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Virgo and pda
I'm assuming Virgos with Leo moons are the only ones who'd be okay with it if they're on the receiving end.
I'm okay with holding hands and kissing them to show affection in public. More than that is too much.
Posted by Amandus
I'm assuming Virgos with Leo moons are the only ones who'd be okay with it if they're on the receiving end.I'm okay with holding hands and kissing them to show affection in public. More than that is too much.
And how about virgo sun/virgo moon?
Virgo sun mixed.
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Posted by Amandus
I'm assuming Virgos with Leo moons are the only ones who'd be okay with it if they're on the receiving end.I'm okay with holding hands and kissing them to show affection in public. More than that is too much.
And how about virgo sun/virgo moon?click to expand
I happen to have those placements. I realize my initial post made it seem like I have a Leo moon but I do not. I am a Virgo/Virgo and I was only assuming a Leo mooner would appreciate PDA if he was on the receiving end.
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Posted by Amandus
I'm assuming Virgos with Leo moons are the only ones who'd be okay with it if they're on the receiving end.I'm okay with holding hands and kissing them to show affection in public. More than that is too much.
And how about virgo sun/virgo moon?
I happen to have those placements. I realize my initial post made it seem like I have a Leo moon but I do not. I am a Virgo/Virgo and I was only assuming a Leo mooner would appreciate PDA if he was on the receiving end.
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I see... Thanks for clarification.
Posted by VirgowScorpiMoonVirgos like to keep it classy in public and that goes for both genders unless they have insecurity issues.
That's a sweeping generalization.
Virgos bitch, moan, complain and carryon to high heaven when other people lump them into one basket ... so don't be a fucking hypocrite.
That is YOUR view, exclusively.
The OP's avi is very classy, in a virgoan way.
Posted by Ixion120
Never thought I would see the day where I liked a P-Angel post but meh never say never lol.I generally keep the PDA tame...I am happily guilty of stealthily executed ass grabs tho. ^_^
Ass grabs? I'll take you then. Pretty please and thank you π
Posted by Palerio
The OP's avi is very classy, in a virgoan way.
Thank you π Scorpio here π
Posted by Amandus
I'm assuming Virgos with Leo moons are the only ones who'd be okay with it if they're on the receiving end.I'm okay with holding hands and kissing them to show affection in public. More than that is too much.
As a Virgo with a Leo moon - yes.
However Im still not a fan when people are grinding up on people or me. I dont mind the occasion butt slap or caressing or kissing but some things need to be left for the bedroom or house or car π
Just went on a second date with a Virgo last week and we were in the perfect position for him to give me a goodnight kiss (if he were interested) and it took like 15 minutes of awkward conversation (that he kept going) on my front doorstep before he actually laid on one me.
He texted that night and said "that was a great kiss by the way..." and I haven't heard from him since hahaha. That was a week ago today.
Judging by that, I would say, PDA is awkward for them for sure. I noticed he looked around quite a bit after the kiss, perhaps making sure no one was watching.
@CrosstownTraffic I didn't quite get it. Are u into pda or not?
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Posted by Amandus
I'm assuming Virgos with Leo moons are the only ones who'd be okay with it if they're on the receiving end.I'm okay with holding hands and kissing them to show affection in public. More than that is too much.
As a Virgo with a Leo moon - yes.
However Im still not a fan when people are grinding up on people or me. I dont mind the occasion butt slap or caressing or kissing but some things need to be left for the bedroom or house or car π
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my brother in law is a virgo with leo mars, libra venus/moon (dont know his rising though)
and he is into PDA big time. It has toned down over the years. thank goodness. lol
My virgo friend wouldn't even hold hands with his gfs a lot of the time in public.
Posted by QueenOfPentacles
How about virgo and public affection? Would like some insights here on that.
I don't often do PDA and always find it uncomfortable, until I met this Pisces we do PDA everywhere we go.
My dude does pda but with subtle touching like back, push hair behind ear, hand on leg if sitting down. Kind of like to let others know I'm claimed.
He's a Venus Leo
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Posted by QueenOfPentacles
How about virgo and public affection? Would like some insights here on that.
I don't often do PDA and always find it uncomfortable, until I met this Pisces we do PDA everywhere we go.
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What made you to change your behavior?
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Posted by QueenOfPentacles
How about virgo and public affection? Would like some insights here on that.
I don't often do PDA and always find it uncomfortable, until I met this Pisces we do PDA everywhere we go.
What made you to change your behavior?click to expand
Afte rI have developed a deeper connection wtih him, that no one has ever made me feel before.
Posted by SensitiveBlues
Posted by Greentea
My virgo friend wouldn't even hold hands with his gfs a lot of the time in public.
he wasn't really into them, it seems he's just playing, until he finds the "right" one
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Yep.
He didn't want other potentials to see him as being unavailable.
