In your opinion?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by VirgoCupcake on Friday, July 25, 2014 and has 11 replies.

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@VirgoCupcake
12 YearsVirgo

When it comes to dating do you think it's childish to unfriend someone on Facebook?

Or to unfollow on Twitter or IG?

When you're done with them....

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@TMV
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Not at all. If you're done, you're done.

On the positive side of things, think of it as saving that other person the agony of thinking or hoping that you might get back together some day. It's never nice to lead a person on, even in the name of being nice.

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@Blackvirgo
12 Years

It's not childish to unfriend them on Facebook . I mean who wants notification that such and such liked your post.

It's only childish if you didn't unfriend them on that other Facebook or Twitter account that we all have just In case our ex's unfriend our main profile first .. 🙂

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@Andalusia
12 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by VirgoCupcake
When it comes to dating do you think it's childish to unfriend someone on Facebook?

Or to unfollow on Twitter or IG?

Strictly speaking; no. It isn't.

Unless... this:

Posted by VirgoCupcake
When you're done with them....

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Is the mindset or motivation behind it. "Done with them".. As if they were a toy or an object you've grown tired of instead of a human being you shared a intimate connection with.

And even in that case, I'm not sure it's "childish". Children are usually more compassionate than that. And their cruelty is usually more the result of youthful self-ignorance than it is intentional calculation.

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@VirgoCupcake
12 YearsVirgo

Posted by TMV
Not at all. If you're done, you're done.

On the positive side of things, think of it as saving that other person the agony of thinking or hoping that you might get back together some day. It's never nice to lead a person on, even in the name of being nice.

Yuuuuuuup!!!!!

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@VirgoCupcake
12 YearsVirgo

Posted by Andalusia

Posted by VirgoCupcake
When it comes to dating do you think it's childish to unfriend someone on Facebook?

Or to unfollow on Twitter or IG?

Strictly speaking; no. It isn't.

Unless... this:

Posted by VirgoCupcake
When you're done with them....

Is the mindset or motivation behind it. "Done with them".. As if they were a toy or an object you've grown tired of instead of a human being you shared a intimate connection with.

And even in that case, I'm not sure it's "childish". Children are usually more compassionate than that. And their cruelty is usually more the result of youthful self-ignorance than it is intentional calculation.

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Well with done I mean as you're done with the sitution. Me personally I feel a certain way about someone I have had an intimate connection with. However, if you dont want to see them on your dailt tl then I dont see what the issue is. Doesnt mean that they can't call or text or whatever that case may be. No to break off all connection but I dont want to see them everyday on my timeline, If I am not interested anymore. Just like how someone may choose when they're done with me to do the same if they please.

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@TaurusBull1977
17 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by VirgoCupcake

Doesnt mean that they can't call or text or whatever that case may be. No to break off all connection but I dont want to see them everyday on my timeline, If I am not interested anymore. Just like how someone may choose when they're done with me to do the same if they please.

I don't get it.

Fakebook isn't real life.

And neither are Fakebook friends.

To 'unfake' someone on Twitter, FB or any other social media is quite comical considering how impersonal these sites really are.

VirgoCupcake-
If you want to be rid of someone, you may want to do the opposite.
KEEP them as Twitter or FB friends.
Just block them from calling you or texting you. Only 'real' friends and family members have that membership.