VG says I'm too independent

Septemer 3 virgo guy, the one I talked about before, Well after going back and fourth with his feelings towarsd me.. Which is normal since he is young I would think and is surrounded by pretty girls in cali while I'm in a different state and wont be there til around January.. so of course he can't make up his mind. But he says I'm not what he needs because I'm too independent.

I guess I would agree.. I am soo used to doing everything for myself because of family issues and growing up that I have trouble depending on a person.. I always hoped the right person would come along and change it but I guess it's not him since I'm too independent for him. That hurt my pride a bit lol.. but I'm alright. Just thought I'd share and see what you guys opinion on that was?

I'm quite curious if my Cap moon has something to do with my independent-ness I've noticed I have a lot of Capricorn traits along with Cancer an leo traits which makes me a pretty messed up person ahaha..

I'm cancer with leo rising & cap moon. Grabby as a crab, proud as a lion, and always calculating.

If anyone tells you you're too independent, fuck 'em 😉 It just means they can't handle you. It's hard when you're attracted to someone who is almost but not quite right, but better to be true to yourself and hold out for the person who thinks you're either just right, or just the right complement to their personality traits.

Your VG might be the kind who likes a woman in distress so he can play rescuer. It's nice sometimes to have someone to lean on in a crisis, but you don't want that as a way of life.

Posted by sandyclaws
I'm cancer with leo rising & cap moon. Grabby as a crab, proud as a lion, and always calculating.

If anyone tells you you're too independent, fuck 'em 😉 It just means they can't handle you. It's hard when you're attracted to someone who is almost but not quite right, but better to be true to yourself and hold out for the person who thinks you're either just right, or just the right complement to their personality traits.

Your VG might be the kind who likes a woman in distress so he can play rescuer. It's nice sometimes to have someone to lean on in a crisis, but you don't want that as a way of life.

Yeah.. Alot of people think he was just after something from me.. Plus he has a girl he likes in California who he cares about. I just wish he had never even asked to hang out with me, because even though I was just thinking it was as friends he still kissed me and was acting like he wanted more. SOO glad I didn't give in. Asshole.. Uhg I'm mad.

Thank you though.. It's good to have someone to relate to, my personality tears me apart sometimes.