Posted by SensitiveBlues
you have to be a strong woman to handle rejection without it affecting you.i mirrored him and was very cold and most women do that
other women leave
only some women will try to break that...maybe pisces women can do it...
idk
for me it was a struggle.
Don't feel bad about it. He just wasn't the one. It's not about breaking anyone. It's about what you're willing to tolerate from someone and how you want to be treated. Some people just linger well past their expiration date, and if that's what they want to do, then their well just stupid amd a door mat.
Posted by QueenOfPentacles
How about virgo and public affection? Would like some insights here on that.
I was going to say, http://www.swimmingly.com/relationships/advice/a-definitive-ranking-of-types-of-pda-in-order-of-how-socially-acceptable-they-are/
and stop at #14 for Virgos. The sun sign is shy, not necessarily cold, and dislikes feeling like an attention grabber.
Especially for some of the shyer Virgos or quieter signs with Virgo Asc, PDA can be like:
Posted by SensitiveBlues
i guess that's the virgo drawidk im still trying to figure it out
without the expectations we would have been good friends
i messed up and went for a relationship, i should have friend zoned him
until he got more mature.
i knew he wasn't ready for a functional healthy relationship
but im a control freak
I don't know what virgo draw you're talking about, but ok.
Anyhow, you're main problem is you keep feeling sorry for yourself, stop that.
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Posted by Greentea
Posted by SensitiveBlues
i guess that's the virgo drawidk im still trying to figure it out
without the expectations we would have been good friends
i messed up and went for a relationship, i should have friend zoned him
until he got more mature.
i knew he wasn't ready for a functional healthy relationship
but im a control freak
I don't know what virgo draw you're talking about, but ok.
Anyhow, you're main problem is you keep feeling sorry for yourself, stop that.
really didn't you date one?
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Yes, so.... I didn't see this "draw"... I just loved him, and he loved me, we both knew it.
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Posted by SensitiveBlues
i guess that's the virgo drawidk im still trying to figure it out
without the expectations we would have been good friends
i messed up and went for a relationship, i should have friend zoned him
until he got more mature.
i knew he wasn't ready for a functional healthy relationship
but im a control freak
I don't know what virgo draw you're talking about, but ok.
Anyhow, you're main problem is you keep feeling sorry for yourself, stop that.
really didn't you date one?
Yes, so.... I didn't see this "draw"... I just loved him, and he loved me, we both knew it.
its a draw to own, claim, and possess completely
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Yes, we did...completely, and it was beautiful.
You make it sound like they're a possession to control though.
Guys, please talk to the topic- virgos and pda. When I felt myself like I need to know about your love life I will make another thread. I promise. π
With friends presence: No problem with hand holding, cuddling, kissing (no tongue.......... unless alcohol)
With no friends around: I got a Leo with Leo Moon to blush.
Posted by QueenOfPentacles
Guys, please talk to the topic- virgos and pda. When I felt myself like I need to know about your love life I will make another thread. I promise. π
Summed up. Virgo is going to be a gentleman in public. Like old fashioned, somewhat chaste. A Virgo in love, may pat you on the ass when no one is looking. How are Scorpios with PDA? Ya'll are so different
The virgo I was with didn't seem to have a problem with it. I was the one that was more reserved with it.
On one of our dates he reached out to kiss me outside a restaurant, so I met him with one..but he started to get too steamy lol, so I pulled away and started laughing.
When we parted, he called me and said he was enjoying our kiss, and wished it was longer...
But there was like a group of old people right next to us though, just staring!! Lol.
Anyway, can't judge people's sex life just by looking at them, even if you don't see any pda. They can be like animals let loose from their cage, once those doors close.
And yes, the ass grabbing or cupping is true!!
Posted by Greentea
Anyway, can't judge people's sex life just by looking at them, even if you don't see any pda. They can be like animals let loose from their cage, once those doors close.
QFT
Posted by Gennie
Posted by Greentea
Anyway, can't judge people's sex life just by looking at them, even if you don't see any pda. They can be like animals let loose from their cage, once those doors close.QFT
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What does QFT stand for?
Not up to date on this one....
I'am a Virgo and I can't stand for public display's of affection.
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Posted by Greentea
Anyway, can't judge people's sex life just by looking at them, even if you don't see any pda. They can be like animals let loose from their cage, once those doors close.QFT
What does QFT stand for?
Not up to date on this one....
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My boyfriend is Leo sun/Virgo moon and he is really really bad in public lol ΕHe loves PDA.. Touching, kissing, you name it.. He is def not shy in public.
Yes, leo venus could add to this a lot, because I know some virgo venuses and they're like... uhmm let's say an iceberg basically.
Posted by SensitiveBlues
Posted by Breeisme
I'am a Virgo and I can't stand for public display's of affection.
thats cause you haven't dated a crab
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Cancer's have never seemed to be able to keep my interest.
