today's his b-day need help deciding

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I am at a limit with my income right now, but i would like to show him how much I care about him....I got a card and wrote in it....put a few dollars in it, baked a cake, and I want to take him out to eat...I know the gift should be somethin practicle....and by him knowin i dont have it like that to give i think he would aprreciate the thought.....

But what else can I do to show how much i care any thoughts—
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Lord bless your heart...

A card, a (baked) cake, a "few dollars", and a dinner is more than enough for someone with a "limited income" to show another that they care.

I woulda stopped at the card but, that's just me. 🙂

But seriously, we like cards, cake, mula, and dinner-on-someone-else as much as the next person, but, what we treasure most is sincerity and time well spent with people we care about. All that other stuff is just icing on the cake (pun intended)...

...ah hell, I'm lying. I'm so happy another Virgo is being treated in such a fashion (although I do hope he's worth it) since we tend to go unappreciated soooo often.

The card - It's gotta be Hallmark 'cause anything less won't do! Make sure you top that cake off with some strawberries, dollar bills nice and crisp (like the new ones you get at the bank), and the restaurant has to be fancy shmancy. Like a Wolfgang Puck type joint. Only the best for us!













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Hi 24capgal18, we've been talking on my other post.

I think that sounds like more than enough. I think any more sounds like you're trying too much. I didn't mention this before, but it was my guy's birthday at the end of August. I wanted to give him a little something. Now remember, we were already in the part where we haven't been talking much. I left him two books, one was a really cool/nifty daily journal. I left it on his car (because we usually park on the same parking deck). He messaged me after work and said that was sweet and that I didn't have to do that. Later that night I sent him an IM, saying I hope he liked the gift. He said that he liked it, mentioned again that was nice, and that I shouldn't have. I told him it was my pleasure, and he responded with a big smily face. We then talked for just a bit.

Sorry, I know you're trying to figure out your gift situation here. What I want to say is just doing something, even minimal, shows you care and are thinking of him for his birthday. After all, aren't Virgos modest when it comes to gifts? If you still have time, consider maybe a giftcard for something that he likes, or tell him that you will take him to a place he likes (not necessarily today) or something that both of you have shared an interest in doing.

But really, I think you're fine with what you have! Let us know how it goes. And if you don't mind, I had asked a question on the other page.
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Posted by 24capgal18
I am at a limit with my income right now, but i would like to show him how much I care about him....I got a card and wrote in it....put a few dollars in it, baked a cake, and I want to take him out to eat...I know the gift should be somethin practicle....and by him knowin i dont have it like that to give i think he would aprreciate the thought.....

But what else can I do to show how much i care any thoughts—



The card & cake was enough!!! A few dollars? You should never give a man money...just saying. Anything more would be suspect, to me that is. I would feel like you were trying too hard & you're doing all of this because you did something. IDK, again that's just me but I don't think you should do the dinner thing or a gift. The money & the cake was suffice.
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welll it actually went great...I ended up cuttin myself inthe face with a knife (how the hell do ya do that ). I know your all wonderin that . But i had tryed to cut off the hospital band on my wrist and it slipped and hit me in the face .

N e wayz all was great he loved the cake and the card...he especially loved what I wrote in the card and responded by sayin awww that was so sweet ....Later we didnt end up goin to dinner .....his brothers took him out and he said he really wanted to be with me and he would have let me went but it was 4 guys and he didnt like the way that looked so we did our own thang ...he did come over yesterday and lefted this mornin.... he then told me that he and i had a really good time together and he'd call when he got home...but he said the cake was really moist...he loved chocolate cake >.I made hisbday great
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24cap you give that man whatever you wanna give him..don't listen to these cheap ass women...women that go all out for their man,usually get it back 10 fold..😉



LOL, oh no you didn't! You need your tail whooped for that one!




Yes I did..😉 if it would've been on the taurus board ...I wonder how bad it would've been then! With them selfish ass bastards..🙂 the men bulls..
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HAHAHAHAAA...I know one thing, the way they love food, they would have ok'd that cake though. Greedy arses.
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Tee hee hee...nut'n much. Watching these stupid ass Emmys and making a turkey burger...you? You working right now?



You think you know me woman!..🙂 yes I'm working...now make me a burger..😛



*Puts burger on the grill with "special" sauce*



What damn special sauce?)
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Don't you worry about that. 😛

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LMAO Who would turn down cake unless they had a freaking wheat allergy, C'MON NAO!



