Virgo Girl trying to get over Virgo Guy

Virgo guy continues to break Virgo gal heart. It's so hard when you are being rejected. Does he know? or does he care? I don't know. I just want the pain to go away. I just don't want to care anymore. I wanted him to want me ??_but he doesn't. This Virgo guy is so damaged. A womanizer — destroyed his marriage because he was a cheater. Our relationship never really started. Each time when I thought we were getting closer??_he would do something, flirt openly on the computer so I can see, to get me to back off. Last week it started again, another girl, on the computer, hanging out with her. Me, being the Virgo gal??_just take it all in stride. Not saying anything??_showing no emotion but its killing me. The rejection is killing me. I won't go down this road with him again, but I wish I can fast forward my feelings.

You obviously have no pride whatsoever ... and will fawn after a guy to whom you know is a piece of shit ..... that makes you an idiot.

I see no reason to tell you anything else. You aren't being played, you aren't being used, you aren't having anything done to you by another person .... the only thing happening here is that you are being a fool to yourself in closing blind eyes, I guess because you must be too emotionally weak to make a stand for the sake of yourself.

I have zero patience for stupid people. You weren't born a cow or a frog .. you were actually born with a mind .. try using it.

LMAO - WOW I'm glad I'm not a sensitive Virgo - that would make me want to kill myself... an idiot? a fool? emotionally weak? stupid? Why so harsh—?

Posted by SuperVirgoWoman
Each time when I thought we were getting closer??_he would do something, flirt openly on the computer so I can see, to get me to back off. Last week it started again, another girl, on the computer, hanging out with her.

He wants out.
You still want in.
No confusion here.

He cheated on his last marriage...
...And you thought you could 'fix' him...psychoanalyze him as 'damaged'
Perhaps a Virgo's need to'fix' things...
Who knows.

-SuperVirgowoman
I don't think he wants to be 'fixed.'

A cheater is a cheater...

If it walks like a duck, talks like a duck, acts like a duck you better not sit there and call it a bear.

If he's left a trail of tears & bleeding hearts from other women he's cheated on, then you better have in the FRONT of your mind that he has potential to do the same to you too. You're walking on thin ice being interested in this guy my friend...better yet, you're playing with matches & gasoline. It's actually a good thing you can't catch him...he's rejection is for YOUR protection.

I care enough to say, please be careful. Please.

I needed to hear all of this (smh) especially from "Planet Neptune"..talk about tough love..lol

I was very naive to think I was different. But all of you are correct - Need to let sleeping dogs lie - to get out before serious damage is done.

Thank you for your encouragement...I was very hurt on Friday ..but you know us Virgo women....

"Time heals are wounds"

I needed to hear all of this (smh) especially from "Planet Neptune"..talk about tough love..lol

I was very naive to think I was different. But all of you are correct - Need to let sleeping dogs lie - to get out before serious damage is done.

Thank you for your encouragement...I was very hurt on Friday ..but you know us Virgo women....

"Time heals are wounds"

I will give you that but I have never hurt anyone on purpose. I have never cheated on anyone but yes, I can see myself doing it. I'm a very straightforward person and quick to express my unhappiness and willingness to move on. Typical self centered Virgo. Which is why I was hurt, I expect to be treated the same way. If you don't want me, move on. But I honestly believe this Virgoguy was a coward who instead of moving on preferred to hurt me with his juvenile behavior. My mistake was running from him instead of standing up to him. The more I ran the more he chased. I now know I must stand still.