why will a virgo hold on?

will a virgo man hold on for years to someone and continue being caring (but not that sweet and affectionate)if he doesnt have any feelings for the girl?? and WHY——? note: but this virgo havent confess YET verbally his feelings for the girl.......

Virgos have a caring nature. While we seem cold, sometimes we feel it is our duty to love.
With a Virgo, once, you're in, you're in. Unless you really fuck up.

guys... its been quite a while since i posted this... just to update u... last week... we slept together again and finally... i got the courage to tell him that i love him,... then he answered back that he loves me too... but thats the first time he said he loves me and he hasnt been telling me "i love u" till since then... i can feel that he is sincere with what he said but im just craving to hear it from him from time to time... and i guess that is not virgo's nature? and he is not that really sweet and affectionate except if we are in bed... i think he is just so afraid of public display of affection... well... is that virgo thing??

about his past relationships.... i didnt dare ask.... and he also dont open about it... actually... i dont know if how many girlfriends he had in the past... well... i think there's no reason in asking him anymore... im just afraid it might make him uncomfortable if i ask him about that.... this virgo guy of mine... he is just so secretive and discreet and conservative in some sense..... whoa

but how will i make my man open up his deepest feelings?? he do open up...but it only on the surface.... so any suggestions?

I personally am a virgo who will hold on. Not necessarily in relationships, but in aspects of life in general. There's something about letting go that seems like a cop out to me, or accepting defeat or whatever. I eventually let go when the better part of me knows I really need to, but that's just my point of view.

My thoughts exactly valeria...

how i wish my virgoman is like yours... passionate and affectionate... mine is not... and sometimes that results to.... me having insecurity...... haaay...

Posted by libradimple
how i wish my virgoman is like yours... passionate and affectionate... mine is not... and sometimes that results to.... me having insecurity...... haaay...

If you wanted passionate and affectionate all the time you should've looked for a Leo.

With a Virgo you'll--more often than not--have to wait until its just the both of you in between four walls. And even then it may not be much sometimes. But remember that, "A little goes a long way."

i agree with u amandus... well i just have to learn to be contented with what he has to offer.... i just have to overcome my insecurities and it sucks... u know whats running in my mind and what im stupidly feeling?? its when he is not sweet or showy to me....i felt like he is taking me for granted a bit... but thats studpidity i know... but how to overcome this stupidity of mine— lol

Just let the trust between you and him grow. And in time you will see the fruits.

thanks.... its the trust i have for him makes me stronger to this relationship.... faith....

Posted by Amandus
Just let the trust between you and him grow. And in time you will see the fruits.

What fruits do you refer to?

Certainly not any growing desire to "tell" her sweet things just for the sake of her ... because that would be nice thing to do .. you know, to make her FEEL special.

I agree trust is important. But, don't lie .. just because a Virgo trusts a person, this does not equal that the Virgo will suddenly grow passion.

Posted by P-Angelblockquote>

What fruits do you refer to?

Certainly not any growing desire to "tell" her sweet things just for the sake of her ... because that would be nice thing to do .. you know, to make her FEEL special.

No. I can't find the write words. Umm...hmm.

I meant her perspective on his "lack of affection" will begin to change.

To answer your question ......

A Virgo approaches a relationship like a business deal. It isn't about feelings .. it is about worth, value.

This is very similar to the Pisces in the aspect that the relationship doesn't have to be in real-terms (as other members of the zodiac measure relationships) .... they can live a lifetime in a union based on potential.

Posted by P-Angel

A Virgo approaches a relationship like a business deal. It isn't about feelings .. it is about worth, value.

This is very similar to the Pisces in the aspect that the relationship doesn't have to be in real-terms (as other members of the zodiac measure relationships) .... they can live a lifetime in a union based on potential.

Right.

"I meant her perspective on his "lack of affection" will begin to change."

I wouldn't counsel her on that, if I were you because it is unrealistic.

A person isn't likely to change how they inherenly express themselves .. especially not a Virgo who, by nature, is inclined to shrug off intimancy. I understand the aim is to help the girl, but, let's stay realistic.

Posted by P-Angel

I wouldn't counsel her on that, if I were you because it is unrealistic.

A person isn't likely to change how they inherenly express themselves .. especially not a Virgo who, by nature, is inclined to shrug off intimancy. I understand the aim is to help the girl, but, let's stay realistic.

You're right.

Forgive me libradimple. That actually wasn't very nice of me to say such a thing.

Wait a minute.

I'm readily admitting a fault. And it actually felt good.

amandus... u dont have to feel sorry... its okay... in some aspects i think ur right... though P also have some points...

Posted by P-Angel
To answer your question ......

A Virgo approaches a relationship like a business deal. It isn't about feelings .. it is about worth, value.

Sad to say, but the virgos i know are much like this. I guess this is where the

This is very similar to the Pisces in the aspect that the relationship doesn't have to be in real-terms (as other members of the zodiac measure relationships) .... they can live a lifetime in a union based on potential.

Then this really means that a pisces is much like a virgo, no real feelings just worth and value. You feelings are only measured by the worth and value of how much they weigh to you for the "moment".

I realized that virgos and pisces are both double standard. One will do one thing that they don't want their partner to do. I dont know if you agree that the signs are extremely simuliar but i do... They just take a slight different approach in order to express themselves.

Pisces will emotionally detach while a virgo will physically detach, and you know its the same type of detachment just expressed slightly differently.

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But, the world and people are too complicated to always fall into such categories...

Libradimple if i found cajuns post, a reason a virgo will keep tabs on people is for two reasons:

1. Use people.

2. Have sex with you.

Other than that you have no real meaning for the guy.

Don\'t think that all virgos are alike, nobody is a like, and the more you box yourself in the more you will begin to see people as units rather than people. Even after I began learning about astrology (love learning new information), i never took it to heart, and you shouldn\'t... People are much more alike then what people expect, and you probably just dealt with fucked people like all of us, ah well.

Funniest one is when people talk shit on scorpios, but i have met great scorpios, there just seems to be more shitty ones rather than great ones.

damn contradictions. People respond very similarly while others act differently. A good reason why astrology fails is because people can choose to act differently if they so pleased. I\'ve met romantic virgos, I\'ve met cold-hearted tyranical ones, I\'ve met snobby rich ones, I\'ve met wild ones, I\'ve met the druggy ones, I\'ve met the perfectionist, I\'ve met the players and so fourth... Same goes with all signs.

There is more to people than simple textbook traits...we all share the same shit, just some people happen to act upon one rather the other...

Do i make sense right now, NO!

Whatever i admit i never make sense...

back to the gutter with me.

thanks diamond and sorti..... upto when will i struggle... oh i love this guy so much that i want to give everything to him just to make him happpy... but his out side coldness.... somewhat is stoping me from doing things..sweetness etc... im not sure whether he'll likes it that is why...