LOL, true dat. There's someone in my office who turns down cake ALL the time. For every damn event. We try to get her to eat even a smidge but to no avail. She's kind of annoying. Like who the F turns down chocolate mousse cake topped with fresh strawberries—

She is a vegan though so, whatev!
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How bout I spank your face?



LOL,

Leave him alone. You know he can't handle one Virgal, much less two at the same time....tee hee hee...where's VL? I'm gonna have her "pop" him like Tami says on BBW...ROFLMAO!



Even our own women underestimate us..😉
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I know you Virgo men are freakadeakdeaks but, you've got your match in us. Just sayin'....😛
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inhuman it is. That's some alien, other-wordly shit. I could have eaten two whole cows and 1 large chicken and had my belly sticking out to the high heavens and I still wouldn't turn down chocolate mousse cake with fresh berries...aw hell naw. Not happ'n!



Amen. Rubbing my food baby, groaning a bit and attacking it. At the very least shovel in a spoon full or give a wistful sigh and a lick at it. Pop a berry in my mouth. *smh* Some people just ain't right.
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How bout I spank your face?



LOL,

Leave him alone. You know he can't handle one Virgal, much less two at the same time....tee hee hee...where's VL? I'm gonna have her "pop" him like Tami says on BBW...ROFLMAO!



Even our own women underestimate us..😉



I know you Virgo men are freakadeakdeaks but, you've got your match in us. Just sayin'....😛
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Play it again Sam!!! Lol. Fo sho!!!
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How bout I spank your face?



LOL,

Leave him alone. You know he can't handle one Virgal, much less two at the same time....tee hee hee...where's VL? I'm gonna have her "pop" him like Tami says on BBW...ROFLMAO!



Even our own women underestimate us..😉



I know you Virgo men are freakadeakdeaks but, you've got your match in us. Just sayin'....😛



Whatever..😉
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😄
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How bout I spank your face?



LOL,

Leave him alone. You know he can't handle one Virgal, much less two at the same time....tee hee hee...where's VL? I'm gonna have her "pop" him like Tami says on BBW...ROFLMAO!



Even our own women underestimate us..😉



I know you Virgo men are freakadeakdeaks but, you've got your match in us. Just sayin'....😛



Play it again Sam!!! Lol. Fo sho!!!
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OK 😄 - I know you Virgo men are freakadeakdeaks but, you've got your match in us. Just sayin'...hahahahahaha!!!!
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inhuman it is. That's some alien, other-wordly shit. I could have eaten two whole cows and 1 large chicken and had my belly sticking out to the high heavens and I still wouldn't turn down chocolate mousse cake with fresh berries...aw hell naw. Not happ'n!



Amen. Rubbing my food baby, groaning a bit and attacking it. At the very least shovel in a spoon full or give a wistful sigh and a lick at it. Pop a berry in my mouth. *smh* Some people just ain't right.



You can't speak?..🙂
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Speak with food about like that, are you sniffing glue? That's to be slowly and thoroughly enjoyed.
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inhuman it is. That's some alien, other-wordly shit. I could have eaten two whole cows and 1 large chicken and had my belly sticking out to the high heavens and I still wouldn't turn down chocolate mousse cake with fresh berries...aw hell naw. Not happ'n!



Amen. Rubbing my food baby, groaning a bit and attacking it. At the very least shovel in a spoon full or give a wistful sigh and a lick at it. Pop a berry in my mouth. *smh* Some people just ain't right.
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Right on!

Do you know she doesn't even look at the cake when it's on the table?! GOTDAYUM! She brings her work to EVERY cake party and sits there working while we all pig away. SMGDH!

If I were her and knew I wasn't going to have any, I would at least stare that chocolate-y MF'er down until my mouth started to drool! She be front'n like she don't feel left out but I know she do. HA!
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inhuman it is. That's some alien, other-wordly shit. I could have eaten two whole cows and 1 large chicken and had my belly sticking out to the high heavens and I still wouldn't turn down chocolate mousse cake with fresh berries...aw hell naw. Not happ'n!



Amen. Rubbing my food baby, groaning a bit and attacking it. At the very least shovel in a spoon full or give a wistful sigh and a lick at it. Pop a berry in my mouth. *smh* Some people just ain't right.



