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Understanding virgo
Understanding Virgo Traits in Relationships
Virgos are often practical and cautious in relationships, valuing honesty and communication. They may take time to open up and prefer to act thoughtfully rather than impulsively. Their analytical nature can make them seem reserved, but they care deeply once committed. Understanding these traits helps in building trust and connection with Virgo individuals.
Posted by gemtaur
What makes you think that if he cheated on his gf that he won't do it to you? Maybe he's thinking the same thing about you? Hhhmmm.This is why Aries should keep it in her pants. You only want him because you can't have him. Grow up.
kapowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww thats some real wit from a gemini lmfao.
Posted by gemtaur
What makes you think that if he cheated on his gf that he won't do it to you? Maybe he's thinking the same thing about you? Hhhmmm.This is why Aries should keep it in her pants. You only want him because you can't have him. Grow up.
kapowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww thats some real wit from a gemini lmfao.
There you are!!!!!!!!!!!!! I missed you! *kisses*
She's giving my Aries moon a bad name. I had to represent! 😛
All Aries have to keep a sign on their mirror to be read each morning: KEEP IT IN YOUR PANTS.
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awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww i miss u 2 i been here and there if u was around u woulda heard i took a exam last sat to work in a court house lol.
so now im trying to get my scores lmao.
It sounds like you gave him reason to doubt you, so he's holding you at arm's length. Honestly, it doesn't sound like you're sure or ready about this, and I can't blame him for signing off on this one...you're either in or you're out. Virgos do not do "in between".
Virgos do not do "in between".
Since when?
Virgos do not do "in between".
Since when?
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You're either with us, or not. If you say we're dating, there's no "maybe" about it--it's either yes or no. At least for me, and the Virgos I know...
Or maybe it's just us females? lol!
Virgos do not do "in between".
Since when?
You're either with us, or not. If you say we're dating, there's no "maybe" about it--it's either yes or no. At least for me, and the Virgos I know...
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My bust. When you mentioned 'in between', I thought you were referring to Virgos not cheating. Oh, I feel you on the fidelity thing. That's usually where our "do as I say, not as I do" attitude comes in. LOL!
Posted by 25thDecan
No, babe. I'm the same way. I SEE the gray area. I understand it. I am aware of its elasticities and nuances and how it changes with the winds of the market. Only....it's in my BEWLSHEET basket. The one in the corner I empty everyday. Out with it and upfront with it. The rest is a WASTE OF TIME and an invitation for a reality tv show never to air and bring me good money. Yay or nay with me, fuck that yayanaya! Lol
Good to know.
Like, I don't mind if I'm single and he's single and we're just kinda seeing where things go...
But to talk of being TOGETHER together? Especially if there's other people involved? Yeah, you're either in (and we can make it happen) or you're out (and don't fek up my life with all these question marks over your head). Black, white. Same as you, I SEE the gray, I acknowledge its prescence, but I see it sitting next to the "no" area and not the "yes".
Posted by 25thDecan
Now I DO enjoy the real in between.....you know...ALL UP AND IN BETWIXT the fingers n toes...just oozing like excrement through those CREVASSES! ARGH!GIGGITY!
I'm confused! That's what I initially thought you guys were referring to. You know, "the all in-between." Oh well, may have to go back and re-read. Excuse this Virgo if my typing as well as my mind seems 'off' today. I took a long trip out to Jersey and I'm beat.
Posted by 25thDecan
Now I DO enjoy the real in between.....you know...ALL UP AND IN BETWIXT the fingers n toes...just oozing like excrement through those CREVASSES! ARGH!GIGGITY!
Freakadeakfreakdeakfreak.
Virgos do not do "in between".
Since when?
You're either with us, or not. If you say we're dating, there's no "maybe" about it--it's either yes or no. At least for me, and the Virgos I know...
My bust. When you mentioned 'in between', I thought you were referring to Virgos not cheating. Oh, I feel you on the fidelity thing. That's usually where our "do as I say, not as I do" attitude comes in. LOL!
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If we're cheating, we're pretty much done. That's not something we take lightly, and it pretty much is the point of no return. Even couples therapy won't help if we're at that point where other people are an option. I feel that about all Earth signs.
