he feels on n off, and we are running out of time

Let.it.go. You don't need to interpret his actions when he's already told you it's over and he's leaving the country.
You are becoming borderline desperate and no one finds that attractive. Find peace in knowing everything that's meant to be will be. You don't have to drive yourself insane with this overanalysis.

He knows m in love with him, so he keeps flirting then moving back. I have never in my life begged anyone , but he has broken my pride , all cos he knows m in love. He just tried me and now m hurting every single day. My whole family is telling me to move on. But its so hard. Especially when he comes n gives me hope.

You're needy as fuck !!!!!!!

The reason why this guy is backing away from you is because you're so clingy and needy ... that you're smothering the holy fuck out him.

You need to put yourself on check.

You appear to have no mind of your own ..... you're completely dependent upon him to approve of you, and validate you.

That's so fucking ugly to other people .... it's possible that no man will ever want you in this current state.

Because nobody likes a doormat.

Again, do yourself a favor and put yourself on check.

P-Angel , sumhow ur harsh words arent making me cry out of hurt but I know you saying it in my best interest. I wasnt like this but he has turned me into this. Whenever I show confidence, he beats me worse and calls me proud n hurts me more. Its like both ways he wants to see me off balance.

How do I bloody better myself now? 😢 I want to be confident but dont want to lose being gentle

I read at net that Virgo guys like women Who want to IMPROVE and bend their choices to match theirs. I wasnt like this but to be on the same page n show him i care as he said you dont, I changed many things in me. Now its all against me. Help!!!! 😢

Bloody how how how 😭

Posted by Pixiecircle
I read at net that Virgo guys like women Who want to IMPROVE and bend their choices to match theirs. I wasnt like this but to be on the same page n show him i care as he said you dont, I changed many things in me. Now its all against me. Help!!!! 😢

Everything I said went right over your head ... everything everyone in dxp has said to you, has gone right over your head.

You have no idea what people are saying to you. This is evident by you continuing to repeat yourself, in conveying to us that you are waiting for him to decide whether you're worth anything, and asking us for help on how to make him realize that you have worth.

which means .... you're probably so dense that this your lot in life. the light in your life will probably never go off for you, no matter what the situation, because your brain can't acknowledge beyond your little world.

It's not that you can't see the bigger picture ... it's that you don't even know a bigger picture exists.

btw ... I've been married to a Virgo for over 3 decades and my Virgo man has NEVER expected me to improve or bend to his choices. In fact, Virgo is quite the opposite ... they are followers due to being service oriented. A Virgo will support your decisions, not try to make them for you.

You're just so far out there ... that I know you can't get that.

I havent cried infront of him or texted him crying thing since days now. But in my room, am breaking!!!! I have imoortant exams due in a week or two and m unable to study! He just said I m leaving in few weeks and back on my crying bed again! I AM HATING MYSELF! just few days ago he was he one dying for me now m dying here and he wants to leave!