an insecurity to someone I care about, just to see how they will handle me. If I feel that I can trust you with my insecurities, then I trust you. But I have HUGE trust issues..... some people just give up, because I won't give in.

Everyone has insecurities..... I have body image insecurities. I have trust insecurities. I need things that I do be perfect, otherwise who knows what insecurity will develop if I don't do things JUST right. At work is when I'm the most exposed, because I am soooo passionate about what I do, that if I cook something wrong, or if it doesn't taste as good as I want it to, then I feel like I automatically suck. I'm very intense at work.... it is when I am my best and when I am my worse. When I do something wrong when I know I should of done it right, then that's when it's the worse for me. To hear from my chef or sous chef that I know better and that I shouldn't of done it a certain way, GOD IT KILLS ME!!!! It's like they exposed me in a lie or something..... I become embarrassed and I wanna cry!!! I beat myself up so much. But that is why I love what I do...... it's everything, rolled into one. And I can walk away at the end of the night knowing what I can do better the next day. It's like instant karma.....
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Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

you kno what mia i appreciate ur honesty ur pretty cool.

glad u find this thread intriguing.



hahaha..... not everyone thinks that I'm cool. I'm real... got no reason to be fake. Mostly because I just wanna live my life with as less hassle and as less stress as possible. So, I've got no reason to manipulate anybody... just wanna participate with people in this thing called life. Part of my spiritual beliefs too.....
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@m.i.a. - agreed. everyone has insecurities. some folks choose to deny them altogether but most of us mask them to keep from feeling/looking/being vulnerable. some folks masks are more impenetrable than others. some of that probably has to do with the day we're born, other parts may be due to our upbringing.



Yea, you actually bring up a good point.

But as far as the nature vs nurture issue.... I'm not too sure. I think character has a lot to do with it. Part of having character is the ability of self-reflecting, self-analyzing, and self-acknowledgment. It's one thing to have insecurities and it's another thing to be insecure.

When you are an insecure person compared to being a person with insecurities, I think it boils down to manipulation of others to make yourself feel secure vs. feeling vulnerable in situations that bring out your insecurities.
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Interesting thread.... and I'm really surprise and provoked by some of the responses. I think that it's not self-value, but more of a self-image thing. Too many people are too concerned about how they are portraying themselves to the outside world, and if their inners don't match up with their outers, then they develop a self-consciousness.

I don't experience any de-valuing of myself in any circumstances.... I have gone through too much in my life to allow others to dictate to me how I should feel. But every now-and-then when I am too strong for my own good, and I start to feel that people are against me, then I start cracking inside. But I will rarely show my insecurities to the wrong people. Sometimes I will expose an insecurity to someone I care about, just to see how they will handle me. If I feel that I can trust you with my insecurities, then I trust you. But I have HUGE trust issues..... some people just give up, because I won't give in.

Everyone has insecurities..... I have body image insecurities. I have trust insecurities. I need things that I do be perfect, otherwise who knows what insecurity will develop if I don't do things JUST right. At work is when I'm the most exposed, because I am soooo passionate about what I do, that if I cook something wrong, or if it doesn't taste as good as I want it to, then I feel like I automatically suck. I'm very intense at work.... it is when I am my best and when I am my worse. When I do something wrong when I know I should of done it right, then that's when it's the worse for me. To hear from my chef or sous chef that I know better and that I shouldn't of done it a certain way, GOD IT KILLS ME!!!! It's like they exposed me in a lie or something..... I become embarrassed and I wanna cry!!! I beat myself up so much. But that is why I love what I do...... it's everything, rolled into one. And I can walk away at the end of the night knowing what I can do better the next day. It's like instant karma.....


I couldn't agree more with this, I am much like this as well..

TC it has nothing to do with me having some kind of inflation lol or a "look at me syndrome" that you have this whole idea going. I'm just explaining my own point across like everyone else here would.