Virgo & Gemini - really strange affair...

So, I'm a gemini, probably the epitome of flighty, indecisive, bipolar gemini) and I always seem to have a strange attraction to Virgo men. I met this guy last week, who turned out to be a Virgo & we got on REALLY quickly.. like clicked straight away. The next few days were quite a blur. We live near each other (at the same college) and spent most of the days hanging out, talking, finding weird similarities in one another. Then last night, we went back to mine. We didn't sleep together but messed around a bit. Firstly, I thought Virgos were meant to be quite 'direct' about sex? My other Virgo friend told me that, but he keep *HINTING* at it rather than saying anything. Secondly.. out of nowhere he says. This is too close for me, I need to leave. So he got up and left the house. 4 days of really weird connection thing and then nothing. Funny thing is, I felt the same. I don't know what to do - does this mean he's not interested & was politely leaving.. or does he have other things on his mind? We're both quite 'detached' and didn't really do the complimenting thing, but I was expecting him to say SOMETHING at least. It moved a little too fast.

It seems like some Virgo males can be fiercely blunt about everything, except how they truly feel.

I don't want to push him, as I hate clinginess, but I'm just veryyy curious to know what's going on 🙂

Now what? One nightstand figure starts complaining too..?

Geeeezz.




And ohh, stop defaming Gemini people for your excessive sexual hormones

Jesus, that post was useless.
Where did I insinuate Gemini's were excessively sexual? Did you confuse the phrase flighty & bipolar with 'overwhelming libido'?


I'm just intrigued to know what the case may be.

I'm hardly complaining, nor am I pining. I probably wouldn't even care if he disappeared off the face of the earth.



"but I'm just veryyy curious to know what's going on"

Sounds like the classic case of "push and pull" to me.

Ya'll got too close for him, his emotions ran amok and he had to get them in check, before he did something with someone who is untested (yet to prove themselves true to him).

Wow. I'm so glad I've entered the realms of astrology. If I hadn't had such knowledge, I'd probably take it realllyyyy personally and send him a whingey text message. Dislike being pushed away when I can't find reasons for it, yet most hypocritically.. I do the exact same to people!

What does this testiness involve? Like trying to prove to him how 'worthy' of his attention I am/am not?

I am getting quite irritated with Gemini's of late ... it appears at ALL of you just completely ignore what you refuse to acknowledge. It's like you have a certain agenda in place and anything that isn't in accordance with what you want, you absolutely refuse to acknowledge. Ok, maybe it was unfair to say ALL Gemini's ... but, damn close to all.

Here's an example of this ignorance I am referring to ...


You would say as an afterthought after your description of events ..

"It seems like some Virgo males can be fiercely blunt about everything, except how they truly feel."

Which means in your mind, he must feel something other than what he said. You want him to feel something other than this ... so, you have yourself believing that he hasn't revealed to you how he truly feels.



He told you what he felt, Gemini, he said ...

"This is too close for me, I need to leave. So he got up and left the house."


That's how he feels .... he needs to seperate himself from being that close to you, and so he told you, he did it, and now he is keeping his distance between you.

Nah. It wasn't really a case of not revealing how he truly feels.


I didn't really want an outpouring of emotion, nor did I expect it. It just seemed he was quite blunt about everything else but concerning me and our really bizarre three day thing he was quite silenced on matters. Not that I was really opinionated myself.

Having looked through these topics on Virgo 'distanceness', it seems to have cleared a lot of 'issues' up. I didn't really know quite what I was looking for. Ho hum.

And now, I can move on. Curiosity satisifed.

This is too close for me, i need to leave

***** immediately exists stage left






Sounds pretty fucking blunt to me.