Virgo loves Virgo

Hello,

I am a Virgo 9/1/1952, and I am here because I love Virgos, and sometimes I just want to be around them. Other times it's good to learn to deal with all the other kinds, but I have known them all, and I know who I love the best.

I have been married to a very nice Taurus for 25 years. It didn't work out with the Virgos... it was too intense. But after 20 years I had to come back to my dear Virgo. We thought for awhile that we might end up together after all, but that is not to be. It's easier to be with someone who doesn't understand me, no danger of him getting too close, which could be exhausting. It's too hard to be faced with yourself 24/7.

I am not a cheater, exactly, I am very loyal, but I'm not past bending things around to what I need. My Virgo friend and I are very close, we're everything to each other. But it's all between the lines, unsaid. We just spend time every couple of weeks, have a drink and sit close together, or walk in the park.

He used to say (25 years ago) that he "didn't love me like that," I have to hand it to him he was always honest, and I used to be so agonized because I thought that was what I wanted. Now I think it all worked out for the best. But the story isn't over, either.

I like to hear from the Virgos on this board. Secretly I think we are the best, but of course I always behave very modestly and would never blow anyone's cover.

Athena

Certainly, it is more like good old friends now. Probably mostly because he is an addict, homeless and quite ill. And we're older, and I'm not really up for romance at the moment either. Four years ago, when we first came back together, we did have an affair. I was mostly the one who pushed for it, but he was willing, and more able in those days. It came to a point where he expected me to leave my husband, which is quite reasonable for any man. I discovered that I was not about to do that. We had a terrible fight and split for a few months. He thought I'd lied to him. I really hadn't, on purpose - I just hadn't thought it through or knew what I wanted. Anyway, we couldn't make it apart so we came back together, but under different circumstances. Since then we're content to be good friends with a lot of touching. He's the only one in the world I touch, and it's the same for him.

When we first met, him and also the first Virgo, in 1979, of course we were young, and there was a lot of romance and sexuality and drama. It didn't really fit our personalities that well, and it was agonizingly painful when we split. It blew up the mountain...! Number One went on to marry a nice Scorpio woman and I my Taurus. He came to my wedding and we solemnly swore to each other to be good from now on. Not sure how he would feel about my "adventure" with #2. But you do what you have to. The way I feel about #2 is everything. Sometimes there is more romance, sometimes more friendship, it is really deeper and other than either of those things. Perhaps my "brother," but he's a lot closer than my actual brothers. There is nothing that is not part of my feelings for him. But I can't put any name on it. I believe it goes beyond this lifetime or human understanding.

Athena

The thing about Virgo men is, they are perfect.

For me at least. Of course, I'm a funny one. Probably not perfect to any man. Even Virgo men would probably prefer a bit girlier of a girl than I am. I am just blunt, and what you see is what you get, except I'm actually really gentle and kind and would never hurt anyone on purpose, but I have a way of blurting out things.

But that's all about me, I didn't come on here to talk about me. I came here to talk about them! It is such a relief to be with a Virgo. For they always understand exactly. Like my friend. Even though he doesn't live a life style that I'd ordinarily "approve" of, even though I come from a realm that he would ordinarily never encounter, we're just all right with each other. He always understands. And we think each other smells good.

And they're smart. And they notice things, and care about what most would consider details. Yet are not judgmental. And have a sense of humor. And are quiet. Yet have a solidity and strength. I could go on and on.

I wrote a poem once, how all the other signs were wrong in some way - too energetic, too passive, too heavy, too light, too hot, too cold, etc. etc. but Virgo was the perfect man. I'm just a fan.

Athena

Back atcha dear!

I must say, I came here because I thought it would be a place filled with Virgos, and comfy like that (I always had a dream of living in a Virgo World, where everyone was polite and private and took care of themselves). Instead it seems to be mostly a place where people criticize and question Virgos! but at least are interested, and I suppose a part of us does love to teach and perhaps pontificate.

I am the admin of a board about Twin Soul love, http://twinsoulsandsoulmates.yuku.com/. Check it out if you're inclined (I'm iansa). I do love everyone there, but they all seem so different sometimes, like I don't understand where they're coming from. Could just be that most everyone is younger and at a different phase of life. There are a few Virgos, and more who are in the difficult (I suppose?) position of loving Virgos. As who wouldn't! So like I said I came here seeking Virgo companionship.

But other than HSD, are there any? Not that you are not enough of course my friend!

Athena

9 degrees Virgo, 11 degrees Aquarius moon. Barely Gemini rising - born at night.
"The expressionist painter" is the Sabian symbol.
Chinese Year of the Dragon.
The quintessential loner, but that's ok, I'm finally used to it and have made my peace.

Thank you for the names, I am glad it looks like I have reached the Virgo World after all. Where everyone is always welcome, of course!

Athena

Hi Athena...

Welcome to the Virgo Board. You made some statements that I as a Virgo can completely relate to. I am 19th September 1969, 26 degrees Virgo, Aquarius rising (humanity... lol like the Fifth Dimension song). Personality wise...I'm down to earth, very private and REAL. Flipside, I'm very caring, giving, supportive...always following my heart and also very honest (sometimes too blunt) and try to truly treat others with the same respect I'd expect in return. I am a girly girl blonde barbie often misunderstood and judged for the cover on my book.

I do agree that Virgo men are perfect in so many ways. By far, my closest male friendships and lovers have 80% been Virgo. I call some of them, my mirror. Because I feel by sharing my sign, they truly understand my needs without me ever having to ask. They're intelligent, non-judgemental, discreet, private, quiet, deep, intense (the eyes), funny, kinky as hell... I could go on forever. 🙂

As I am fairly new here, I offer a warm welcome to you and look forward to discussing all things Virgo here. 🙂

It has been an extremely long, exhausting day among all the people who are not Virgos. It is certainly restful and relieving to come hang out for a few minutes among at least some who are. I can't help but think life would be so much easier if this was my world.