Calling all Virgos.................

What are your romantic experiences with Sagi chicks/guys?

Anything atal, one night stands, relationships, dates..............

Virdude here 🙂 I have a soft spot for them Sag chicks and have the most fun convo's with them, basically hanging out with them is great! they seem pretty curious about our intellect as well and we truly feel comfortable showing it to them since I know how non-judgmental they are in these matters. As far as relationships its a bit of a different story, I feel I could easily be in a relationship with a Sag because of the amount of fire/Sag in my chart but Im pretty sure lots of other Virgos need someone more stable and grounded and they dont seem to get this secure feeling when interacting with Sags. Virgos truly need to envision you in this way before they consider you relationship-material.

Ah thanks for sharing guys!! I've only ever 2 Virgo guys, non of which I have had any kind of relations with on an intimate level. I would love to meet one though. Any ideas as to where I found a Virgo casually waiting around for a Sag chick to approach him - LOL!

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Virdude here 🙂 I have a soft spot for them Sag chicks and have the most fun convo's with them, basically hanging out with them is great! they seem pretty curious about our intellect as well and we truly feel comfortable showing it to them since I know how non-judgmental they are in these matters. As far as relationships its a bit of a different story, I feel I could easily be in a relationship with a Sag because of the amount of fire/Sag in my chart but Im pretty sure lots of other Virgos need someone more stable and grounded and they dont seem to get this secure feeling when interacting with Sags. Virgos truly need to envision you in this way before they consider you relationship-material.

I agree. I'm cap/aqua cusp with Sag moon. I can draw out my virgo's intellect. We both have an off-beat humor. Him, as a virgo, isn't as grounded/stable as some virgo's either which is why it works for us. He's a freedom lover as much as myself.(he is aqua moon)

Well I am a member of a gym, maybe I'll start scouting - HA!

Had a few dates with a Sagi girl but there was no chemistry whatsoever. My manager at work is s Sagi woman and she irritates the hell out of me. Generally I just feel plain awkward around Sagis, male of female.

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Dating my 2nd one, I think I have the thinking patterns down well.

The guys make for good friends, the girls tend to be iffy if they don't know you or find you amusing.

I have a friend who is a Virgo but we aren't all that close. The only times I see him are at family events and we get on like a house on fire. There has never been any chemistry so to speak, but at a wedding a couple of years ago he started acting really quite strange around me (not his usual self) He is usually quite confident around me but started getting really shy, so it made me feel shy too for some odd reason? He asked me if I wanted a dance (it took alot for him to come over&ask) but my cousin liked him so grabbed his hand and he was forced into the situation. LOL

We speak over email literally every other week and just entertain each other with our dry humour.

He celebrated his 30th birthday last year (the only birthday he's only ever thrown a party for) He made such a big thing of it and invited only close friends and family so I felt somewhat privileged. I really saw it as a bonding opportunity, but I had to go away unexpectedly so wasn't able to attend. I was gutted! When I told him that I wouldn't be able to make it, he was a bit gutted too. I almost feel like he gave me a window of opportunity which I missed and now it's too late to be his pal? lol

I'd like to really become better friends with him but he doesn't let me in. He actually makes me laugh so much and I find him fascinating. I would love to be in his company.

What does one do? Why does he behave the way he does? Any ideas?

P.S I'm talking strictly as just good friends only

Sag females are cool in my opinion. They like new and exciting things.

the ones i know like me because of my intellect. Also, i think they like someone they can master, someone easily figured out, innocent.

had sex with one and it was a life-experience. LOL. very energetic and talkative sex (LOL). she liked to show off as well.

They like to be in control as well.

i wouldn't take them home though. a bit loud,often snubby, fast-spender and "un-tidy" LOL 🙂

overall, they are good friends. very open-minded and eternal optimistic. i love their confident as well. definitely doesn't take bulls**ts.

@ BoomShakalakaBoom:
from how you describe sagit.ladies,is it not what a man would prefer in the partner:fun and spontaneous,will not have a boring/dull moments,as a virgo you will feel the freedom to be yourself,without contriol?Routine could kill the thrill in the connection,no?

@ 25thDecan:
after you have the major factor:initial sexual attraction,is it possible for you to compromise a little...negotiating who will take the upper hand 🙂/i'm joking/

@ virg_goki:
may i ask you ,what for you would make it complicated,if you go on the next level?

