@Mattofla
16 Years
How do Virgos deal with sadness?
How Virgos Typically Manage Sadness
Virgos tend to cope with sadness by focusing on practicality and organization. They may analyze their feelings, seek solutions, or immerse themselves in productive activities to regain balance. Understanding Virgo's approach helps in providing support or managing expectations during difficult times.
Posted by sortilege85
I just try to make something positive out of it or laugh or start a task or make fun of it, and I'm back to normal.Psychology helped me learn ways to better handle an emotion such as this or anger and jealousy and blah, blah.
Ditto
I either laugh it off or find something interesting to get into.
i recognize the emotion 2 understand why im sad grasp it then move on and not stay stuck whats the point.
i guess virgos like 2 stay busy so they dont have 2 get into feelings most of the time haha.
I see. It must be the major amounts of Scorpio in me. If only I had the life of an Aquarius... 😛
Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
dude the key is about putting things into perspective, as long as youre not dying or going through a similar situation you are ok, always. Just dont take for granted all what you have. The world/universe is always moving/changing, so keep moving along with it. Theres always new things coming, always.
I know I am not a Virgo but I do this for sure. I just say if something bad is going on and it's not something that could potentially kill me that it will only make me stronger and then try and get my focus on something else in my life that I am grateful for.
Posted by Mattofla
I see. It must be the major amounts of Scorpio in me. If only I had the life of an Aquarius... 😛
I can relate I am a Virgo with a Scorp moon. Every emotion is felt with much intensity, making us the most emotional Virgos of all Virgos.
Posted by Mattofla
I see. It must be the major amounts of Scorpio in me. If only I had the life of an Aquarius... 😛I can relate I am a Virgo with a Scorp moon. Every emotion is felt with much intensity, making us the most emotional Virgos of all Virgos.
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nope its a virgo with a pisces moon why because my best friend whos a virgo has that moon placement he can be emo at times.
being a lunar lion i cant really understand people at times cuz its mostly about me hehehe owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww lmao.
yeah im a virgo with a pisces moon,my emotional side only comes out when im involved with the opposite sex. i'm an extremely deep feeler/thinker. i tend to conflict with myself whenever i get sad,as i do see crying as a weakness on my part(must be the virgo part of me). but sometimes i'll get stuck in a rut almost being comfortable in a depressed state of mind. but i always tend to feel better when i keep busy,being at work always cures a sad mood for me.
As a virgo male, the mere thought that someone, anyone may see me crying, drives me bonkers. I cannot show emotions like that, which is probably why it is all bottled up inside. Sometimes watching a TV commercial will make me shed a tear. Another annoying virgo trait.
yeah...
if it makes you guys feel a bit better, I know a Capricorn with moon in pisces
believe me ... he cried at many occasions talking to me. Girls tell about him he has no feelings. I just can't believe what they are talking about, even on the phone after talking to me for 3 hours straight, He cried! Sometimes I just don't know what to do or what to say because I feel things intensely as a scorpio, but with him... I start thinking that I am a cold human being 😛 seriously
How do I deal with sadness... Cutting
(I'm kidding!)
How do Virgos deal with sadness?
Music....
:: Cue Sheryl Crow ::
I've been long, a long way from here
Put on a poncho, played for mosquitos,
And drank til I was thirsty again
We went searching through thrift store jungles
Found Geronimo's rifle, Marilyn's shampoo
And Benny Goodman's corset and penWell, o.k. I made this up
I promised you I'd never give upIf it makes you happy
It can't be that bad
If it makes you happy
Then why the hell are you so sad
+1 Amazing song by her!
I laugh hahahahaha
Posted by VirgoHero
How do I deal with sadness... Cutting(I'm kidding!)
That is quite funny. In a twisted way, did I mention funny? LOL I need my head examined.
Music is my saving grace when I hit the blues too...
Since we're on the topic, here's another one of Sheryl Crow's that has stuck with me through the years
— Did you know when you go it's the perfect ending,
to the bad day I'd gotten used to spending.
When you go, all I know is you're my favorite mistake
You're my favorite mistake. —
Posted by virgoking
I laugh hahahahaha
Ya pretty much. I'm the guy who you'll see laughing at a funeral because I remembered something funny about the person who passed.
Posted by VirgoHero
How do I deal with sadness... Cutting(I'm kidding!)
That is quite funny. In a twisted way, did I mention funny? LOL I need my head examined.
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Heh I'm starting to understand why Dy says the Bullette's get our humor lol.
Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales
yeah...if it makes you guys feel a bit better, I know a Capricorn with moon in pisces
believe me ... he cried at many occasions talking to me. Girls tell about him he has no feelings. I just can't believe what they are talking about, even on the phone after talking to me for 3 hours straight, He cried! Sometimes I just don't know what to do or what to say because I feel things intensely as a scorpio, but with him... I start thinking that I am a cold human being 😛 seriously
Hi fumi 🙂
Posted by virgoking
I laugh hahahahahaYa pretty much. I'm the guy who you'll see laughing at a funeral because I remembered something funny about the person who passed.
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Another one? PHEW, that's a relief. And you don't even wanna know what I said at my Grans funeral.
I can handle theoretical just fine. Being talked down too I am not so keen on. 🙂
@VirgoHero - cutting HAHAHA! Funny but that leaves scars.
When I feel sad, I go out, take a long walk or drive somewhere. If it's too cold, watch a comedy movie, and drink a little rum.
Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
dude the key is about putting things into perspective, as long as youre not dying or going through a similar situation you are ok, always. Just dont take for granted all what you have. The world/universe is always moving/changing, so keep moving along with it. Theres always new things coming, always.
Really like these thoughts...hang in there Mattofla
How do Virgos deal with sadness?
Music....
:: Cue Sheryl Crow ::
I've been long, a long way from here
Put on a poncho, played for mosquitos,
And drank til I was thirsty again
We went searching through thrift store jungles
Found Geronimo's rifle, Marilyn's shampoo
And Benny Goodman's corset and penWell, o.k. I made this up
I promised you I'd never give upIf it makes you happy
It can't be that bad
If it makes you happy
Then why the hell are you so sad
Sheryl Crow is a good listen.. I like her music 🙂
Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
dude the key is about putting things into perspective, as long as youre not dying or going through a similar situation you are ok, always. Just dont take for granted all what you have. The world/universe is always moving/changing, so keep moving along with it. Theres always new things coming, always.Really like these thoughts...hang in there Mattofla
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Oh, I'm fine. I was just wondering how everyone else felt.
Posted by virgoking
I laugh hahahahahaYa pretty much. I'm the guy who you'll see laughing at a funeral because I remembered something funny about the person who passed.
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✨ Hi VirgoHero 😄 ✨
I put myself into awkward situations when smiling at some very sad moment. My mind draws caricatures by a moment I experienced with that person. I once got into trouble for that matter. The person upright asked me what's so funny...? ha hahaaaa
I'm no Virgo but am eternal sandbox friend with most I know.
MOTTA -- I would think that a Virgo man would prefer hiding in some dark cave during sadness. The ones I know do not wish human interaction during this period as they do not wish to hurt anyone else for what they are going through. Foot in mouth syndrome. 😉
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I'll be honest, this has been a horrible past few weeks for me. I have been thinking alot lately, so I thought I'd see how everyone else deals with this one bitch of an emotion. I may post what I do later. 😛 (it sounded too stupid when I was typing this)