So he just wanted sex from me??

Uhg I'm so freaking confused.. Not sure if I should be extremely pissed or.. what??
Like Okay My virgo Guy and I have had feelings for each other for a while, as I said in my other post.. nd than he left to anotehr state for school, to the school I'm going to in a few months, and met a girl there. I guess things didn't work out with the girl completely, he says he is confused because of all the amazing girls out there.. whatever but the fact that when eh came up to visit he was trying to kiss me and do stuff yet (didn't let him get far. SO glad.) but the fact that he was trying confuses me since he told me after we had kissed a bit and he had tried to go far, but I told him Absolutely heck no not budging we are not going any farther because we are not dating, and he said he can't realisticall date me because I'm too independent.. but I wasn;t that independent.. I just let him have space.. i didn't call all the time or things like that because I wanted to see how he felt first.. I didn't just want to jump into things because I've been hurt and I knew he was still unsure about wanting to be in a relationship. So if he couldn't see us realistically dating why even bother kissing me?! I told him that I didn't mind just being friends that we should just hang out as friends and yet he still put the moves down. I don't get it.

what's there to get? you have a vagina.

Theres alot to get. As in you cant just get sex from someone you consider a friend. Unless you both mutually agree with that. obviously.

i stand corrected. vagina AND boobs.

Posted by Cancerleo32
he said he can't realisticall date me because I'm too independent..

Maybe you have your crap so together, he has nothing to fix lol

Points to him for tenacity. Why are you confused exactly that he tried? We are often attracted on a physical level to friends, it's in our nature to test boundaries. You did state you've feelings for each other. I don't fault you for wanting more than a fling, just not understanding the reaction.

Ah actually I found the reason out. Aha he was just after sex. Just playing with me.. all excuses.
So no more worries.. as no longer talking to him. Bleh.

Posted by Cancerleo32
Uhg I'm so freaking confused..

So if he couldn't see us realistically dating why even bother kissing me?!

nothing confusing..
it's called friends with benefits.
being a virgo.. i do that... er Did. when I was single.
even when I didn't see myself being in a relationship with that person(or dating)
If u let me, I'll take it . . . . . with no guilt

Points to you Cancerleo for standing by your decision.

me about it lol

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Posted by ArianPride

LOL yep. Friends with Benefits all the way, except the "other" person always gets emotionally needy/involved/ so that's when the drama comes in!! 😛

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