Virgo

I just stopped talking to this leo who I figured out wasn't right for me (veery complicated) and I ended up finding that once I fell head over heels with a Virgo sun sag moon Virgo Venus but what happens was I met him on his spring break the day before he was supposed to leave . And we hung out the night before very romantic. Very caring and always trying to make sure I was ok . Then we hung out the next day until he left doing the same thing . And that was like the most eye opening experience for me because unlike all my past relationships it's always been them bossing me around telling me to shut up and just being used for sex. But with him he was just very concentrated on making me happy which was beautiful. And since he left we had been texting everyday all day for 3 weeks and now I'm not sure what's happening. I think he still likes me but I think he's playing games now? At first I thought he was just busy so I was planning on letting him come to me which I lasted 3 days . But normally he's kinda a quiet not the social media type but all of a suddenly he stops talking to me he starts using snapchat for posting stuff on his story that's like of nothing instead of texting me back . Like I'll post a story then 5 min later he's seen mine then posted a story of his feet walking or of the tv or his meal and I feel like that's him trying to get him to sweat him maybe? I have no idea. One person I've told said That's what it seems like. Can someone help me lol.

Also I'm a Capricorn sun libra moon and rising and an Aquarius Venus

Social media is bad for relationships... go date an amish

How am I supposed to show him that he already has it? Idk why he would feel the need for that when I'm just waiting for a text back. And idkkkk it may just be that I don't think everything all the way through when I drop my Gaurd

Speaking as someone with a lot of experience with relationships that started with set end dates:

Be careful about idealising him based on what you saw in 1-2 days.

When you have something that has no future, you end up having no expectations, and will unconsciously just know to enjoy the now. That's what both of you did. That's how the dynamic can be so giving. It's pretty much a fantasy life. Understand that this is VERY different from meeting someone with immediate potential for anything long-term.

Fast forward 3 weeks... You are starting to get confused about his actions. Where is the caring and attentive guy? Who is this confusing, seemingly game-playing person? Well, they're the same... just that the both of you have a lot more worries and insecurities, and they are showing through actions.

Don't completely disregard the person he was, but definitely take note of the person he is NOW, because it is more likely the version you will continue to deal with.

Your right I always accidentally just fall in love every time I fall out of love. And it's been like this since I first got intrested in boys like there's alwayssss someone . I think it's all the libra in me.

Posted by Amani22

very romantic.

Very caring and always trying to make sure I was ok .

with him he was just very concentrated on making me happy which was beautiful.

You were wrong. You judged his actions/words wrong. He doesn't feel those things for you, nor cares.

So, admit you fucked up and all of this will go away, because then you'd realize that you made all this shit up in your head to satisfy your yearings.

Or, you can ignore that ^^ and continue to wallow in the misery of your self inflicted delusion ..... in which you likely created in your head because you're emotionally weak and need a crutch to lean on ... because if you were emotionally strong enough to carry yourself, then you wouldn't have made all that shit up.

You would have seen with clear eyes that he wasn't trying to make beautiful of your happiness, he wasn't romantic .. he was none of those things you see in your rose colored glasses.

He doesn't look like he wants to be a part of your fantasy, so do yourself a favor and step away from all of this.

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by Amani22

very romantic.

Very caring and always trying to make sure I was ok .

with him he was just very concentrated on making me happy which was beautiful.

You were wrong. You judged his actions/words wrong. He doesn't feel those things for you, nor cares.

So, admit you fucked up and all of this will go away, because then you'd realize that you made all this shit up in your head to satisfy your yearings.

Or, you can ignore that ^^ and continue to wallow in the misery of your self inflicted delusion ..... in which you likely created in your head because you're emotionally weak and need a crutch to lean on ... because if you were emotionally strong enough to carry yourself, then you wouldn't have made all that shit up.

You would have seen with clear eyes that he wasn't trying to make beautiful of your happiness, he wasn't romantic .. he was none of those things you see in your rose colored glasses.

He doesn't look like he wants to be a part of your fantasy, so do yourself a favor and step away from all of this.

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Noo... I mean I know when I've dreamed up things before... But 1.dont ever come at my life like that again. First of all there's been an actual agreement of the mutual feelings and talks about being together . What I'm asking for was just a simple confirmation of if he was playing or not. For you to sit here and try to belittle and embarrass me is beyond what I was asking for and what i deserved. I've been very realistic in my goals with him . I'm not expecting to marry and have children all I want is to know about typical Virgo behavior and the person before you did a good job of being conscious of the feelings I have towards this situation .

Your words were not appreciated.

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Posted by Amani22

very romantic.

Very caring and always trying to make sure I was ok .

with him he was just very concentrated on making me happy which was beautiful.

You were wrong. You judged his actions/words wrong. He doesn't feel those things for you, nor cares.

So, admit you fucked up and all of this will go away, because then you'd realize that you made all this shit up in your head to satisfy your yearings.

Or, you can ignore that ^^ and continue to wallow in the misery of your self inflicted delusion ..... in which you likely created in your head because you're emotionally weak and need a crutch to lean on ... because if you were emotionally strong enough to carry yourself, then you wouldn't have made all that shit up.

You would have seen with clear eyes that he wasn't trying to make beautiful of your happiness, he wasn't romantic .. he was none of those things you see in your rose colored glasses.

He doesn't look like he wants to be a part of your fantasy, so do yourself a favor and step away from all of this.

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Okay that was just uncalled for; give the woman a break! If you have something to say, put it in a constructive way or just keep it to yourself. There's enough negativity in the world without you adding to it.

@Amani22: from what I know, sag moons do love their independence and sometimes just disappear to wherever for a bit.

It's a little different with Virgos..I'm a girl so it'll be a bit different but I'm still a Virgo so it should be somewhat accurate. Virgos don't typically commit to relationships unless they're 100% sure that that's what they want.

Most virgos don't play around but that quality could come from a different part of his birth chart. I would assume that he's just taking his time to think everything through; he's basically evaluating what having you in his life would mean for him and how it would change, whether you would fit into it, etc

Just give him a few days.

Posted by TheEmpress
@Amani22: from what I know, sag moons do love their independence and sometimes just disappear to wherever for a bit.

It's a little different with Virgos..I'm a girl so it'll be a bit different but I'm still a Virgo so it should be somewhat accurate. Virgos don't typically commit to relationships unless they're 100% sure that that's what they want.

Most virgos don't play around but that quality could come from a different part of his birth chart. I would assume that he's just taking his time to think everything through; he's basically evaluating what having you in his life would mean for him and how it would change, whether you would fit into it, etc

Just give him a few days.

Thank you for not being rude lol . that's very helpful insight . Words like that help me and my over active assuming mind . I've been trying to come to terms with that doing my own research and that seems pretty on the dot. thank you!

Posted by CrosstownTraffic
you talked to him everyday for three and now he is on snapchat....hes playing games

Exactly my point . I texted him telling him to just let me know he's going Mia cause over paranoid and anxious and not knowing makes me irritable. But no