Virgo natives search constantly for worthy goals to pursue. Self-perfecting individuals, who are punctual and reliable, those ruled by this Sign frequently reside alone, feeling that nobody could possibly wish to live with someone who is not yet perfect enough. In addition, they are often their own worst critics and aim for the highest standards. There is an innate sense here to quickly discern when something is amiss and there will be no rest for anyone until order has been restored. Virgo individuals tend to "nag" somewhat, but that is truly only an indication of the affection these natives have for the object of their "nagging." Basically shy and modest, those governed by this Sign are prone to hide their deep sensuality behind a rather cool and critical exterior. Nonetheless, these are friendly souls...albeit somewhat reserved and thoughtful...who can display flashes of gregariousness and are attractive to the opposite sex. Virgo is the sign of abundance, but its natives always appear to have to work hard to attain it. They are excellent organizers who like to keep lists, collect meticulous details and are often "faddy" regarding food. There is also a tendency to worry about health. Being superbly adaptable, Virgo natives can turn their hand to almost anything and may easily become skilled to masterly levels. However, the typical Virgo is likely to work incognito. Over and above any other Zodiac Sign, it is probably those who governed by Virgo who insist upon being treated with respect. They admire dignity and itellect, and the surest way to win the esteem and confidence of these individuals is to pay court to their intelligence. Blessed with a fine sense of honor, they will never betray a trust but are adept at discovering disagreeable facts and will not be averse to divulging them...particularly if there is a personal point to be gained. Once a Virgo native looses confidence in another, it is hard for that individual to regain it.
Although possessed with the ability to sum up a situation or person at a glance, Virgo subjects are likely to keep their own counsel. Those who are well-acquainted with Virgo natives will love them for their fairness, but to those who will never come close to knowing the Virgo subject, he or she will always remain an enigma...a man or woman of mystery. The basic outlook here is slanted toward practical considerations in every facet of daily life. Hidden beneath the quiet and modest surface, however, is a deep-seated des
ire for emotional expression of an intensely dramatic nature. Thus, Virgo individuals who participate in the Arts...particularly the theater...find immense happiness and release in this outlet for their inner selves. Capable of generous and unselfish friendships, those ruled by Virgo are apt to withdraw within themselves on occasions and leave others guessing. Some people may be frightened by the inherent Virgo tendency to fault-find, but these natives can also give praise and their judgment is usually highly valued. Virgo natives are generally mild-tempered souls, but can be fussy and fretful about minor irritations and may inwardly seethe over major ones.
Travel is inevitable for Virgo natives, given that Mercury is their "guiding star." Indeed, there are probably more Virgo subjects far from their native habitat than can be found in any other Sign. Thus, these individuals tend to do well in any career which takes them abroad and away from their homelands. Nevertheless, there will always remain a romantic love for the country of birth. On the surface at least, those governed by this Sign may well be perceived as the most calm and level-headed of the Zodiac as well as being the most likely to react quickly to danger. Most individuals ruled by Virgo are by nature acquisitve, gathering possessions and money, and saving hard for a rainy day. Impeccable, methodical, studious and quick to learn, Virgo natives should follow their star by being true to themselves in all things. To attain true happiness, they should never settle for second best.
At their most negative, Virgo natives can be pessimistic, depressed or even destructive. They are blessed with powerful creative drives, but such drives are often handicapped by the need to control and perfect. At worst, the inherent order-loving nature can make them cold, introverted, punctilious, moralistic, overly fastidious, compulsive about personal health and cleanliness, obsessed with organization and mired in petty details. The Virgo quality of perfectionism can sometimes turn to cold-blooded ruthlessness and, on occasion, those governed by this Sign, having an object in view, will stop at nothing to attain it. Virgo natives of the higher type usually possess a rare psychic power. They are also capable of seeing through pretense. If the intellectual and spiritual side of the Virgo nature can be fully cultivated, then its natives will become wonderfully charming, magneti
I suggest reading paragraphs 2, and 4 for information that you hadn't known, or may be oblivious to. I'd say about 1/3 of this data is true, and the rest is crap. I however selected this outline to see If I could get peoples understanding in the general ball park of the Virgoan personality....but I see that MOST of the data is crap, and needs revision....
Second that motion: If one can only get the good qualities of another if, and only if, they have secured thier FULL desires .. then, they're tossers .. for this suggests that there's no room for considerations that someone doesn't live up to certain set of expectations.
lol "Good Samaritan" Virgos ideally don't treat their women like trash. So how could the girl hurt him behind his back, if she herself isn't getting hurt by him considering the fact that he is "such a gentleman". If the girl wasn't crazy when he met her, then how did she become crazy later on? Don't relationships have affects on humans in a positive or negative way? very odd how things end up that way, ain't it? I wonder......
Now for the question..the point? Well, to let them know:
A person who isn't helping themselves, isn't helping anyone else either.
Wouldn't you think? 🙂
You know, be a bud, help a friend. If not that, if you cared about them at all, you think you'd do yourself a favor to "help yourself" by at least helping the one you care about, and letting them in on a truth.
We're always going to be learning. If some humans haven't figured it out yet, at least plant a seed in them, so when they realize their mistake, they'll remember your words.
But if you really didn't care about the person, then go ahead, give up on him/her. I don't know, maybe cutting it cold turkey with someone is "helpful".
All a person can do is give of that bit of knowledge; I've got far too many things to do than to waste time mentoring every single person; first off, if you've got a problem admit it to yourself, so you can get over it. Anybody ever wonder why Virgos are so internally honest? Well, it's becuase we're typically looking past the problem into the solution. 'I know I've got this problem, BUT I can solve it by some means' that type of thinking.
I've got far too many things to do than to waste time mentoring every single person
Same here. I just let someone know when the problem arises. I'm a loner most of the time. I already know the point of very situation and where everything leads 95% of the time. You've got to throw in the manipulation factors too though. Like if someone knew more details than I did, then they would have more manipulation power..
Anywho... It is best to be internally honest, cause if you're not, then that wastes tons of time and brain space..it's like "Get to the truth already for yourself at least!" lol That is the best type of thinking.
Although possessed with the ability to sum up a situation or person at a glance, Virgo subjects are likely to keep their own counsel. Those who are well-acquainted with Virgo natives will love them for their fairness, but to those who will never come close to knowing the Virgo subject, he or she will always remain an enigma...a man or woman of mystery. The basic outlook here is slanted toward practical considerations in every facet of daily life. Hidden beneath the quiet and modest surface, however, is a deep-seated des