Five Weird Facts About Virgo In Bed

A Keen Focus on Technique

There are horoscope signs that look at sex as more of an event. When you are on event, you don't really care whether the musician is playing all the notes right, as long as you're there, you're sharing the energy and you're listening to the good music, you're good to go.

Virgo in bed, however, is the type that would fixate on technique. Everything has to be perfect. Everything has to be lined up. Everything has to be in the right sequence. If not, he or she will be disappointed.

When Virgo is disappointed, it can manifest into a decline in libido, particularly amongst Virgo men. Also you can notice sometimes in their eyes that they're just not in it. You know you were locked in passion and embrace, you're doing it, but there's something about that person's eyes that is absent, as if she's looking at you across the room making love to her body, that's how remote Virgo can be.

Virgo in bed can be quite emotionally remote while being physically hot. This is one of the paradoxes that people engaged in a relationship with Virgo??s need to keep in mind.

You have to focus on technique because this is all part of their propensity to look at the world in terms of perfect states. Everything has to be just right, otherwise, they??ll be disappointed.

A Keen Focus on Technique

There are horoscope signs that look at sex as more of an event. When you are on event, you don't really care whether the musician is playing all the notes right, as long as you're there, you're sharing the energy and you're listening to the good music, you're good to go.

Virgo in bed, however, is the type that would fixate on technique. Everything has to be perfect. Everything has to be lined up. Everything has to be in the right sequence. If not, he or she will be disappointed.

When Virgo is disappointed, it can manifest into a decline in libido, particularly amongst Virgo men. Also you can notice sometimes in their eyes that they're just not in it. You know you were locked in passion and embrace, you're doing it, but there's something about that person's eyes that is absent, as if she's looking at you across the room making love to her body, that's how remote Virgo can be.

Virgo in bed can be quite emotionally remote while being physically hot. This is one of the paradoxes that people engaged in a relationship with Virgo??s need to keep in mind.

You have to focus on technique because this is all part of their propensity to look at the world in terms of perfect states. Everything has to be just right, otherwise, they??ll be disappointed.
Foreplay Is Crucial

Since Virgo in bed is all about procedure and all about perfection, then all elements of love making must be in play. If you're going to judge the Virgo in bed, you have to realize that they look at it as some sort of elaborate play.

A typical play has at least three acts. So you have to go to the sequences properly, otherwise, they will feel disappointed. Once Virgo feels disappointed, Virgo is emotionally detached. If you keep this up for a long time, Virgo then becomes physically detached.

Foreplay is essential for understanding Virgo in bed. Regardless of whether you're a male or female, regardless of the particular circumstances or how much of a hurry you're in, you have to pay the right amount of attention to foreplay or it's not gonna work out.

Sex is 50% Mental

Virgos may not realize it, but they are definitely acting like it, that sex is at least 50% mental. In other words, it's not just a physical act. There are emotional components and if you are truly deep person, spiritual components. A truly balanced and mature person knows this.

Unfortunately, for the Virgo, it has to have the exact proportion. So, you have to deal with Virgo in bed in such a way that you hit the mental and emotional components or else he or she will be disappointed. It is like walking on egg shells. While in the early stages of your relationship, pure sexual spontaneity and energy can carry you through the night, once your relationship matures, that's when the trials begin. That's when the percentages come into play.

That's when the sequences are reviewed and critiqued. It can all be a bit too much. This is why people who are looking to honestly assess and deal with Virgo in bed need to realize that sex is 50% mental. You have to give it the proper focus or else it may be deemed by your Virgo partner as purely physical and as a result, shallow.

In many cases, Virgos love using shallow or plastic or unrealistic or fake. It's their way of, once again, getting in touch of that ideal world that they are slaves of.

Confusing Sexual Attention with Emotional Intimacy

As purists as the Virgo in bed may be, they often fall into the trap of confusing sexual attention with emotional intimacy. This is of course a serious problem. Any mature and develop person knows that the difference between sexual attention and emotional intimacy is like the difference between night and day.

Unfortunately, many Virgos like to roll out this mental pie chart of different aspects of intimacy and many times due to wishful thinking or just past disappointments; they tend to confuse sexual attention with emotional intimacy.

This can lead to serious issues down the road, especially if you're not really that serious with that Virgo partner. If you are looking for a light or shallow relationship, introducing sex into the relationship might be like pouring gasoline into live coals, not a good idea.

Keep the five weird facts about Virgo in bed firmly in mind before you get into a physical relationship with Virgo. It can save you a lot of time and it can save you a lot of drama.

basically be really good in bed.

Posted by bloodflood
basically be really good in bed.

Damn. That is accurate.

I would say mental stimulation is probably closer to 80-90% of it for me though. If the brain isn't turned on neither is anything else.

So virgos are emotional when it comes to sex!?

Ohh my! So just imagine u being a Virgo and your partner being a virgo!

Let me get this straight ...... the Virgo will be routine, perfecting the same old, same old and the partner better be really good in bed (to mean spontaneous), or the Virgo will be disappointed.

And the part of that that causes the Virgo to not get laid very often .... it makes you a lousy lover, Virgo.

A good lover is never routine ...

Posted by virgoking
Virgo in bed can be quite emotionally remote while being physically hot. This is one of the paradoxes that people engaged in a relationship with Virgo??s need to keep in mind.

Posted by virgoking
Virgos may not realize it, but they are definitely acting like it, that sex is at least 50% mental. In other words, it's not just a physical act. There are emotional components and if you are truly deep person, spiritual components. A truly balanced and mature person knows this... Unfortunately, for the Virgo, it has to have the exact proportion. So, you have to deal with Virgo in bed in such a way that you hit the mental and emotional components or else he or she will be disappointed.

Posted by virgoking
As purists as the Virgo in bed may be, they often fall into the trap of confusing sexual attention with emotional intimacy. This is of course a serious problem. Any mature and develop person knows that the difference between sexual attention and emotional intimacy is like the difference between night and day.

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These three statements completely contradict each other, IMO.

So, we confuse sex with emotional intimacy, yet are emotionally remote ourselves during the act of sex?

So, we're allowed to be emotionally remote during the act, yet we expect our partner to hit the mental and emotional components or else we view them as "fake"?

Double standards much?

Jesus. No wonder people get so frustrated with us. I sincerely hope an actual Virgo didn't write this..

Also, I only counted 3 (possibly 4) facts; not 5.

Thank g*d for our rising and moon signs. Oh and our mars and venus as well.

If we were only virgo sun it would so much like the above.

Posted by virgoking

A typical play has at least three acts. So you have to go to the sequences properly, otherwise, they will feel disappointed. Once Virgo feels disappointed, Virgo is emotionally detached. If you keep this up for a long time, Virgo then becomes physically detached.

Is it just me, or do other people see this thread as self serving to the Virgo?

If the partner doesn't do it according to a set pattern and rules established by the Virgo - then the Virgo will become disappointed, and justify themselves in emotionally detaching from the partner.

And it's not that it's been said ... it's that there are Virgos who relate to it.

As in ... you're kidding, right?

Do you people (some) even realize that another person is trying to live their life with you?

This might be some people from every sign!! I think every sign has it's Hot Lovers" that's the people who are hot no matter who their with!!! Then there is the Good Lovers" these are the people that are good with certain people but not others!! And then the robot that this thread is talking about,those are the mediocre types of the sign!! They just suck..and if you stick with astrology you'll find out that there duds in every sign.... I'm so glad I started out as a wild child..😉

Posted by TMV
Damn. That is accurate.

I would say mental stimulation is probably closer to 80-90% of it for me though. If the brain isn't turned on neither is anything else.