This shit needs to end

Just came here to express my absolute horror at the number of people calling virgos "emotionally cold". I am a virgo, happen to know many and none of us have heard this before. "Reserved" and "low key" maybe but never cold. In fact the complaint I've heard from boyfriends and husbands of virgo women is that they're too emotional and even possessive once attached. Personally, I was always the "emotional" one while signs I've dated (all fire signs) have been the more "grounded" ones. So enough with virgo stereotypes already, its such an eyesore. Forget astrology, anyone who avoids a human being labeling them "cold" without making an effort to get to know them is just an immature headcase. There are cold people in every sign, just like there are nice ones. Yall just need to make better friends and stop whining about virgos.

We are fallible and fucking happy. We're guarded but definitely know to love, and love deeply like any human being, whether we dance in dizzy circles around you or not. Take it or walk.

End of story.

Of course I agree with you star lover, it definitely depends on the person. But as people in general, we strive to do whatever makes us happy. And I don't understand why virgos should act cold or mean towards people as principle. These stereotypes paint us so badly and while every sign does have negative stereotypes pinned to them, their bolder more vivacious traits sort of circumvents the general hate that we get just for being a little quieter. We just get "cold". That's it. Maybe OCD if we stretch it. As someone who relates to none of that, it angers me how myopic people can get.

Wow! I've never met a Virgo that is "happy" with themselves. Nice to meet you!

Posted by scorchedearth
i am someone who has dated mostly virgo rising. almost everyone i've been in a relationship with. and they are *all* more cold and detached than the average sun sign virgo. hell a bunch of them even have aqua moons. which makes them even *more* cold and detached.

and you know why?

because cold is not a bad thing to some people. i prefer it. i find a woman with extreme control over her emotions very sexy. just someone who is icy and cold and just not someone who blabs all about her feelings all day long.

one of my FAVORITE things about virgo energy is that coldness.

god damn it if i don't love an ice queen. i find that so much more attractive.

but my mom is a virgo moon so that kind of coldness is how i accept love. to me it's a really big part of being able to settle down with someone. to accept that they care. there's a line though. eventually i want a bit more than "i show with my actions." but the first 6 months to a year i prefer someone who is icy to the core.

i used to tell the venus in leo virgo all the time that she was an ice queen and it was like she had her heart in an ice citadel. which i'm sure you'll find insulting. but it was just so... hot. lol.

like perfect example of a woman i think is ridiculously hot is lilith from the show "frasier." though i avoid mentioning her to the virgos for obvious reasons.

We have so much in common. 🙂

@CluelessCancer cool 😛

@scorchedearth
Cold is okay if its the kind of cold you're talking about. the kind that is unreadable and maybe even intimidating, but opens up in time. You make it sound so hot 😄
There is another dominant dimension to cold though, the cruelly uncaring, plain rude and detached cold. That's not nice and that shouldn't be attributed to us.


@VirgoDragirl

hahaha..nice to meet you too! I don't see why we should wallow in a feeling of unhappiness with ourselves. Perfection is a bore.

@busyeyes88

lol its food! its a stereotype I would trade for 😄

and the caps I know are reserved but almost scarily clingy and jealous when dating. one I know even changed the numbers of some of the girls on her boyfriend's contact list, so he doesn't talk to them. that's some scary stuff..lol =D

@magama

ahhhh, maybe my virgo eye did only notice the hell fire on here. I just found this a little too cruel since we're so easily put down for our flaws, without ever a case by case consideration.

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by VirgoDragirl
Wow! I've never met a Virgo that is "happy" with themselves. Nice to meet you!

don't be too hard on yourself, you guys are great.

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thank you, CC! Love you Cancer people always put me back into the straight line.

I've had close friendships with several Virgos, both men and women. It was rare that any of them acted in a cold way, with one exception (see final paragraph).

Reserved at times, yes, but not once they really got to know someone. The reserve didn't come across as cold to me. It came across as being cautious in a reasonable way. I'm like that too at first with people so I understood. I have 5 planets in the 6th house.

They would act cold to people if they didn't respect them. It was rarely a misunderstanding - the person they were cold to was definitely not respecting them.

One of them, when she was a teenager and young adult, would sometimes shut down emotionally. That came across as cold to some people. There wasn't a cruel vibe to it, just blank. She worked on that fortunately and learned how to deal with conflicts within herself, and with others, without shutting down.

Posted by CluelessCancer
What a waste of five minutes. Jesus Fuking christ. Yes you do anything that MAKES you HAPPY, we know this ol SELFISH AZZ.

It took you 5 minutes to read that?




Anyway, on behalf of my Virgo Moon, and my Beloved who had a Virgo Sun, thank you @infiniteswirl.

...passes out kleenex to the supposed "innocents" who claim to be victim of Virgo...