virgo women breaks off relationship

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by zoe gonzales on Monday, May 30, 2016 and has 12 replies.

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@zoe gonzales
11 Years

hello virgoans & hi peeps who are related with virgoans☺ I got a dissatisfaction abt my virgo girl & I need your explanations, opinions or experiences regarding with the situation I've went thru recently.

Me & my virgo girl hv been together for almost 3 yrs. We have our happy times and rough times. The rough times is when she is ignoring me & I didnt get the signal shes sending me. We always having endless arguments that it takes a long time whos the first to raise up the white flag.

Recently my girl was pressured with her family & work life. I try to get her attention but she's mad, say something that pushing me away & act like didnt want to remain contact with me. Iwas mad too...so I give her a break for about a week, I wait until she get me back but in the end, I was the one who make the first move. To my surprised she's begging for a breakup, that so sudden?! The reason is bcuz she no longer can handle the burden of the family, work and me. Also blaming me for not trying to meet her up during the one week break. I was like wth?! It so unlogical to me coz she didnt seem like have planned to break up with me before...shes warm, happy on the time we last met & have set plan to go for vacay together in the next month. But why? 😭

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@zoe gonzales
11 Years

I was so emotional when she's begging me to let her go. I say no, dont u love me? How about memories & efforts we made together for this relationship? But she reply harshly saying I'm tired of all this. I just cant control myself until I dont reply and leave her begging just like that without giving the answer "yes". What should i do? I still love her, I still want to carry on my life with her¢

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by zoe gonzales
I still love her, I still want to carry on my life with her¢

I really have no clue what more this woman can do to make you let her go...I assume the only reason she hasn't fucked your father/brother yet to make it sink in for you is that you would probably say you're sorry catching them into the act and closing the door softly behind you. And then you'd wait for her in the kitchen to tell her you got these amazing tickets for a concert.

Jesus Christ get some fucking dignity.

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@TaurusBull1977
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Damnata
Posted by zoe gonzales
I still love her, I still want to carry on my life with her¢

I really have no clue what more this woman can do to make you let her go...I assume the only reason she hasn't fucked your father/brother yet to make it sink in for you is that you would probably say you're sorry catching them into the act and closing the door softly behind you. And then you'd wait for her in the kitchen to tell her you got these amazing tickets for a concert.

Jesus Christ get some fucking dignity.

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@zoe gonzales
11 Years

Hi DanceWithMeLightly, yes I am a leo☺

I ever ask her before if she ever think of how I feel/how I'm gonna went thru this when she set her mind for breakup? She say yes, she knew I dont like it...so do her; tho to me she's just selfish for didnt notify me first before making up decision.

I was wondering dear, what can I do to make her think twice of her decision...not totally changing her mind tho. Just subtle way, so it doesnt look like forcing.

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@zoe gonzales
11 Years

after cut the ties, did she ever reminiscing of me? Like the times when shes not busy or before sleep? Did she ever got flashback of memories behind every specific dates like birthday, anniversary...or specific things and places. Coz we're living in the same village not far away, and we've make memories alot in this place :')

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@zoe gonzales
11 Years

I feel sorry for ur loss of the person u really loved dear. Virgo to me seems strong, not so emotional & might be strong enough to carry on living day by day. I guess she might be enjoy now, moving on...or just pretending. Idk. When we're still together, we too love each other so hard...neither us both cheating wirh someone else. I always be there for her when shes having rough times with family or work, I stay with her when she's admitted to hospital. Maybe i didnt done much coz u know, virgo is very hi standards. I just message her just now, saying apology & best of luck with her next life and can we be friends.

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@balblair
10 Years

Let her go, she will come back to you

Just give her some space to miss u.....

3 yrs she wouldn't throw that all away.

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@zoe gonzales
11 Years

hey Balblair...are u sure by that way will works? I dont mean my virgo girlfriend is being cold or giving silent treatment for a while, but she is leaving me permanently.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by balblair
Let her go, she will come back to you

Just give her some space to miss u.....

3 yrs she wouldn't throw that all away.

Are you a Virgo? If so...why are you urging him to go after her? Does him being manipulative fly over your head?

It's BECAUSE it takes a lot for us to actually want to leave...that I'm pretty sure her decision is made and she just can't get herself rid fast enough of this clingon.