Virgo females very unreliable

My best friend since fourth grade has to be the most unreliable person I have ever met in my life and that really says something.
I don't know why, and she doesn't either, because even she admits is. Aren't virgos supposed to be reliable people? Jesus Christ.

Posted by everlynn
Unreliable in what way? Not to sound nasty but i wouldn't want nobody to rely on me for shit. Rely on yourself.

Well back a long time ago, I moved, and I called her every single day for an entire year and she called me once, and kept promising she'd call.we were 11 but still.

And then once we partnered up for a project, and someone else asked her and she felt bad saying no so I ended up doing it alone.
After that I got mad and decided I'm not bothering with her crap anymore (because that wasn't the first time and in several occasions she's screwed me over as a friend) and she literally stalked me and I know this because I once found a notebook where she wrote down my every move and everything I said as her plan to "get me back"
For the past year We've been making plans to hang out...every time she will not message me back for like a week and it's already too late.

And this fucking time, we decided to try to make our dreams come true together with music, and I got mad because she kept not responding and I said "if you don't want it Heidi, fine, I will find someone else but I need you to tell me because I don't not want to waste the little time I have left" and she kept saying she really wanted to and this is what she really wanted, and fucking keeps not putting in any effort or showing any sort of responsibility, or any port of god damn work ethic and I'm done

Posted by starwars
no we aren't supposed to be reliable

I've also been friends with a Virgo female since elementary school. She's always been pretty reliable but she has her moments.

My main issue with her is she has never apologized to me for anything. (I'm a Cancer) like we've definitely butted heads a few times... And I'd always be the one to apologize. Kinda irks me.

And she's very bossy. Lol

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Posted by everlynn
Unreliable in what way? Not to sound nasty but i wouldn't want nobody to rely on me for shit. Rely on yourself.

Well back a long time ago, I moved, and I called her every single day for an entire year and she called me once, and kept promising she'd call.we were 11 but still.

And then once we partnered up for a project, and someone else asked her and she felt bad saying no so I ended up doing it alone.
After that I got mad and decided I'm not bothering with her crap anymore (because that wasn't the first time and in several occasions she's screwed me over as a friend) and she literally stalked me and I know this because I once found a notebook where she wrote down my every move and everything I said as her plan to "get me back"
For the past year We've been making plans to hang out...every time she will not message me back for like a week and it's already too late.

And this fucking time, we decided to try to make our dreams come true together with music, and I got mad because she kept not responding and I said "if you don't want it Heidi, fine, I will find someone else but I need you to tell me because I don't not want to waste the little time I have left" and she kept saying she really wanted to and this is what she really wanted, and fucking keeps not putting in any effort or showing any sort of responsibility, or any port of god damn work ethic and I'm done

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Um, when are you going to figure out that she's not your friend? She's been screwing you at every turn since...11. At some point you simply need to stand on your own and walk away.

Haha I don't have one 🙂

And I've also moved 4 hrs away lol

And.... We never like the same guys lol

I don't think you are done.

Your energy is still full steam ahead enough to make a thread so you could keep talking about it ... those actions don't describe done.

However, maybe writing them down (typing) to read over is enough for the light to go off in your head *see @beautifulsoul74 ...... this alleged friendship is one-sided, and it's time to pop the bubble in where she looks worthy of you.

We all must face it, and downsize our people who have worn out their part in our lives ..... look to the horizon, more people are coming

As for topic ..... my Virgo is very reliable. In fact, he's the most dedicated person I've ever met, and his word/intent is quite cemented in honor.

He says what he means, and he means what he says ... he has never let me down, or forsaken me.

Lol we just chatted on the phone for 2 hrs 🙂

Yup, ime, Virgos are there for you only when convenient for them. I have known many Virgos who lose contact once they move.
When they are around, can be so "close".

Have you asked what she had going on during her times when you feel like she's let you down?

Perhaps what is important to you is not necessary as important to her. Perhaps like this other girl who needed a class partner she doesn't want to let you down by being as honest as she should be about her feelings towards your projects together. While she should be honest if that's the case it's hardly something worth throwing away a friendship for.

As for the texts, well, I am also notorious for putting those on the back burner. Not because I don't want to respond. Mostly because I don't know what to say at that particular moment or I have something more important going on which I need to concentrate. And sometimes just because I forget.

*shrugs*

We're all human. If these examples are enough for you to end the relationship though, then maybe it wasn't strong enough to begin with.