@SagChick411:
from your point of view ,what you find the missing element,that could inspire a spark for a relationship between you and a virgo?

@ VirgoM20:
~"Creative, analytical and sexually inexhaustible with a dark side"~ none of these did a magic?🙂 very strange,considring you have all the charming magnets

@ Cajunspirit:
which one from the following context you referrin the expression "iffy" ?

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=iffy

based on your observations on your previous sagit girl ,the 2nd one and the other sagit girls you've had communication with,have you noticed sagit girls to act in a way when action is ahead of the thought?

@ username:
~"i wouldn't take them home though"~
you missing an awesome life journey with a non stop room service 🙂

Posted by quo vadis?
@ BoomShakalakaBoom:
from how you describe sagit.ladies,is it not what a man would prefer in the partner:fun and spontaneous,will not have a boring/dull moments,as a virgo you will feel the freedom to be yourself,without contriol?Routine could kill the thrill in the connection,no?

@SagChick411:
from your point of view ,what you find the missing element,that could inspire a spark for a relationship between you and a virgo?

I am really lost as to what I think the missing element could be. I really don't have a clue (?) I wish I could read his mind - ha

Posted by SagChick411
P.S I'm talking strictly as just good friends only

I never quite understand this "good friend only" stuff. If he invited you to his birthday party, then he already considers you a friend. If you are looking for more one on one with him, won't he think you want more? The only male "friends" I have are my old school friends, gay guys or co-workers. Maybe my besties' husbands or boyfriends but not too "friendly". So if I am talking and flirting with a guy, its usually not because I want to be just a friend.

I work with a lot of Virgo guys at my office. They are great to talk to, joke and laugh. I am virgo rising and have a lot of earth and water in my chart though.

I don't see how he could possibly consider me a good friend if we don't really do stuff as friends do. Yeah he invited me to the party, I was a bit surprised by that.

I just want to be his friend. If anything was going to happen it would have by now, wouldn't it? (on his part I mean) He would have told me he liked me after 2 years surely— Things have been cool with us. I just haven't seen him since last year even though we speak over email.

Maybe I should just keep it as it is and suffer his fun absence in my life *Sighs*

Aaah, maybe he doesn't know you may want more? Some Virgos have to be hit upside the head to see that you like them...lol

Posted by SagChick411
What are your romantic experiences with Sagi chicks/guys?

Anything atal, one night stands, relationships, dates..............

I had a 5 year relationship with a Sag. Aqua moon, scorp venus. All I can say is never a fucking gain. All we ever did was argue. I stayed so long because I did love him at the time, sex was good, & he provided for me pretty well but...we just clashed. We just didn't get each other. Soon I started to lose respect for him & started to resent him for alot of things & eventually I didn't love him anymore. He still tells me he loves me to this day but man listen...It was oil & water in that relationship.

Just my experience though. Our placements were very incompatible along with other factors. Maybe your Virgo may have some compatible placements to yours, so it's not impossible.

OK So I asked my Virgo pal to hang, I am going to share the convo with you guys cause it was hilarious!!! Well I thought so anyway.....Oh and I have him down as Pimp in my phone cause I call him that (private joke) Happy reading...

