virgo and loneliness

i always find that Virgos like loneliness or me time because we hate crowds well i do i really don't like too much people under me or having 2 much friends i prefer hanging out with people that are mellow like me. i think all that Virgos want is for people to understand them but that's really hard because people are so fake and superficial nowadays i guess that's why we are reserved because don't want our secrets spread around like some type of virus.


What do you other Virgos think about this.

I can agree with it, not sure if other Virgos will though.

I too HATE crowds and crowded places. Clubs are annoying, too many people, too close, too loud.
Not mellow at all.

We are introspective and thus, alone time is necessary. I love solitude, nature, peace and quiet.

that's wats up i thought i was tha only odd Virgo it seems wen Virgos act out of they nature they seem phony to me
and i dislike phony people its a waste of time in my opinion and i love my quite time i reflect and analyze so much dat its need for me to keep myself together i don't think all Virgos will agree with me but I'm glad their is another dats Virgo like me

thanks for ur feedback Cajun

yep all the Virgos I know like their space, peace, alone time. All of them.

I only know one Virgo who likes to party hard and its a female LOL. the men? very reserved but can be a lot of fun to be around....they just seem to need refuelling time 🙂

I like both. I'm never sure if I'm an introverted extrovert or the other way around. I think it's partly to do with maturity, too. I do think most Virgos love to get away from crowds and into the countryside, at times. But then, so do a lot of people!

I agree and disagree, as I view my Virgo.


He hates to be lonely ... when he is in need, he hates the thought of being alone and nobody there on the recieving end for him to feel secure that he is not alone .. hence: he loves the constitution of marriage.

He does hate when his personal time is invaded upon, though ... because he is a thinker and he does require a lot of personak space. As I said on a different thread, my Virgo cannot put himself in another person's place to see how life feels ... so, most of his personal space time thinking is spent trying to reason out why life is the way it is, especially pertaining to people and why they are.

His capacity for understanding other people is tremendous ... his time spent in sorting out this understanding of them is more than any other human being I've ever met, so I would have to disagree with the claim that it is in Virgo nature to think that people who are unlike him are fakers.

"all that Virgos want is for people to understand them but that's really hard because people are so fake and superficial nowadays i guess that's why we are reserved because don't want our secrets spread around like some type of virus."

You want to be understood .. but, view people as fake ... —??

A contridiction for it appears that it's your viewing of other people is not very understanding. To mistrust a person and have them be a spreader of your secrets is due to you being a bad judge of character before revealing your secrets to another person who is a gossip and a back-stabber .. it is an issue that is person specific, and not an indication of all people now-a-days in being fakers.

You have just conflated a personal experience in your life with a person and applied it across the board to say ...... ALL people who are not Virgo.

Thankfully, my Virgo isn't like that ..... like said previously, his capacity to understand people is tremendous.

He actually likes a social circle and has many friends in which he enjoys .... he wouldn't like them showing up on the doorstep unannounced because he is a private person .. but, he can appreciate all different personality types, not just the mellow ones, or ones that are just like him, as you propose .. he actually enjoys all his friends and their personalities.

"all that Virgos want is for people to understand them but that's really hard because people are so fake and superficial nowadays i guess that's why we are reserved because don't want our secrets spread around like some type of virus."

You want to be understood .. but, view people as fake ... —??

A contridiction for it appears that it's your viewing of other people is not very understanding. To mistrust a person and have them be a spreader of your secrets is due to you being a bad judge of character before revealing your secrets to another person who is a gossip and a back-stabber .. it is an issue that is person specific, and not an indication of all people now-a-days in being fakers.

You have just conflated a personal experience in your life with a person and applied it across the board to say ...... ALL people who are not Virgo.

Alot of people will say butter just to get to know you in order to understand a person u have to communicate right you wouldn't know a person is a gossip or a backstabber until u get to kno their nature as a human being people put on many fronts and faces like a show and hide things u have 2 find things out and for fakers u wont kno they're one until they lie or do something phony and 2 faced. i was taking about a Virgo nature when it comes to people and how we view trust and being reserved because Virgos are sensitive at times. Virgos are puzzles.

lol...

I am Virgo female and maybe I am going thru a phase cause while I like laid back...it's not all the time...only with that special person. If someone is too laid back or the environment is too laid back I would be bored to death. Right now, I am the life of the party and if I want to be alone, I must be depressed or broke lol.

Man oh man *shakes your hand*

i feel the same, as i had a many types of friends, but i always come back to the ones that like to sit back with me. Could just be that stoner mentality. Not even sure, but they dont start problems - well sometimes

-"all that Virgos want is for people to understand them but that's really hard because people are so fake and superficial nowadays i guess that's why we are reserved because don't want our secrets spread around like some type of virus."-

Blah o well if they dont understand me, you can only do so much. Nah im reserved, because most people can be so stupid where i live/lived. I also judge people a little to much, but its like a "i expect the worse of them" and become surprised each time. lol a lot of people are fake though - this is true - hard to find someone "themselves". double lol to not spreading my secrets! i dont want people knowing how i cook my eggs and taste so good after.

at first i didnt agree with P, but then i really read through it and this is also very similar to how i act. Only thing upside down, is i dont see anyone anymore really. BUT I USED TO ALWAYS! then it was, because my friends couldnt stand being around each other anymore - so here i am, back to games by myself. Lol and as long as i have like a 15 minute warning and have time to clean myself up, i dont mind them coming over :p - just might be Extra quiet and i dont know what to do.
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He actually likes a social circle and has many friends in which he enjoys .... he wouldn't like them showing up on the doorstep unannounced because he is a private person .. but, he can appreciate all different personality types, not just the mellow ones, or ones that are just like him, as you propose .. he actually enjoys all his friends and their personalities.
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You learn a lot more about people, with different assortments. its like... having a science book, ok you learned science, but if you also know the math behind it all youll understand it more. more books and subjects the better understanding overall you have of things. except history... i dont like to think about the past :p

even people that picked on me, became my friends. trusting is hard, but unless its a relationship with a girl its not to hard... easy to spot the people you cant tell your secrets to.

maybe this is what is meant by not understanding a virgo...