^Seriously C? Come on, you see how many chicks come on here talking about their cheating ass Virgo MEN (lol). Virgo MEN that they've been in committed relationships with for substantial amounts of time. Virgo MEN who they have children and homes with. Virgo MEN who are not even thinking about leaving these women but still have a 'piece' on the side. Come on, C. You and I both know how these Virgo MEN do. LOL!!!!!!!
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
^Seriously C? Come on, you see how many chicks come on here talking about their cheating ass Virgo MEN (lol). Virgo MEN that they've been in committed relationships with for substantial amounts of time. Virgo MEN who they have children and homes with. Virgo MEN who are not even thinking about leaving these women but still have a 'piece' on the side. Come on, C. You and I both know how these Virgo MEN do. LOL!!!!!!!
Dead ass truth? I have never dated a Virgo man. How they do must be an entirely diff. script from how WE do, because Virgo females I know do NOT cheat unless we're jumping ship any f'n way.
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
^Seriously C? Come on, you see how many chicks come on here talking about their cheating ass Virgo MEN (lol). Virgo MEN that they've been in committed relationships with for substantial amounts of time. Virgo MEN who they have children and homes with. Virgo MEN who are not even thinking about leaving these women but still have a 'piece' on the side. Come on, C. You and I both know how these Virgo MEN do. LOL!!!!!!!Dead ass truth? I have never dated a Virgo man. How they do must be an entirely diff. script from how WE do, because Virgo females I know do NOT cheat unless we're jumping ship any f'n way.
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Hahaha. Those dudes are seriously a trip. I feel so bad for some of these girls coming on here crying every other day about 'cheating ass Virgo man'.
Virgo women...now, we're some of the most loyal.
Posted by 25thDecan
Freakadeak? Lmao! Bustin Loose! Payow!
Yes, accept it. You seem like a decent freak though so, you're good with me.
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
^Seriously C? Come on, you see how many chicks come on here talking about their cheating ass Virgo MEN (lol). Virgo MEN that they've been in committed relationships with for substantial amounts of time. Virgo MEN who they have children and homes with. Virgo MEN who are not even thinking about leaving these women but still have a 'piece' on the side. Come on, C. You and I both know how these Virgo MEN do. LOL!!!!!!!Dead ass truth? I have never dated a Virgo man. How they do must be an entirely diff. script from how WE do, because Virgo females I know do NOT cheat unless we're jumping ship any f'n way.
Hahaha. Those dudes are seriously a trip. I feel so bad for some of these girls coming on here crying every other day about 'cheating ass Virgo man'.
Virgo women...now, we're some of the most loyal.
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I think it's males vs. females in general, not really a male (sign) vs. female (of the same sign)
Not to say women can't be nasty nasty cheating who-ares, lol, but...
Hi aries4u,
You should fix the screen name? I think you meant to put the 'r' before the 'i'? If it's intentional, my apologies.
lockquote>Posted by CLCNY30
Will you two just get a room already...geez. (Isn't this what you'd expect to hear from an aries gal? lol)
Damn.
I think that is an excellent idea virg, you pour, I'll go get the strawberries.
Thank you gem. Dry, just the way I like it. Sl??inte.
Heheheheeeee. As you well know, it takes little to ignite the Moon and have it blaze. 😉
Prudish image 25th? But how will we know it's you?
Does he need broken gem? I rather like his spunk. 😉
Mmmmm, I do so enjoy it when Virgo drops its mask of civility and the beast comes out to play.
I want to thank everyone for their advice yes everyone sees things differently so sometimes we will agree and sometimes we won't. As for the situation i will cut virgo out of my life even if he tries to come back in and act like nothing happened which he does alot. It won't be easy because i foolishly let my feelings get the best of me. What happened between us i can't change but i did learn from it, now its time to move on.
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I would back down if I thought I might be "ruining" your relationship. You should end it on your own terms, never for someone else.
This is probably why he avoided.
Whether or not, it is for sex alone. I honestly can't answer that. Only he can.
Yes, a relationship can develop you just need to both be mature and communicate your desires to each other.
As for his ex, he is a man and as a Virgo with Leo Venus, I like to feel out my options.