this virgo guy!

Hi there! I met this virgo a year ago and we hit it off right away. We were pretty serious within a month and after which we were inseparable. I didn't realise how hectic his life style was until a few months in and then a lot of issues came up which i handled immaturely. I broke up with him to get some space away and some time to really see if i wanted to be in a relationship as there were alot of things going on with me. We didnt speak the entire 7 and a half months. On his birthday i wished him happy birthday and asked if he wanted to have a drink. So he said he had plans with his cousins and if i wanted to come along. So i went. he was attentive and it was like nothing had changed between us. there was that same energy and fluidity. he asked if i was going home with him and i said no, but that made me a little nervous bcuz after that i started wondering if that's why he wanted me there. the rest of the night he was being sweet and attentive and it was just comfortable being with him. we were talking the whole time at the party about everything and he was telling me all about what was going on in his life and while we were talking he kept kissing me on my mouth, and my cheeks. i also initiated a kiss just because it was what i wanted and it felt right somehow. when we were going home, we dropped his cousin home and he asked if i was going home and i said yes to my home and we kept talking about it until he said he just wanted to cuddle with me and fall asleep. so i went home with him, and while there we were cuddling and he was obviously aroused and i knew he wanted to make love, but i asked him outright why he would think it's cool to just jump back into bed together and i asked if that was why he brought me home and he said that's part of the reason. i said is it that u just want something casual now? he responded saying nothing about you is casual. i asked what that meant, he got upset and he took me home.

sorry for the long post, but i want to know if this is how virgo males show they are still interested, or is it that he just wanted a lay.

omg. way to give him a shitty birthday. he wanted to get back into a relationship with you because he obviously has serious feelings for you. "nothing about you is casual"... "on no level do i have casual feelings about you, just serious ones". holy fuck. i hope he has written you off. unless he spends his spare time jerking off while feeding puppies through a wood chipper, he deserves better than what you did. wow. you are so heartless and selfish.

wow


Cock teases get raped .. you were lucky this time.

I wasn't teasing him. I made it perfectly clear to him that all i wanted to do was cuddle and he agreed. This was our routine back when we were together, we'd go home together and cuddle and i'd wake him up for work. So i shouldn't read anything into his lovey dovey behavior except that he wanted to bed me?

ugh. 'obviously aroused' doesn't mean that he just wanted to bed you. If a man gets physically turned on, it isn't a demand for sex. He likes you, he hadn't seen you in a while, you were cuddling. If it had been me, I would wonder what was wrong if he hadn't gotten hard. He was relaxed and happy and into you and it happened. It's not premeditated.

but I think you should continue to believe he's a liar and stay away from him. He doesn't need your drama.

Let it go, sounds like he's not interested in being serious about you anymore for whatever reason. It seems as though he still likes you or is still attracted to you, but he won't put himself on the line for you once more.