VIRG GUYS..I NEED U!!!!

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aquarianbrat
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Me: aqua sun/taurus moon. Him: virgo sun/libra moon. Okay so my ex co-worker broke up with his girl and called me about a month later to tell me he was single now. So I have moved away since then but he kept my number for 4-months!! I live 600 miles away and he bothered to keep my number and call me! I know his ex, we all use to work together and she made him miserable every freak'n day!! Before I left when I would see him at work we would accidentally stare into each others eyes for long periods of time and neither would look away..it was like we couldn't. It would always happen! Does anyone believe in having a sense that someone is thinking about you or is yours and you don't know why or how but you just know? Well I had that feeling about him and still do. Everything was perfect since Thanksgiving then over New Years we had plans so I went back and was planning to spend the week with him. So we spent one night together and it was perfect!! We talked all night, drank a lil beer and made out til the sun came up..no sex. The next morning his phone was blowing up. Well I guess ole girl wrote him and said I called her! WTF! Why would I call her? So he asked me if I called her and I went straight off on him for even asking me that childish crap! Then he left and said he was going to go off on her. I txt him and said to forget it if this is how its gonna be. He never wrote back and I haven't really heard anything since then..I txt him a couple times..random stuff and he wrote back but nothing serious. He said he has a lot in his life he is unhappy about and he needs to figure that out. I wrote in one of the txt that I miss his amazing butt because I do! He wrote back..I don't have a butt. I wrote back something funny. He didn't write back. It's hard. Now I don't know what to do. I want to talk to him but I feel like there is this big wall up between us. HELP pls. He is mine!! I don't want to mess up anymore than I have. What should I do now? Let it go or call and try to talk it out OR wait til I'm home again and talk face to face? He is so happy when he is with me! But he still see's her everyday at work. But he is not happy with her I know it! I need virgoian advice please.
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P-Angel
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No drama does not follow you .... you bring it upon yourself.



This man is not yours .. he belongs to another woman.

Leave him the fuck alone.



The fact that you don't leave him alone and tempt him = your willingness to be the perpetuator of undue drama, not to mention hurt feelings.






Food for thought ..... if he would fuck her feelings over by hitting on you, then he would fuck YOUR feelings over by hitting on another.

However, much as Tiki preaches, usually to deaf ears regardless of its utter truth ..... you don't know that ^^^ and won't until it actually happens, much to your self-destruction that you think comes from him.
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aquarianbrat
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Maybe I wrote it wrong. He is single and I am single! I would never date a taken man. People brake up and the other person just has to get over it and obviously she can't. Whether its me or someone else..she can't make him happy. That has nothing to do with me. The relationship is just over. We have all been there. It hurts like hell but moving on is part of maturing. But I did ask for asked for VIRGO GUY'S help..in the subject line. Sorry I asked..sometimes I forget how bitter women are here!! I'm cancelling this post! Thank you P-Angel!