ME:Listen Mr, u wana do something next week? Go to a museum or something fun?? and no this isn't me asking u out before u get any funny ideas. I thought we could hang out and laugh together!! X
P.I.M.P?: When?
ME:I dunno, when ru free?
P.I.M.P?:Usually after 6
ME: What even at the weekends?
P.I.M.P?:I tend to work on the weekends.
ME: Bleurghhh to working at weekends,OK, well lemme check my dairy tomorrow and we shall conjure up a plan
P.I.M.P?:You know, I've just been told that my 1st 'date' etiquette nEeds improving!
ME:First date etiquette?? Lol!! How?
P.I.M.P?:A girl I went on one date with 2 years ago! just decides to tell me now that we shouldn't have split the bill!!??
ME: OMG, WTH were you thinking?!! U NEVER split the bill on a FIRST date even if the girl offers. What is wrong with u?? Lol
P.I.M.P?:Aaah sush.. U women scream for equality but turn it on and off as and when u want.
ME: LOL- I don't scream for equality!! Ru sure u weren't being tight:p
P.I.M.P?: As far as I'm concerned, a women who buys a round of Y-bombs and an opening drink, aint the women I wnat to be with.
P.I.M.P?:Nope I'm not tight.
P.I.M.P?:If you're a women and act like one you'll be treated like one. I want a women who bloody well deserves me. Not some cow who believes I'm a free lunch.
ME: Yep unfortunately 'some" women do see 'some' men as a free lunch/dinner. Sick I know!! Ur too good for that god damn it!!
P.I.M.P?:I didn't order them, I took her to a hidden gem, a real cocktail bar and she orders a fraking Y-bomb.
ME: OH Big mistake, taking a commoner to an upmarket place!!
ME: Where the hell do u meet these girls and if by mutual friends then how do u not know their ways?
P.I.M.P?:That's the thing, she's thinks she's awesome because she's loaded!
? ?Queen Of The Entire Universe —?:
I'm sure u do 'some' level of research before agreeing to go on a date ? Lol
P.I.M.P?:I dunno. I officially give up.
P.I.M.P?:Yeah course. But you only really know when you meet.

Posted by TheLadySagittarius
I work with a lot of Virgo guys at my office. They are great to talk to, joke and laugh. I am virgo rising and have a lot of earth and water in my chart though.

I have Virgo rising too!!

Posted by SagChick411
OK So I asked my Virgo pal to hang, I am going to share the convo with you guys cause it was hilarious!!! Well I thought so anyway.....Oh and I have him down as Pimp in my phone cause I call him that (private joke) Happy reading...

ME:Listen Mr, u wana do something next week? Go to a museum or something fun?? and no this isn't me asking u out before u get any funny ideas. I thought we could hang out and laugh together!! X
P.I.M.P?: When?
ME:I dunno, when ru free?
P.I.M.P?:Usually after 6
ME: What even at the weekends?
P.I.M.P?:I tend to work on the weekends.
ME: Bleurghhh to working at weekends,OK, well lemme check my dairy tomorrow and we shall conjure up a plan
P.I.M.P?:You know, I've just been told that my 1st 'date' etiquette nEeds improving!
ME:First date etiquette?? Lol!! How?
P.I.M.P?:A girl I went on one date with 2 years ago! just decides to tell me now that we shouldn't have split the bill!!??
ME: OMG, WTH were you thinking?!! U NEVER split the bill on a FIRST date even if the girl offers. What is wrong with u?? Lol
P.I.M.P?:Aaah sush.. U women scream for equality but turn it on and off as and when u want.
ME: LOL- I don't scream for equality!! Ru sure u weren't being tight:p
P.I.M.P?: As far as I'm concerned, a women who buys a round of Y-bombs and an opening drink, aint the women I wnat to be with.
P.I.M.P?:Nope I'm not tight.
P.I.M.P?:If you're a women and act like one you'll be treated like one. I want a women who bloody well deserves me. Not some cow who believes I'm a free lunch.
ME: Yep unfortunately 'some" women do see 'some' men as a free lunch/dinner. Sick I know!! Ur too good for that god damn it!!
P.I.M.P?:I didn't order them, I took her to a hidden gem, a real cocktail bar and she orders a fraking Y-bomb.
ME: OH Big mistake, taking a commoner to an upmarket place!!
ME: Where the hell do u meet these girls and if by mutual friends then how do u not know their ways?
P.I.M.P?:That's the thing, she's thinks she's awesome because she's loaded!
? ?Queen Of The Entire Universe —?:
I'm sure u do 'some' level of research before agreeing to go on a date ? Lol
P.I.M.P?:I dunno. I officially give up.
P.I.M.P?:Yeah course. But you only really know when you meet.

Sounds like he's inadvertantly letting you know what's up before you guys go out...*raises eyebrow*

Yeah now that you mention it, it does sound like that doesn't it? HA!!! Ah well 'this' won't be a date so he has no reason to panic......lol

Hey Sagchick...I think you should just go for it! Tell him you like him..It sounds like he is interested but he is not sure of your intentions. Also, if the girl asks the guy out, she should pay (or at least offer to). i would make a move when you go out..lol

Posted by TheLadySagittarius
Hey Sagchick...I think you should just go for it! Tell him you like him..It sounds like he is interested but he is not sure of your intentions. Also, if the girl asks the guy out, she should pay (or at least offer to). i would make a move when you go out..lol

Oh no, I don't actually fancy him, I think you got it wrong-lol!! It's not a date. We're just friends (well I hope that's how it's come across to him) I was just hoping to spend more time in his company strictly as friends as we get on so well...

