Virgo guy driving me crazy!!

I'm capricorn and I've been dating this virgo guy just for a couple of months. But I knew him for two years before we dated. He was always someone I trusted and sometimes confided in. So when we began dating everything was great. We were like soulmates. We understood each other and had a great connection. Then little by little I noticed how he would always flirt with women infront of me. But not in an obvious way but I could pick up something! And I hated it. He's also very sexual. Which is so unnatural to me at this point. When he found that I hadn't done it yet, he couldn't believe it. But anyways!lol. He kept on trying to succeed. And I got so fed up I broke up with him. BUT he sometimes pretended like everything was okay and we were still together! I didn't understand at all! When a guy would ask for my number, he would be up in my face. But eventually he realized that he was only hurting himself.
So now we are officially over, but this man will not give up. I'm telling you it's like he doesn't care about me, as long as I'm his, everything is just great!
His friends would call me and ask what I did to him because he's not being himself. He's withdrawing and not talking to anyone. And then this is were we began talking again. He's forever telling me howmuch he loves me. Always. But the thing is he wasn't in it when I was. I gave it my all from the beginning but he just wasn't in it. Now that I'm gone, all of a sudden he cares. He's so into christianity now and reading the bible.
He asked me to give him another chance. Which is just impossible. I mean what's done is done.

BUT= he wants to remain friends. He's always trying to be there for me even though I'm always pushing him away. Sometimes I feel like I'm cursed. When I tell him it's best we're not friends, he goes on about the bible and how it's the christian thing to do! He's apparently trying to change.

BUT, despite all of this, I still care. Not as much as I used to...but even though, he did make me happy sometimes...and we always talked about our kids names and stuff. I KNOW it's weird to be doing that at 19, he's 26...but it felt right. And there's a part of me that is sorry we broke up.
BUT he only listens when it suites him. I've had to say NO a couple of times so he could get it into his head that I didn't wana do it. He has this attitude when he wants something, it's like nothing matters.

My question is, would you give him another chance?and why?if not,state why aswel

He only wanted you at arms length so he could keep his options open = to say you two are together and then flirt with other women openly


Untiil he found out you were a virgin ... now he wants to have bragging rights



For a man to suddenly claim they are christian and start reading the bible because he thinks this will get you .. isn't real .. it's being a pretender, it's manipulating you into thinking he is somethign that he is not.



The man he is lei, is the man you saw before everything went down ... the man you see now that is trying to fool you with false presentations is only pretending to be this man because he wants a virginal kitty to call his own.

Thanks guys...I just needed to seriously hear this from someone.
I should seriously ask him that hey?@wgamador...that is a valid point. Which let me see things in a different light...

P-Angel, you are right...idk y I didn't see this before.

Hi leilaxxlovez, saw your post at cap/aqua cusp board, you born 19 jan ? i born 20 jan lolxx .. i dated a virgo too.. btw, a man always deserved 2nd chance. Depends if you love him .. lolx .. If he doesn't change, don't wait. Just go on. .. Don't let him get you virginity so soon.