A good friend who is a Virgo craves pda from her often cheating Pieces bf. I think it's because it's will ensure security in that they look like a couple so other women can't hit on him.
I have Virgo in Venus but I think my Scorpio nature is what makes me crave it.
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I'am a Virgo and I can't stand for public display's of affection.
thats cause you haven't dated a crab
Cancer's have never seemed to be able to keep my interest.
Ouch
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Lol
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Posted by Q_AiryVirgo
Posted by Amandus
I'm assuming Virgos with Leo moons are the only ones who'd be okay with it if they're on the receiving end.I'm okay with holding hands and kissing them to show affection in public. More than that is too much.
As a Virgo with a Leo moon - yes.
However Im still not a fan when people are grinding up on people or me. I dont mind the occasion butt slap or caressing or kissing but some things need to be left for the bedroom or house or car π
my brother in law is a virgo with leo mars, libra venus/moon (dont know his rising though)
and he is into PDA big time. It has toned down over the years. thank goodness. lol
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Haha! Whats the most outrageous hes been? I think for me it was slapping some booty lol
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Posted by QueenOfPentacles
Yes, leo venus could add to this a lot, because I know some virgo venuses and they're like... uhmm let's say an iceberg basically.
iceberg huh?
pisces venus?
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Pisces? why pisces? I never mentioned pisces. I was about virgo venuses.
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Posted by QueenOfPentacles
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Posted by QueenOfPentacles
Yes, leo venus could add to this a lot, because I know some virgo venuses and they're like... uhmm let's say an iceberg basically.
iceberg huh?
pisces venus?
Pisces? why pisces? I never mentioned pisces. I was about virgo venuses.
i know you did not mention it.
just wanted your opinion on it bc some peoples virgo venus equals pisces.
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Oh I see I see.. My bad. For me it's not close to each other at all- pisces is high in the sky somewhere dreaming and virgo... well virgo is deep rooted in earth. I don't mean that deep rooted as a bad sign, but sometimes they truly lack the spark. Virgo venus people are those who are very caaaalm and collecteeed *chanting monk voice here*. Somehow those people leave me feeling alone and that they don't give a damn.
Posted by QueenOfPentacles
How about virgo and public affection? Would like some insights here on that.
Not into it. Not from my experience. They are individuals though. So there are exceptions.
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Posted by QueenOfPentacles
Yes, leo venus could add to this a lot, because I know some virgo venuses and they're like... uhmm let's say an iceberg basically.
iceberg huh?
pisces venus?
Pisces? why pisces? I never mentioned pisces. I was about virgo venuses.
i know you did not mention it.
just wanted your opinion on it bc some peoples virgo venus equals pisces.
Oh I see I see.. My bad. For me it's not close to each other at all- pisces is high in the sky somewhere dreaming and virgo... well virgo is deep rooted in earth. I don't mean that deep rooted as a bad sign, but sometimes they truly lack the spark. Virgo venus people are those who are very caaaalm and collecteeed *chanting monk voice here*. Somehow those people leave me feeling alone and that they don't give a damn.click to expand
what i will add more to this, that venus pisceans are tender, gentle and soft. They need affection, they need gentleness, they need to be shown that partner cares. Virgos not. It seems like virgos are doing more than perfectly without this and if it's possible their partner should avoid all those things as much as possible
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Posted by QueenOfPentacles
Yes, leo venus could add to this a lot, because I know some virgo venuses and they're like... uhmm let's say an iceberg basically.
iceberg huh?
pisces venus?
Pisces? why pisces? I never mentioned pisces. I was about virgo venuses.
i know you did not mention it.
just wanted your opinion on it bc some peoples virgo venus equals pisces.
Oh I see I see.. My bad. For me it's not close to each other at all- pisces is high in the sky somewhere dreaming and virgo... well virgo is deep rooted in earth. I don't mean that deep rooted as a bad sign, but sometimes they truly lack the spark. Virgo venus people are those who are very caaaalm and collecteeed *chanting monk voice here*. Somehow those people leave me feeling alone and that they don't give a damn.
what i will add more to this, that venus pisceans are tender, gentle and soft. They need affection, they need gentleness, they need to be shown that partner cares. Virgos not. It seems like virgos are doing more than perfectly without this and if it's possible their partner should avoid all those things as much as possibleclick to expand
Venus in pisces has a love in first sight quality but it can seem dreamy and not solid. Virgo appreciates the concrete.
But there is a virgo girl i know ...in private she needs affection etc. But not in public. But tender in private from what she says. She needs to be shown appreciation and love. But not in public. At home etc.
Virgo guys are extra solid. Or virgo men don't even understand their emotions. Or focus on the real.
J/K
I'm not reserved at all but I'm more...playful than lascivious in my pda.
Unless we're role-playing.
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How about virgo and public affection? Would like some insights here on that.