virgo girl and aqua girl- this shit insane

So im a virgo and my head is spinning, this aqua girl i met almost 2 months ago has me for a loop. She is everywhere but nowhere if that makes sense. I feel like at times she is really into me and at times im just another person of no meaning. We had sex and it was out this damn world. She told me that I was special and that i just wont give up..but personally i am drained. I cant figure this girl out i feel like she is playing head games.. I want to spend time with her but she always has an excuse.. She also talks to me about a lot of the problems she has going on and i have helped her, but i feel like i dont want to do that anymore because things for me are getting deep but what about her... Im all over the place and i dont like feeling uncertain about things. I also feel like she is lying about a lot of stuff it just doesnt make any sense. I feel like she has multiple relationships with other people, and she just lies. Maybe the fact that she is only 20 and im 30 and i just see things differently. Any advice or help would be appreciated.

Spiderweb sex, you got caught! I don't have advice, but I hope the "wise ones" will pitch in & give you something great 🙂

I would just relax. You've only been "friends" for about 2 months. I feel like this girl isn't wanting a serious relationship. She's young and dumb. It sounds like you have been put in the friend zone. She's using you as a shoulder to cry on. I think you should go on about your business.. If she eventually calls you up telling you how much she misses you, tell her everything you did here. Ex: feel like shes playing games, unsure of where you two stand.

I feel your pain. But I have to laugh. This is the same type of stuff women torture us men with all the time.

I hope you find some common ground to which to build on, though in my experience women nevr retrace their steps all in the belief that what is behind them is better off behind them.

Spiderweb sex--- LOL - I guess your right... and young and dumb would be exact... Man i cant handle the game anymore old age really has set in

Aqua's oh sweet Aqua's...they are hard ones for us Virgo's. My suggestion presex would have been hold out & be their bestest friend first. Move slow. You've already gone there with the sex so my only suggestion now would be to build the friendship, sit back, and let them lead the way. Put sex on the back burner until you know they really want more than friendship with you only. If you can't sit back then move on because I do know how our Virgo patience wears thin...and Aqua's will give you a run for your money.

Also, know that the friendship could take a couple years to build (hence sit back). I'm going through this now with an Aqua male & we've been friends for a year (no sex) & are just now starting to move towards dating. It's super slow but in my case he's shown me he's worth the wait so I take my time. I give him space but also let him know I'm thinking of him by sending funny texts to keep thing light & airy. I don't crowd him. I have found this keeps him coming back for more & more of my time. They like witty humor so use it. Have intellectual conversations they like that. Most of all don't push them or they'll run...they'll run very fast in the other direction. Good luck! Keep us posted!

beautiful virgo ... you already know how hard it is to be patient... but im trying. Yes the sex wow was amazing and i could definatly put it on the back burner.. for now i have focused my time on work and other things so if my aqua beauty wants to talk she knows where to find me... For now as you suggested play it calm an cool ... thanks for the advice...