Update on the MIA Virgo.....Gaaahhhh...

So....Our date was this past Saturday. It was awesome and of course I have heard little from him since. But....I expected that....
Beforehand, I mentioned the fact that I could finally see him live and in person and his response was "Finally". He brought me a small gift that was very thoughtful and our evening was very relaxed and fun. Sunday, he sent me some pics of some taxidermy things he has been working on as he does taxidermy on the side. One was of a squirrel that he dubbed the J squirrel. We have an inside joke that I am squirrely (Because I have a hard time sitting still)and the first letter of my name is J. He also got me a squirrel ornament for my Christmas tree. So.....I had butterflies before he got here.... Today, I sent him a text telling him that I really liked him. It went like this... " I wanted to say that I really enjoy being around you, I like that your fun, easy and no stress to be around, I like feeling that I can be my for real self and am comfortable around you, your way kewl, and that I really like you alot." It was sent a little over an hour ago and ....no response. I hope...I have not screwed this up and scared him off. But, I also feel that Virgos need reassurance and wanted to be for real and honest. But know that this could make or break it if he feels pressured which I tried to word it so that it didn't. Oh boy....

Haha bless you, no I dont think you have screwed it up, I think they just take time to mull on it for a little while, as well as dont know how to respond back, I think they like the chase a little too.. but he will be back, i get the same as you, i havent given that much out yet, but he`s been coming back for the last 4 1/2 months 🙂 .. SO FAR!! lol

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Haha bless you, no I dont think you have screwed it up, I think they just take time to mull on it for a little while, as well as dont know how to respond back, I think they like the chase a little too.. but he will be back, i get the same as you, i havent given that much out yet, but he`s been coming back for the last 4 1/2 months 🙂 .. SO FAR!! lol

4 months here 🙂 I have held it back! But just this weekend, I realized that I trust him and he is getting through....I think that because I have been very careful (actually we both have)and almost nonchalant, I wanted to let him know what I am feeling without pressure or asking for anything....

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Haha bless you, no I dont think you have screwed it up, I think they just take time to mull on it for a little while, as well as dont know how to respond back, I think they like the chase a little too.. but he will be back, i get the same as you, i havent given that much out yet, but he`s been coming back for the last 4 1/2 months 🙂 .. SO FAR!! lol

4 months here 🙂 I have held it back! But just this weekend, I realized that I trust him and he is getting through....I think that because I have been very careful (actually we both have)and almost nonchalant, I wanted to let him know what I am feeling without pressure or asking for anything....

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Lol.. you are so at the same stage as me and been behaving exactly the same as my virgo and me, SOOOO! hell! Im going to let you do all the ground work chicka! ok you make all the moves on your virgo guy and I`ll just let you test all the areas, haha.. If it works I AM going to be doing all that, if you get dumped, HELL! I AINT SAYING A WORD! AND AM COOL! lol! ;D

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Haha bless you, no I dont think you have screwed it up, I think they just take time to mull on it for a little while, as well as dont know how to respond back, I think they like the chase a little too.. but he will be back, i get the same as you, i havent given that much out yet, but he`s been coming back for the last 4 1/2 months 🙂 .. SO FAR!! lol

4 months here 🙂 I have held it back! But just this weekend, I realized that I trust him and he is getting through....I think that because I have been very careful (actually we both have)and almost nonchalant, I wanted to let him know what I am feeling without pressure or asking for anything....

Lol.. you are so at the same stage as me and been behaving exactly the same as my virgo and me, SOOOO! hell! Im going to let you do all the ground work chicka! ok you make all the moves on your virgo guy and I`ll just let you test all the areas, haha.. If it works I AM going to be doing all that, if you get dumped, HELL! I AINT SAYING A WORD! AND AM COOL! lol! ;D

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LOL!!!! Well.....It went well!!!! Just got a text from him telling me he thinks I'm kewl too, he loves my sense of humor, he likes that I'm cool with his work schedule and don't get dramatic when duty calls and...that he learned the hard way that family comes first no matter what and I "get that". And a big "Thanx"!! at the end too 🙂 Shew!!

HAHA! brilliant 😄 .. told you!.. right! now go tell him.. ummm.. that you are sooo feeling this guy!.. try that one out for me lol lol.. im way too scared! and yeah, well lets see if you get dumped and like i said if so I AINT SAYING NOTHIN 😉 .. go on, go try! haha ;D

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HAHA! brilliant 😄 .. told you!.. right! now go tell him.. ummm.. that you are sooo feeling this guy!.. try that one out for me lol lol.. im way too scared! and yeah, well lets see if you get dumped and like i said if so I AINT SAYING NOTHIN 😉 .. go on, go try! haha ;D

I did!! I said "...and that I really like you alot."!! He didn't say it back...in so many words, but did say that I "get him"...and I'm kewl 😉

Now back off some and let him chase you🙂