plz help me

Can anybody tell about 18 september virgo man..... he has a lot of ego and its been 1.5 years we are married but we don't have any contact I'm.so depressed..... 😢 plz help me out ...

I'm.an aqua lady .... it hadn't took long tym to be in a relaionship as he said himeslf dat he is intrusted and in love with me so we got married soon... I thought its my gud luck to.have a v loving and caring man like him... we were happy for about 2-3 months only after dat he started to criticize about everything within.me and woteva I do he wasn't happy . In the beginning of our contact we had talked nd discussed about our wishes as.mine were to continue my job after marriage but he wasn't agreed and he said ok after marriage we will discuss nd will think about dat... I thot he will surely be agree as per his words but within 2-3 months he was changed ....my job issue was one of all...he thought I'm.kinda house girl nd wud be like a house wife nd he will make me agree after marriage but he wos failed...though I'm.not doing job write now becoz I'm.having my.baby doll to take care but still he don't like my any action my any word my.any thought imean I'm so tense why its like dat... one thing more he is kinda mum's son..... he follow his mother wotevr she say to him. She is also the reason for our distances she always tried to make his mind against me and as he believes his mother more then.me so he never trusted me. Right now we r not living together its been a year and he don't even.ask about his baby I'm so depressed... no contact no nothing 😢

Its kinda arrange and love marriage too.... in the. Beginning of our contact I wasn't much intrusted as I came to know he's bit kinda narrow minded, agressive, over critical and some times diplomatic too. Thats y I refused at first..... but we got married becoz he took me in his confidence dat he's gonna fix fairly all the problems if any comes to our way and he shown me the green garden of love ...... my admiration, his loving txts nd calls made me a bit to think seriously about him. I thot I have found d man I wos looking for, but soon after marriage I saw a big change always critisiz always fight about petty things..... his over observing nature was like killing me ....he is so demanding. He never xpresed his feeling of love to me he nevr let me know wot z he upto he aleays wanting to keep privacy about his own stuff ......nevr shared anuthing....actually d one reason i told u ,wos his mother .. she was saying him not to be so closed to me ....wanted to keep me in limits .....it wos totally depressing...dats y I had 2 misscarriages , now I'm happy for my little girl but things r going in too bad way... whenevr I txt him or call him he nevr reply instead wheneva he willingly call once a month or in two he make lame xcusez dat he is busy in office work or so he nevr ask about his kid I use to send him.baby pics nd videos he nevr even coment about dat..... I don't know wot to do.

@ virgoyum
He is in third decan his ruling planet is venus I think ....u said dat he is lack of ego — Undrstanding emotions—

No way...he is full of ego dats y he is doing this to me.

He nevr tried to undrstand my emotions . I love him so much I don't wanna live without him. Wheneva I told him des emotions he nevr believed me. U know he nevr say me dat he loves me or not. I'm confused in dat too..... when eva I made him realised dat he's doing dis to me its not gud change ur nature a bit ...he always cut my cntact nd kept quiet for long. Nd I always hv started cntct
He nevr say sorry for anything. Plz tell me if I shud leave cntacting him — Shud I ignore him like he ignore me— I just want him to come back to me nd make him realiz dat he did a lot wrong to me he made me hurt nd weep many times ...nd I want to live happily with him. I want him to feel my love for him. In tension I can't give my baby a good tym 😢
Plz tell me wot shud I do.

Sorry to tell you this but you married the wrong man and you need to get out now. None of what you said is a loving marriage you married a narcissist who is a control freak. He wants you to be his perfect image in his head and you won't bend which I commend you for to remain your own woman. He doesn't want you working because he wants you to depend on him he is insecure and so wrapped up in control. He has no regard for your feelings and letting you raise a baby on your own. He showed you exactly who he really is after fake charming you. Those are all the signs of a narasaacist. Don't stay with him any longer send him your divorce papers and be with a man that loves and respect you. This is a lesson to take your time and not rushing in marriage so men are good at tricking women into thinking they are Mr. Perfect when they have ill intentions. On top of that he is a mama boys and from the sounds of it his mom doesn't like she's in a relationship and wants to control her son. It seems that it can go two ways with a Virgo either they like controlling relationships or they want to be controlled by their partner. Take this as a lesson stop wasting time with this guy get out before you waste many years on this guy.

You should bombard him with texts and phone calls, whining and crying.

virgo men love that. It will make him love you.


Whatever you do, make sure you do NOT think in terms of your best interest, make sure you do NOT be independent and gain some emotional control, make sure you do NOT grow some integrity to make your own decisions.


Because Virgo's hate that, they hate women who are strong and mature.


So what you do is ..... whimper, and cry insufferably while clinging onto him with your insecurities. He will come running to you if you believe your whole life worth is contingent upon his approval.

Some people actually read between the lines better than some..Others are by experience, some try keep it light and straight forward.. I wish OP the best. You can only take so much advice, now you got to change..