Spontaneous or Think about it before?

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AVG
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Are you more spontaneous or Think before you do? I try and be more spontaneous,but our minds work so much it's hard too not alright have things preplaned in our heads...like say for instance,if I'm walking down the sidewalk with my wife and see someone selling flowers, I already know that I'm gonna buy the flowers two miles away,before we even get near the guy...but I'll walk past the guy then go back like I wasn't gone get them,just too make it look spontaneous ...was that a good example? But I still think I'm like 60/40 think about it too spontaneous ratio...I'm getting better with age tho,I use too be worst then that..😉
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gemini64
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with plans, usually think about it first. with communication, especially matters of the heart, mostly spontaneous. which often gets me into trouble because i'm a passionate and often intense individual at times. people often take that aspect of me as being defensive or overly aggressive.

when i'm in a more care free mood, then spontaneity comes more natural. but i don't feel that way as often as I used to. life for me and my family has taken on a more serious turn.