capricorn31
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18 YearsCapricorn
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Virgos often make swift decisions based on details and perceived imperfections, sometimes without seeing the full picture. They may reconsider if they recognize genuine mistakes or if circumstances change, but typically prefer a clean break over prolonged conflict. Understanding Virgo decision-making involves patience and clear communication about expectations and improvements.





































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I'm trying to understand a re-occuring pattern with some Virgs behavior I've noticed, in personal life or business relations. Some make a sharp decision to end a relation(relationship with employee or partner)very recklessly. There is never a warning where a person can improve themselves with you guys despite how much good seems to be established of someones worth.
Why is everything NOTHING?? ..like you lack appreciation for anything you have, lack being able to see that WHOLE picture?...ugh, did I just answer that myself, ur so focused in the details you DONT see the big picture until its after execution?
Reason I say this, my boss and another I interviewed with, both Virgos expressed when I asked what happened to the previous person they "let go" suddenly, what they wanted done differently? I got this reply..
They became worked up, then muttered out, "I tolerate a lot, but they kept coming in 5 mintues late on occasion and I would have liked their desk to be kept neater."
Now, I understand this is unprofessional and Virgo vice. However, they went into explaining that the person they let go's work performance was excellent and they promoted them even, they were reaching their goals and were ambitious always. So I sat there thinking, professionally this person made their business better but because of smaller details that were not communicated by Virgo that bothered him he'd like changed he said... "Who needs someone smart and educated in my business, you didn't read my mind, good bye!" basically by that action.
Now, these two guys are before me looking worried as ever, remorseful and I suddenly became their therapist listening to how stressed they were at finding someone to start right away that new everything in 5 days.
As a Cap I thought they were idiots, who goes around being reckless like that when you have so much at stake established? But honestly I've read and experienced myself the famous ill hearted, "quick willed decisions" of such Virgos.
I'm just wondering what conditions does it take to go back on what you decided? Does this ever happen in life for you, you try to mend something you wronged? Does it take someone yelling to wake you up to this? Or is this the lack of wanting to confront a situation, so you just break free completely so its clean and thats why you would dismiss a starting over?