virgo and aries

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raerae2one8
@raerae2one8
12 Years

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I began a relationship with a virgo mam. , we fell in love with each other. I mean. I know i fell in love, and icould honestly feel his love. We neverord, but we were so close and getting closer. Neither one of us was looking for a relationship at tue time, but it felt so good. He has a crazy bm. Really nutz! He absolutely did not want her to find out becuz he knew what she would do. About a month ago, i did somethng that i shouldnt of. I talked to a suppose to be friend about mine and his relationship. She turned around and told somebody. Well it got back to him that i had said somethng i absolutely did not say. He was hurt and mad. But within a few days, he was talking to me and i think he realized i wouldnt say anything like that. Slowly we were on are way back to where we were. We live in a small town and some people knew about us. As a result of me making a mistake and confiding in someone that i shouldn't of, his bm found out. Plus she stole his phone and got into all our private messages. She went crazy for days. Posting horrible untrue things about me. Refused to let him see his kids.. calling me, threatening to beat me up (ya right,i would lay her out) anyway. The liea and things she was saying, and the grief she was causing him was horrible. He was upset and said things need to quite down, that this is what he didnt want to happen. So we decided to stop things for awhile, until she settled down.i was so crushed, but i couldnt put myself between him and his kids. Well, on fri. I was walking home and she pulled up, with her kids in the car.. yelling and scteaming . Saying i wrecked her family, they had been broke up 6 monyhs before i came in the picture. She said that she will never let my bf see his kids as long as we togwther, i said, how can you make your kids suffer, she saidshe didnt care if her kids suffer as long as him and i suffer. I mean, there was more said, including that she will come burn my hpuse down and shoot me in the head and blow my head off. I said some things i probably shouldn't of. Usually i would of just walked away, but she is hurting him and his kids. And anything i did say was the truth. She must of went up to his house screaming and crying around saying i stopped her and started in on her. That night i msg him on gb, and told him we needed to talk, shes been cutting me down for days, and i see how she a pathiclogical liar and i wanted to clear things up. Well, she musta told him some bs. All he said was this is the
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tiki33
@tiki33
19 Years10,000+ Posts

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I'm confused.

Why didn't you tell her you and her kids father had been broken up for 6 months? Did you tell her that you hadn't seen this man for months?

Either way you messed your situation up by blabbering on about your relationship with him to an outsider.

What was the point you where attempting to make by exposing your relationship? If your point was to make his kids mother angry, get into verbal altercations, create drama well you certainly did do that.

He's right though. Things must quiet down. You have to pull the reigns and get off the internet for while. Stop talking about him to others (if you are) and move on.

What is bm? Is that short for black man and are you Caucasion? I'm just trying to understand what you're saying when you say bm.
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raerae2one8
@raerae2one8
12 Years

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Bm is his kids mom. She is crazy and and causing all these problems. They have been broke up for months. She just had a nother mans baby. She cheated on him, and they broke up 6 months ago, bit yhings were bad for a year, hence, she got preg with someone elses baby. hope that clears things up. But he told people also. We both knew it wouod only be a matter of time before she found out.