Posted by SagChick411

Posted by TheLadySagittarius
Hey Sagchick...I think you should just go for it! Tell him you like him..It sounds like he is interested but he is not sure of your intentions. Also, if the girl asks the guy out, she should pay (or at least offer to). i would make a move when you go out..lol

Oh no, I don't actually fancy him, I think you got it wrong-lol!! It's not a date. We're just friends (well I hope that's how it's come across to him) I was just hoping to spend more time in his company strictly as friends as we get on so well...

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Lol..ok, thats cool

A few of my best friends are Sags... I date a Sag guy for 1.5 years- he was sweet, silly, serious, a romantic... but he was all over the place with his life and needed to get it together (which is why we broke up)

Posted by SagChick411
OK So I asked my Virgo pal to hang, I am going to share the convo with you guys cause it was hilarious!!! Well I thought so anyway.....Oh and I have him down as Pimp in my phone cause I call him that (private joke) Happy reading...

ME:Listen Mr, u wana do something next week? Go to a museum or something fun?? and no this isn't me asking u out before u get any funny ideas. I thought we could hang out and laugh together!! X
P.I.M.P?: When?
ME:I dunno, when ru free?
P.I.M.P?:Usually after 6
ME: What even at the weekends?
P.I.M.P?:I tend to work on the weekends.
ME: Bleurghhh to working at weekends,OK, well lemme check my dairy tomorrow and we shall conjure up a plan
P.I.M.P?:You know, I've just been told that my 1st 'date' etiquette nEeds improving!
ME:First date etiquette?? Lol!! How?
P.I.M.P?:A girl I went on one date with 2 years ago! just decides to tell me now that we shouldn't have split the bill!!??
ME: OMG, WTH were you thinking?!! U NEVER split the bill on a FIRST date even if the girl offers. What is wrong with u?? Lol
P.I.M.P?:Aaah sush.. U women scream for equality but turn it on and off as and when u want.
ME: LOL- I don't scream for equality!! Ru sure u weren't being tight:p
P.I.M.P?: As far as I'm concerned, a women who buys a round of Y-bombs and an opening drink, aint the women I wnat to be with.
P.I.M.P?:Nope I'm not tight.
P.I.M.P?:If you're a women and act like one you'll be treated like one. I want a women who bloody well deserves me. Not some cow who believes I'm a free lunch.
ME: Yep unfortunately 'some" women do see 'some' men as a free lunch/dinner. Sick I know!! Ur too good for that god damn it!!
P.I.M.P?:I didn't order them, I took her to a hidden gem, a real cocktail bar and she orders a fraking Y-bomb.
ME: OH Big mistake, taking a commoner to an upmarket place!!
ME: Where the hell do u meet these girls and if by mutual friends then how do u not know their ways?
P.I.M.P?:That's the thing, she's thinks she's awesome because she's loaded!
? ?Queen Of The Entire Universe —?:
I'm sure u do 'some' level of research before agreeing to go on a date ? Lol
P.I.M.P?:I dunno. I officially give up.
P.I.M.P?:Yeah course. But you only really know when you meet.

He split the bill? Ew

My 1st love is a Sag —
We got along so well and are still friends now.

Posted by 25thDecan
If you just want to be friends...then be ready for the can of worms. He might not want "just" friendship.

Well surely if he wanted more I would have known by now? I've known this kid for years and years! hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm..............*deep in thought*

No way, I wouldn't dream of it a I don't think of him like that but.....I'm a Sag so flirting is almost like second nature but i guess I should be very concious of my body language etc. I just wana be myself but I don't wana give him the wrong impression. But he should know the drill....Idk, I'm overthinking now, lol!

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm..............Yah....I'll let you know how it goes. I'm pretty oblivious when it comes to people of the opposite sex giving me the 'speech' or softly putting their 'moves' into play -LOL! I just generally see people being friendly, same as I am with them.

