Trying to understand the male virgo..

I have been with this guy for almost 1 1/2 yrs.. We really havent had an argument before and we were both totally in love with one another.. He told me he loved me after a month and I felt the same way.. He was the first one to bring up marriage and kids in our future together.. and on valentines day he had bought this card that said to his 'Future' wife. All of a sudden he started distancing away from and broke up with me less then a month after valentines day.. I am so confused and really don't know why..He wont talk to me at all.. I know that he still loves me and wants to be with me..Is he getting scared because we have become so close and afraid to get hurt.. His ex girlfriend had cheated on him around this time in the relationship.. Does he think thats what im going to do.. Should I leave him alone until he is ready to talk to me or do I need to pry it out of him and try to get him to talk to me?? Please help..

"I have been with this guy for almost 1 1/2 yrs"

"He told me he loved me after a month"

"He was the first one to bring up marriage and kids"

"Is he getting scared because we have become so close and afraid to get hurt."

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To be quite honest, this makes no sense to me ... something else mujst have transpired to cause his sudden absence and has nothing to do with being scard about moving closer.

A Virgo wouldn't invest that amount of time in another person to just swim away without cause .. a Virgo works completely opposite, in fact. They spend a gross amount of time chewing on whether someone is right for them BEFORE they say, "I love you" and make future plans with this person.

They aren't that rash with their hearts ... and NEVER will be, for only to those people to whom they trust will get their hearts, so a very careful analysis takes place BEFORE they open-up like that.

Something is amiss here ... we haven't heard all the details to ascertain what happened to make this Virgo bail.

What did you do to him? What did you say? Something, I'm certain.

A Virgo doesn't quit another person without just cause .. in fact, they are the opposite ... they hang in until the bitter end.

Virdudes tend to be pretty lame. Save yourself the trouble and get a real man.

😉 @ arch

"He wont talk to me at all.. I know that he still loves me and wants to be with me."

These two statements are completly contradictory.

Are you telling me that he didnt say anything about what his reasons were for leaving you? Nothin'? C'mon?

"I have been with this guy for almost 1 1/2 yrs"

"He told me he loved me after a month"

"He was the first one to bring up marriage and kids"

"Is he getting scared because we have become so close and afraid to get hurt."

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To be quite honest, this makes no sense to me ... something else mujst have transpired to cause his sudden absence and has nothing to do with being scard about moving closer.

A Virgo wouldn't invest that amount of time in another person to just swim away without cause .. a Virgo works completely opposite, in fact. They spend a gross amount of time chewing on whether someone is right for them BEFORE they say, "I love you" and make future plans with this person.

They aren't that rash with their hearts ... and NEVER will be, for only to those people to whom they trust will get their hearts, so a very careful analysis takes place BEFORE they open-up like that.


ACTUALLLY VIRGOS TEND TO DISAAPEAR EVEN IF THINGS ARE GOING WELL. ONE OF MY FRIENDS WAS DATING A VIRGO FOR ABOUT A YEAR HE TOLD HER HE LOVED HER AFTER A MONTH. THEY HAD A GREAT REALTIONSHIP SHE ACCEPTED HIM EVEN AFTER HE LIED ABOUT HIS AGE AND OTHER LITTLE THINGS. SHE CHOOSE TO FORGIVE HIM AND THEY MOVED PAST IT. OUT OF NOW WHERE HE BREAKS UP WITH HER WHEN THINGS ARE GOING WELL I MEAN REALLY WELL NO ARGUMENT OR NOTHING OVER THE COURSE OF LIKE 6 OR 7 MONTHS. HE RECENTLY CAME BACK IN TO HER LIFE AFTER A YR AND A HALF HE TOLD HER WAS REALLY IMMATURE AND SHE WAS PERFECT HE JUST WASNT READY. TRANSLATION HE WANTED TO SEE WHAT ELSE WAS OUT THERE WHEN HE LEFT THEN CAME BACK HE FOUND OUT NOTHING WAS OUT THERE AND SHE WAS A REALLY GOOD WOMAN.

I'M A VIRGO MYSELF AND IF THINGS ARE GOING WELL WITH SOMEONE AND I GET A FEELING LIKE THIS MIGHT END SOON I'LL JUST UP AND LEAVE . I'VE DONE THIS TWICE I DONT KNOW WHAT IT IS I JUST WALK ABOUT MAYBE IT'S THE FEAR OF GETTING HURT.

Something is amiss here ... we haven't heard all the details to ascertain what happened to make this Virgo bail.

What did you do to him? What did you say? Something, I'm certain.

A Virgo doesn't quit another person without just cause .. in fact, they are the opposite ... they hang in until the bitter end.

Do you have to yell?

Actually, Virgo28 .. it was only last month (maybe Feb) in which you were in here going on about the Aqua woman to whom you were hanging on and on, and couldn't move past her, eventhough you said repeatedly that you knew you should ... and even put gifts for her on her doorstep.

A Virgo, to whom REALLY loves somebody does NOT abandom them. Now, if he never really loved her in the first place, then this is possible. It's possible of anybody who never really loved the other person.

But, for this Pisces woman to say that he LOVED her, and then say that he swam away for no reason ..... is a high improbability.

Love and abandonment as it pertains to a Virgo is a contridiction.