Virgo female and Virgo male

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by FemalVirgoExtreme on Monday, May 16, 2011 and has 9 replies.

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@FemalVirgoExtreme
15 Years

I'm just going to throw this out there. I'm confused and curious. I'm a Virgo female, and from what I've read about it, it's spot on for me. My problem is that I've been in a long term relationship with a Capricorn man. Things work well, but the "love" is just not there. I've recently started talking to an old friend from school. (not old boyfriend to be clear) He is a Virgo male. We have great conversations and pretty intense flirting. He is not attached to anyone and he knows that I am. I feel him pull away sometimes when things have gone well for us, it always throws me off. We don't stress any of our differences, we dismiss them. I'm wondering if, he is generally interested in me and if this is something I should persue? I mean I'm typical Virgo female and LOVE is what I want. Any advice or concerns would be appreciated.

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@BoomShakalakaBoom
15 Years5,000+ Posts

Hi there,

If the "Love is not there" with the cap anymore as you said, I think its time to make some hard decisions, staying with someone only because it feels safe is just lying to yourself..and to the cap. Its not a good idea to try and find out first whether the Virgo guy really feels you before you decide ditching the cap or not, it should be the other way around for everyone's sake here.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

To flirt with another man with intentions of attempting to secure an emotional bond, while in a current relationship is emotional cheating.

You're cheating on the Cap .... emotionally.