You know it's weird because you told him you are not asking him out, but then he went into that whole first date thing so I also kind of wonder if he has some other ideas maybe.

Yeah but that could have been random, no? *thinking*

Hmm...I've always been fairly indifferent to Sags.

If I had to choose a verdict on them, I've never really been impressed with the ones I've met. They were men (not romantic relations)--came off as needy, and attention-whorish. They've seemed sweet, but their huge egos have been unattractive to me.

Sag fems I've not had much experience with.

OK so I haven't met up with my Virgo friend yet BUT I randomly bump into him on Saturday and he looooked cute as hell! It was mad cause there was some 'weird' chemistry in the air. He made me get nervous and I never get nervous. He commented on my outift and asked where I was off to (he assumed I was off to meet a guy) It was hard to keep the conversation flowing cause I was so nervous so I kept saying ''So......' LOL! SOOO unlike me! He was nervous too it seemed.

He almost looked stunned to see me, it was weird! He bb's me today making a comment on my status so I say 'You looked handsome the other day' to which he replies 'Flattery will get u everywhere, I'm liking the blue shoes' (I was wearing blue suede sky scraper heels when he saw me) I reply saying 'Everywhere u say, elaborate.....and my blue shoes liked u too'' to which he replied back 'That aint hard 😛' I say 'I don't know how to read in between the lines' and he says 'It's not hard for your shoes to like me. That's all 😛

I wonder what he's like in bed-lol

WTH— LOL

I really wasn't aware that I fancied him at all, well not until I saw him on Saturday. He was looking flyyyy!! HA!

What now?? It seems he's not sure even though he was flirting. I'm confused!

LOL!

Posted by 25thDecan
I don't think he's the one confused on his intentions and how he feels. Looks like you flirtted and didn't ever think much of it. He did. He fancied you a lil...you were having a "little harmless fun". Men have penises...flirting turns us on. Players exploit this...or teach you a lesson. Wannabe's tumble over themselves. Normal guys get a false ego boost and feel rejected and played when you show obvious signs you were having fun flirting at his expense(women do that...they just do). And now...you show you're tongu tied when you see him in his element and not on terms where you are in control of the way you WANT to view him. He wasn't tongue tied....I believe he was sincerely like "what day is consistent with her or is she just a heartbreaker?".

I suggest you not think too much about this and do what young people should...spend some romantic time together with no expectations. That will come very close to eliminating the communication problem between the two of you. You and HE have BEEN attracted to one another. Stop sizing each other up and just go out with the guy.

Yeah you're right! Thanks for your advice🙂 Also I didn't flirt intentionally. He made me blush cause I feel he was flirting which made me get all giggly and pathetic. Ughh!

I'm such a pussy, what shall I say to him? 'Hi, wanna go out?'

Posted by 25thDecan

And..no you didn't flirt intentionally but you HAVE flirted with him way before this...and often..then turned it RIGHT off for some other pursuit. Not a critique, only a spot on observation. This is life.

What unintentional flirting? Yeah maybe once now that I think back. Maybe he thinks I'm sending him miexed signals, hmmm OK, I think I get it! lol

'Not a critique, only a spot on observation' SUch a Virgo thing- ha!

I messaged him yesterday and he still hasn't responded back. I put 'Patience is not my strong point & u are ever so annoying whilst on bb when it comes to replying, Ughh how I suffer with you-lol' (obviously this is a joke) I can't really go steaming in with asking him out when he hasn't even read those messages yet-lol

Cute! Dude I had a virgo boyfriend he was chill.

Well I am a Virguy and I have known my ex (Sagi female) for 26 years! I think in a Virgo/Sag relationship the Virgo may be the one to suffer emotionally (as I have done) because basically Virgos are sensitive people and Sagis are not - so the sensitive Virgo suffers at the often offhand treatment dished out by Sag. That's my experience anyway. I keep in touch with my ex though as we have a ten-year-old son in France (she is French herself and lives there with him: I am English and live here in England). Being French she also has a bit of a "gallic shrug" attitude sometimes which is actually perhaps similar in itself to a Sagi attitude in any case (like, "whatever"!)

