over affectionate virgo?!

When I first met my Virguy he was nice to me but quite cold and blunt, I actually thought this was great as I can be quite similar. After it taking 5 dates to even get a kiss out of this guy I was assuming he was a typical Virgo, but after we had sex EVERYTHING has changed!

He has became all cuddly and effectionate and I'm really shocked by this behaviour especially from him! Before he wouldnt even sit close to me and know he is practically sat on me with his arm round me at all times. We both agreed that we didnt want anything serious and and far as I understand we both still feel the same way I just dont understand the suddon change.

At first I thought maybe it was all an act because he didnt want me to think he just wanted to have sex and roll over (which wouldnt actually bother me in the slightest) but if i ever shrug him off he's back a few mintutes later, even if i tell him im too hot to cuddle i wake up in the morning and somehow his arm has got back round me!

Now just to clarify im not some Ice queen lol i'm just not into all the effectionate mushy stuff especially when im only dating a guy! So what do you guys think of this behavior from a Virgo— is this normal, because all I ever seem to hear is women complaining about how unaffectionate they are.

There's probably a moon or venus in leo somewhere on his planetary placement. 😛

I have no complaints my Virgo loves to cuddle, not overly affectionate in public..but he makes sure he is either holding my hand or he has his hands somewhere on me. Now when we're alone he's my polar bear and cuddles away. Dam is it time to go home yet? I need some cuddles and it's only been an hour since I saw him.

Cuddling - GREAT. Hugging, kissing, etc. Super. Kudzu vine and can't breathe? Not so hot.

Well a head lock is fine, but the Dutch oven on its heels maaaaan, that can get BRUTAL. 😄

LOL I do like cuddles just never been keen on displays of affection especially public displays of affection! I was kind of enjoying the coldness in my own weird way but now I suddenly feel trapped and smothered. We are only dating so to me seems a bit much, but oh well maybe I just need to defrost a bit lol

An affectionate Virgo is NORMAL!!!!!!!! He still holds you in some
sort of respectable regard if he doesn't just hit it and quit it...
wham bam thank you mam' it... lol

He likes you enough that he makes sure you don't feel like some
two cent whore after the deed. Virgos are considerate.

I myself don't like cuddling much but I still cuddle for a bit
before I roll over to the other side of the bed.. just so he
doesn't think I don't want his affection. Because I like knowing
he cares... but that's just me..

A truly cold Virgo is a NASTY Virgo! Who wants that?

YEH! And any other form of gentle ownership and pride in your lady!

Posted by RainingPeanuts

An affectionate Virgo is NORMAL!!!!!!!! He still holds you in some
sort of respectable regard if he doesn't just hit it and quit it...
wham bam thank you mam' it... lol

He likes you enough that he makes sure you don't feel like some
two cent whore after the deed. Virgos are considerate.

I myself don't like cuddling much but I still cuddle for a bit
before I roll over to the other side of the bed.. just so he
doesn't think I don't want his affection. Because I like knowing
he cares... but that's just me..

A truly cold Virgo is a NASTY Virgo! Who wants that?

So this guy probably likes me then? And you Virgo's have the cheek to say Libras are hard to read and give mixed messages! 😛 haha

LoL yeah I think he likes you!

What the original poster wrote about, I think applies to me too.
So once I have let you past my barriers, my Venus in Leo shows up and it's affection-land.

Well you're just a big ol' bundle of Sunshine, aren't you 25th?

Posted by 25thDecan
So, you don't want his affection, libra? You're walking a very very thin line. When you rebuff this, because it seems you will, you won't get it back. There is no gray. Like I said...if you don't want us for anything more than sexual- don't touch us. Tell him you're not comfortable with the affection and all you'll get is dick which is the agreement. Anything else is bullshit.

In closing- fuck taurus women, scorpio women, pisces women and women in general. Fuck em and leave em. Lmao

No i dont particularly want his affection I am not an affectionate person, especially with someone i am casually dating. I am not walking a thin line at all i dont want it back if it goes as like i said i was liking how cold he was lol.

To me it is very strange to go from nothing to full on affection. I have never been into PDA's. Even with my ex fiance who i was with for 3 years, in all that time i dont think anyone could say they have seen us kissing or cuddling in public.

Suppose i'll have to have a little chat with him, if he wants more then he should say so, not just kiss and cuddle me into a relationship with him lol. And if he doesnt want more thats fine too just needs to back down on the affection!

Posted by Beergo85
There's probably a moon or venus in leo somewhere on his planetary placement. 😛

Just checked his birthchart and he does have Venus in Leo!

Posted by 25thDecan

In closing- fuck taurus women, scorpio women, pisces women and women in general. Fuck em and leave em. Lmao

Yo 25th!
Where you been man?

Damn son, ain't seen you in months.

I think its the venus in Leo that makes him over affectionate, the procrastinating about love i think is just Virgos

Posted by virg_goki
somehow virgos seems to be cursed.. blame us for being cold and push/pull.. now add in the leo venus for normal emotions and affection and they call us touchy-feely... PLEASE MAKE UP YOUR MIND!!!!

sheesh... people... We're normal like any other human being, just that we conceal them and release them full force when we think its safe. its 100% or 0% ... nadda in between :/

ive never said a bad word about Virgo's being cold, thats what attracted me in the first place 😛 hate all the lovey dovey nonsense

That sucks. Prednisone tastes terrible.

I had bell's palsy about 3 years ago. It really is an annoying thing to go through. And yeh, try playing a clarinet with one side of your face sliding off into heaven knows where. And since you're still on that kick. Eff Virgo, or rather ONE. 😛 😄

To 25th virg...taking the piss on Taurus women again.

Well spoke to him and he said he will back off because he doesnt know what he wants from us yet, so lets see if next time i see him he kicks me out of bed after he's done with me haha