Right on!

Do you know she doesn't even look at the cake when it's on the table?! GOTDAYUM! She brings her work to EVERY cake party and sits there working while we all pig away. SMGDH!

If I were her and knew I wasn't going to have any, I would at least stare that chocolate-y MF'er down until my mouth started to drool! She be front'n like she don't feel left out but I know she do. HA!
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Oh you KNOW that heifer goes home and polishes off an entire box of Rocher Dark. 😄
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How bout I spank your face?



LOL,

Leave him alone. You know he can't handle one Virgal, much less two at the same time....tee hee hee...where's VL? I'm gonna have her "pop" him like Tami says on BBW...ROFLMAO!




I was warming up the oil ....peach flavored or vanilla ?
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LOL, you 'bout to get it, 69!

And what are we all doing up so late on a Sunday night?
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Hahahahaha!!! @ VV, I'm such a night owl! Knowing damn well I gotta wake up early, but luckily I'm working from home so I can bullshit in between. 😄



Yeah, I don't have to be in to work until 10 tomorrow, and I'm lov'n it. I cleaned and cooked all weekend, and decided to sleep in late today and do nothing.

I got some steaks marinating in the fridge now, so when I come home tomorrow evening all I have ta do is throw those bad boys in the oven. Ha!
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inhuman it is. That's some alien, other-wordly shit. I could have eaten two whole cows and 1 large chicken and had my belly sticking out to the high heavens and I still wouldn't turn down chocolate mousse cake with fresh berries...aw hell naw. Not happ'n!



Amen. Rubbing my food baby, groaning a bit and attacking it. At the very least shovel in a spoon full or give a wistful sigh and a lick at it. Pop a berry in my mouth. *smh* Some people just ain't right.



Right on!

Do you know she doesn't even look at the cake when it's on the table?! GOTDAYUM! She brings her work to EVERY cake party and sits there working while we all pig away. SMGDH!

If I were her and knew I wasn't going to have any, I would at least stare that chocolate-y MF'er down until my mouth started to drool! She be front'n like she don't feel left out but I know she do. HA!



Oh you KNOW that heifer goes home and polishes off an entire box of Rocher Dark. 😄
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Oh yeah. Spoke to her on the phone after work the other night and she was eating a piece of chocolate...LMBAO!
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Posted by 69virgo
24cap you give that man whatever you wanna give him..don't listen to these cheap ass women...women that go all out for their man,usually get it back 10 fold..😉



preach boo....cause even though i gave cash it came back 4rm him already so yea thats why i love you virgo men cause yall on it fuck that negativity everybody aint the same and yall would want it for your bday too so it is nothin im gonna take care of my boo lol
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How bout I spank your face?



LOL,

Leave him alone. You know he can't handle one Virgal, much less two at the same time....tee hee hee...where's VL? I'm gonna have her "pop" him like Tami says on BBW...ROFLMAO!



Even our own women underestimate us..😉



I know you Virgo men are freakadeakdeaks but, you've got your match in us. Just sayin'....😛



Play it again Sam!!! Lol. Fo sho!!!



OK 😄 - I know you Virgo men are freakadeakdeaks but, you've got your match in us. Just sayin'...hahahahahaha!!!!



I been around da block with some virgo gals..yall ahight..😉
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yep cause capgirls are the true enough match for yall asses and yall love us except when we get into some negative mood
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Where is 24capgal? With her sweet lil Venus in sag self..😉



hahaha thats wuzup boo im right here lol

*****winks and bats eyes at ya*******

yea im all to the good but now i got this prob with my damn baby leo daddy and it is causin conflicts with my virgo man....i dont know why my babydad thinks he gots some damn right to come and fuck up some shit i got goin on with this man ...because it aint him he is jealous and tryin his best to sabbatosh anything that can come from this relationship...in all honesty I really dont try to let it get to me but it does and has been the reason why me and virgo man have been easin off eachother havin probs..
oe example babydad kepted callin makin it seem like we have been really talkin lately...then he just popped up at my house....then he started textin all night...then called me and told me a rumor about the virgo guy who he does not even know...then told me when it all comes crumblin down he will be there to pick up all the pieces....

what do yall think about that issue with leo man because all was goin good with me and virgo man until all this shit happened so i have just been offline for a sec because it is weird as hell and stressin me out cause it isnt called for