Posted by virgodog58
Well I am a Virguy and I have known my ex (Sagi female) for 26 years! I think in a Virgo/Sag relationship the Virgo may be the one to suffer emotionally (as I have done) because basically Virgos are sensitive people and Sagis are not - so the sensitive Virgo suffers at the often offhand treatment dished out by Sag. That's my experience anyway. I keep in touch with my ex though as we have a ten-year-old son in France (she is French herself and lives there with him: I am English and live here in England). Being French she also has a bit of a "gallic shrug" attitude sometimes which is actually perhaps similar in itself to a Sagi attitude in any case (like, "whatever"!)

lol @ 'Garlic shrug' attitude.

How long ago did you split?

I'm pretty sensitive and hurt easy being a Sag, I can't talk for other Sags.

'Btw..who is that in your avi. I have it on the tip of my tongue and just can't get to it''

Errm I actually don't know.

BTW I've decided I'm not going to message him (for now) I just don't understand why he hasn't replied to my messages. He would definitely have them up on his screen if he hasn't read them prompting him to 'read' then. I just don't get that!

Do Virgos play games?

Posted by virgodog58
Well I am a Virguy and I have known my ex (Sagi female) for 26 years! I think in a Virgo/Sag relationship the Virgo may be the one to suffer emotionally (as I have done) because basically Virgos are sensitive people and Sagis are not - so the sensitive Virgo suffers at the often offhand treatment dished out by Sag. That's my experience anyway. I keep in touch with my ex though as we have a ten-year-old son in France (she is French herself and lives there with him: I am English and live here in England). Being French she also has a bit of a "gallic shrug" attitude sometimes which is actually perhaps similar in itself to a Sagi attitude in any case (like, "whatever"!)

i'm a virgo fem and i can definitely see what you are saying. virgo's tend to blend with about everyone honestly. i once really liked a sag guy, but didnt work out. he was never ready to settle down. maybe later in life it could have worked out, and would have been content, but not happy looking back on it. virgo's like excitement, but stability at the same time. in a relationship, i prefer cancers personally, then tauruses. however, in younger years dated gemini's and virgo's mainly. the problem with being a young virgo is we like the chase, or at least i did. then once its over, we are no longer interested, unless we really like the person. there arent many out there that we let know our true side/feelings/heart to. thats how we roll.

In reply to SagChick411, well this is going to sound weird but we kind of "broke up" twenty years ago! She kind of decided to resettle back in her hometown in France and I thought we would each find somebody else but for some reason this has never happened. In my case I guess it has been because of the typical Virgo-male shyness and bad luck with women, and in her case that she has quite a blunt and "butch" personality although she is quite good-looking. Actually they say that Sagittarians are "emotionally self-contained", meaning that they don't really need anybody else (on a deep level) to feel fulfilled, so I guess this is why (unlike me) she is not prepared to go out of her way to please a partner (and yes I am talking partly about sex!) On a day-to-day level she has our ten-year-old son for company and very good company he is too being a more typical Sagittarian than she (she is often quite negative which I put down to Mars in Virgo and Moon in Scorpio square Saturn). What impresses me more than anything else in a woman is simply kindness (and for that reason tend to find myself helplessly attracted to Cancerians) and I am afraid that my ex is not a particularly kind person: I know some Saggies can be kind but she is not particularly.

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Posted by virgodog58

i'm a virgo fem and i can definitely see what you are saying. virgo's tend to blend with about everyone honestly. i once really liked a sag guy, but didnt work out. he was never ready to settle down. maybe later in life it could have worked out, and would have been content, but not happy looking back on it. virgo's like excitement, but stability at the same time. in a relationship, i prefer cancers personally, then tauruses. however, in younger years dated gemini's and virgo's mainly. the problem with being a young virgo is we like the chase, or at least i did. then once its over, we are no longer interested, unless we really like the person. there arent many out there that we let know our true side/feelings/heart to. thats how we roll.

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OK I understand excitement and stability in a relationship (all of which I can provide in bucketloads) 😛 But what about the 'getting-the-girl' part (me) He's probably not as interested maybe? Ugh I dunno, it is confusing to me I'm not gonna lie! I just like people to be upfront and not 'beat around the bush' which he seems to be doing. I asked him out (not literally) the other week and he hasn't even mentioned it again. I don't think I like him enough to chase! I just want some attention. MUHAHA!

lol@ 'that how we roll' LOL!

