The virgo come back

It's like a three month cycle..
it's been going on for a year.

Together three months. Break up. It's all over.
I start moving on three months later, the phone calls begin, the catching up begins, the getting touchy with me begins.

Try again, make it to another three months, things don't go so good, both get cold feet. Go separate ways

Three months pass, he's back. Wants to help me, wants to see my work that I've been doing (I'm a filmmaker).

Wants me to come over and drink cognac from the 'good glasses'.

Is this a I could never make up my mind about our relationship, can we have sex?
An attempt at friendship?
I know your leaving the state for good in a month, I need to make sure I'm not going to miss you?
why do Virgo men come back?

@25th Decan....

If your profile is correct and accurate, and that is you -- 29 yrs.
You are a pretty smart cookie for someone that age.

I think you hit the nail on the head with this one. And gave all of us 'girls'
something to think about.

The biggest question is sometimes, Why do I keep falling all over again, why do I keep accepting him back.
We Women have been brainwashed into thinking this is all we deserve, or whatever.

Yes to all of it. And must wrap the mind around not accepting crumbs when there is a banquet on the horizon. Whether that's physical, emotional, or a combination of the two. You're better than that, deserve so much more. If it hurts all the time, it's not right.

Posted by venusianbull
If it hurts all the time, it's not right.

This is so true. And if it doesn't hurt all of the time... for some reason we can only remember the good things. But the good times should always heavily outweigh the hurt.

@25thDecan

Ahh your my favourite advice giver, can't believe I didn't come back and check this!

Well I took your advice before you gave it. I didn't explain the situation very well, I've always done the breaking up. So I wouldn't say I'm the convenient come back. I just completely lost my way with this guy though, honestly, guy made me not know how to act, right up until the last time we saw each other.

I look back at the whole thing and think gee what a disaster.

Truth was I'd been getting to know someone else anyway, I'm keeping it light just as you say.
I never disclosed that to him, but him coming back into my life for that was a way to close his chapter, we kinda had a run in when I said no more 'catching up'.

All is said 🙂

An.. I'm not much of caretaker. But your right about being proactive.

That is great advice 25th Decan! This info will helP with the Virgo that I know. The Gem-in-I will not allow such behavior though. I always stay polite but I deserve to know where I stand after a year of friendship.