Insight into Virgo Male's mind

Hi guys, I've posted twice on other boards on this site before but I can't remember my password so I've had to create a new name.

Anyway, I'm a Scorpio Sun/Moon/Venus that is interested in a VirgoSun/ScorpioMoon/LibraVenus guy that I have started speaking to very recently. I just got out of a horrible thing with a nasty Leo guy and I'm very cautious right now so I wondered if anyone could help me gain some insight into this hard-to-read Virgo man.

I have been seeing him around for the last month quite often but we never spoke and he never even looked at me. I was very attracted to him from the moment I saw him and two weeks ago I asked a mutual friend about him but got no info. Eventually I had to directly ask him a question and we hit it off straight away from there, we speak everytime we see each other and get along really well, I've gotten to know alot about him very quickly but I still feel like he's guarded in a way, he also told me that he had noticed me for a while and asked our mutual friend about me too but also got no info (the mutual friend is a Libra guy that's into me so it makes sense). Virgo asked me to come to a party this past friday and I did, it was a little weird and as always he seemed a little reserved with me so I asked him if I was making him uncomfortable and he said no.

A few days before the party he asked for my BBM pin so he could add me but I told him that I don't have that service which is true, he asked me again at the party because he thought I was lying so I gave him my number instead. He didn't call all weekend then when I saw him today he was a lot more comfortable and confident with me. He asked me again for my BBM pin and I told him I don't have that service and he was like "Ok, well I have your number anyway." and I asked if he would call and he said he hasn't got phone calling services (basically imitating what I was saying about BBM).

After this he was fine, but I worry that he takes offense to some things that I joke about him with. I tease him a little and I worry that he takes it more seriously then it is. I said to him today that he's hard to read and that I joke with him the way I do because his exterior can be like ice.

I know this may seems small but he's a total sweetheart and I don't want to get lost in translation or for him to read to much into what I'm saying, I'm just shy.

Also, I'm not sure how interested he is.

Please help!

Hello Lexi. Well, how old is he? His age would make a difference. But at this stage it he may just want to be friends with you. Virgo males do take their time, but they pretty much know right away if they only see you as a friend or a potential girlfriend. But just watch his actions and what he says; they are very direct with what they want and don't want.

Hi DreamyEyes, thanks for your response.
He's 20, so yeah pretty young.
He told me he's very upfront... but he hasn't said a word about anything. From things that he has said I don't believe that he sees me only as a friend but he isn't really saying much which I don't mind at all because believe me I'm not trying to rush into anything, I just find him confusing.

What is a BBM pin?

Virgo men are very cautious about who they let in .. and even more concerned when it comes to a potential partner. What you are seeing now is him watching/wieghing to see if you are indeed who/what as you present yourself to be.

Unfortunately, they go at a snails pace ... so, this could be dragging on for a while.

BBM is BlackBerry Messenger and the 'pin' is a unique code that each phone has and you need someone's pin so that you can add them to your BBM.

Thanks for the advice P-Angel, I guess I'm just going to have to be patient... something I'm not good at!

Scorpios are excellent at being patient ... you'll be fine.

Here's something to think about .. and I promise you, you can carry it to the bank about Virgo men ...

... when they are noisy, loud, chatty, the life of the party = not interested in you
... when they go quiet, seem to just be observing everything you do/say = they are so into you

60% of Virgos are afraid of the \"otherside\", so they take steps. 20% few just take the steps without thinking and later regret them...

Last, the 10% are the ones who have never been spoken on dxp...They are the ones who are constantly calling and texting to help their lovers and close-ones...

You decide which one he is, and you are set for whatever journey you may adventure.

Oh, Blackberry ... of course, thank you

Lol, P-Angel used the perfect word, "dragging". That's exactly what it will feel like. They can be so slow with you til' it looks as if they're not moving at all.

Posted by P-Angel

... when they are noisy, loud, chatty, the life of the party = not interested in you
... when they go quiet, seem to just be observing everything you do/say = they are so into you

Funny...

They are afraid of what they might venture. Many Virgos rather walk into the tunnel of unknown with a flashlight rather than a sword.

Meaning they don\'t want to ask somebody a serious question and get rejected, so they want to find hints and clues if the person is interested.

Yeah, it\'s the curiosity they have that puts them into this position.

Are you seeing a virgo by any chance, Catguy? 😉

Damnit, i swear, just take a fucking chance!!!!

I did, and i turned out fine...If more Virgos grew a pair then they wouldn\'t be afraid of rejection or crossing the limits and get shit started

Posted by P-Angel
Scorpios are excellent at being patient ... you'll be fine.

Here's something to think about .. and I promise you, you can carry it to the bank about Virgo men ...

... when they are noisy, loud, chatty, the life of the party = not interested in you
... when they go quiet, seem to just be observing everything you do/say = they are so into you

Kudos! Can't explain it any better than this!

Yeah...

lol

Relax. Let it flow...

He gets it, I'm sure. If not, then he will. Let him do it. Just wait for him, is all. Don't jump any guns, lol.

Thank you all for the replies and words of wisdom. Much appreciated :-)