Thanks for your insight btw, it made a very interesting read 🙂

WTF is occurring! Either this site or my computer are possessed *twilight music plays*

Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
..............................I've never in my life dated a sag because my 1st cuzin is a sag(female) and we jus.....ya kno.......

No I don't, please elaborate 😛

Posted by virgodog58
In reply to SagChick411, well this is going to sound weird but we kind of "broke up" twenty years ago! She kind of decided to resettle back in her hometown in France and I thought we would each find somebody else but for some reason this has never happened. In my case I guess it has been because of the typical Virgo-male shyness and bad luck with women, and in her case that she has quite a blunt and "butch" personality although she is quite good-looking. Actually they say that Sagittarians are "emotionally self-contained", meaning that they don't really need anybody else (on a deep level) to feel fulfilled, so I guess this is why (unlike me) she is not prepared to go out of her way to please a partner (and yes I am talking partly about sex!) On a day-to-day level she has our ten-year-old son for company and very good company he is too being a more typical Sagittarian than she (she is often quite negative which I put down to Mars in Virgo and Moon in Scorpio square Saturn). What impresses me more than anything else in a woman is simply kindness (and for that reason tend to find myself helplessly attracted to Cancerians) and I am afraid that my ex is not a particularly kind person: I know some Saggies can be kind but she is not particularly.

Oooh 20 years. So what's been in your longest relationship 'no relationship' since you ex? Bad luck with women? HA! I'm sure that isn't true!

LOl@ 'butch' personality.

I don't know if I'm a typical Sag but I need someone to make me complete (on a deep level) I need a tag team duo like my partner in crime kinda thing. I love to please my partner, infact I live for that in the bedroom and kitchen 🙂 I believe I'm one of the kindest girls I know.....toot toot! (no but seriously) In the situation you are describing I feel more like you and your ex seems more like my ex who is a Aries/Taurus cusp.

Hi SagChick411. I keep in touch with her (my ex) and see her sometimes for the sake of our son who I am very fond of even though he was unplanned and it was a total shock to me when I was told I was to become a father (back in 2001): I hadn't desperately wanted to become a father in any case but I certainly didn't expect it to come like that like a bolt from the blue! The worst thing though was the way she handled it: pretty offhand and matter-of-fact and by the time she told me she had already made up her mind that it was going to happen and that was that! In fact our son was due to be Aqua but obviously decided that it would be fun to be a Sag and so came zooming out six weeks early!

I'm sorry to say that I truly have had no other "relationships" over the past many years: I have been through periods of trying to date women and am doing so again at the moment. Unfortunately although it perhaps happens in romcoms that "shy guy gets the girl" I suppose it's seldom like that in real life! I'm not so shy that I couldn't or wouldn't respond to a little bit of encouragement from the right lady but it's just that it never happens!

As far as sex goes perhaps she is not typical Sag as although we did get involved pretty quickly when we met she is actually not very kinky at all (unlike me - at least I would be if I got the chance lol!) I think she is pretty average.

Perhaps the reason that she and I "get along" at all - and perhaps the reason that she was attracted to me in the first place - is that I actually have Sag rising (also in case you are interested to know I have the Moon in Aquarius). I think my interest in/desire for kink which she unfortunately does not share comes from Venus conjunct Uranus (in Leo) and Sun conjunct Pluto.

The Sagittarius that I dated I knew for 2 years before anything happened. He was very patient because after we got together he told me that he liked me from the first moment that he met me and never stopped liking me. Me being a Virgo it was very intense between us two. He would say all of the time how I'd drain him with my eye contact and he liked it. He waited on me hand and foot and loved to be needed (like taking out the trash, buying something from the store that I needed or paying a bill or two). Sags love independent and confident women but at the same time, they like to feel like they can take care of them. The sex was INSANE! We would do it for HOURS! He LOVED to kiss a LOT! He'd spend the weekend with me from Friday to Monday morning and hated to leave. Very affectionate, funny, shy sometimes and attentive. He always had a positive attitude and we got along so very well. I would have to initiate a lot of things though because he didn't want to overstep his boundaries. Such a shy gentleman but I know that was part of his charm and it worked.

BTW SagChick411: Would so like to meet you (that's if I could keep up with you at my age lol!) If you are ever in London England I hope we can meet as I live not far from there...:-)